Isilumkiso: Esi sithuba siqulathe, njenge, iimvakalelo zakho kunye nezinto. Kananjalo nabonakalisi bobudlelwane bobuhlobo obuncinci be Ibali lam lothando ( I-ore Monogatari ). Ulumkisiwe.
Njengokukhula kweMillennial eMidwest America, ndaba nethamsanqa lokuhlala ekuhlaleni naphakathi kwabahlobo ababenentlobano zesini kwaye besamkela iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphila, nasesikolweni. Ngelixa ootitshala bethu bezempilo beqhubeka nokuziyeka njengeyona ndlela yokulawula inzala, bakwagubungela ezinye iindlela ezikhuselekileyo zokwabelana ngesondo kwaye bayenza yacaca into yokuba kwakuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nezi zibongozo. Yeyiphi eyona nto intle, kwaye umbono ombi ungcono kuneentloni okanye ukungahoyi isini sokufikisa ngokupheleleyo.
Xa ndijonga ngasemva, nangona kunjalo, ndinqwenela ukuba bangakhankanya ukuba kwakuqhelekile ngokugqibeleleyo hayi unayo loo mvakalelo, nayo.
Njengomntu ofikisayo, ndandingazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini i-asexual (kwaye ukuba awunayo, kuya kufuneka uyijonge le nto webcomic efikeleleka kakhulu ngaphambi kokufunda nangaphezulu). Andizange ndifunde igama kude kube ngunyaka wam wokugqibela ekholejini, kwaye andizange ndiqalise ukulisebenzisa ukuzichaza de kube ngunyaka odlulileyo. Okwangoku kuvakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga-ngakumbi kuba nam ndikwi-hetero-romantic, endinike ilungelo elininzi kwezentlalo kuba ndikwazi ukudibanisa ngokulula njenge-hetero gal-kwaye ndisaqhele ukuba ndivule ngayo. I-Intanethi iluncedo olukhulu. Ke ndine-shorthand epholileyo, kuba i-ace indenza ndizive ndingoyena mdlali ubalaseleyo kwiqela lezemidlalo le-anime.
Andithethi ngayo kakhulu kuba ndingathanda ukuba abantu bandazi ngothando lwam lwe-KU yomnyazi okanye iinoveli zikaTamora Pierce kunokhetho lwam lwezesondo, kodwa akukho mathandabuzo ukuba lube nefuthe kwimidla yam nakwintsebenzo. Ngokukhona ndonwaba ngakumbi nesazisi sam, kokukhona ndiya ndiziqonda kaninzi ukuba uLi'l Me wayequqa engafuni isiqinisekiso sokuba kukho abanye abantu kunye namabali afana nelakhe.
Kwaye, rhoqo, ndafumanisa ukuba ukumelwa hayi kwithelevishini yasentshona, ifilimu, okanye iinoveli, kodwa kwi-anime kunye nemanga.
Ngelixa kukho izinto ezizodwa, uninzi lwamajelo asentshona athambekele ekubeni phantse abe nogonyamelo ngokwesondo, kwaye phantse lonke uthotho lwabantu abadala kumabonwakude okanye kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya egxila kuyo. Inxalenye yam iyakuvuyela oko-thina kufanele siphila kwihlabathi apho ulutsha alunazintloni ngokuqhuba ngesondo kwaye sikhuthaza indlela yokuziphatha esempilweni okanye enoxanduva endaweni yengcinezelo-kodwa ngamanye amaxesha yenza abo kuthi sukuyenza uzive ngaloo ndlela uzibuze ukuba ngaba ikhona into engalunganga kuthi.
Ke mhlawumbi ayothusi into yokuba ndibuyele umva kwimiboniso yaseMelika ndithanda i-anime kunye ne-manga ngexesha lam lokufikisa. Amabali abo e-YA ahlala egxile kubuhlobo obusondeleyo, kunye nabalinganiswa abazixabisileyo iintsapho kunye nabahlobo babo ngokungakumbi okanye ngaphezulu kokuthanda. Kwaye kwanaxa bekukho ukuthandana (njengoko bekuhlala kunjalo), yayihlala inemvakalelo ngakumbi kunokwasemzimbeni, esi sibini singazange siqhubeke ngaphezu kokubambana ngezandla okanye ukwabelana ngokwanga.
Ngelixa eliphakathi lithatha ezinye (eziqondakalayo) flack kuzo zonke ezi zinto zicocekileyo, ubudlelwane bokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, njengomntwana bendiwathanda la mabali kuba zazintle kakhulu ukuthanda kwam. Ukwabelana ngeemvakalelo kunye nokuvala okufutshane? Ewe Nceda! Ewe bendisazi ukuba kukho i-epilogue engabhalwanga eyayine-G-rated encinci, kodwa bendinokuzenza ngathi kukuphela kwayo, kwaye ndihambe kwilifu elinombala wothando. Kwaye kwakwanele okwethutyana. Kodwa, uyazi, uhlobo alusekho.
Umcimbi apha kukuba uninzi lwala mabali ayisiyonyani yokwenyani ngaphandle kwama-homoerotic bromances okanye iiklasi ze-S zeentombazana ezizimeleyo ze-LGB, okanye abalinganiswa abangamadoda / ababhinqileyo abachaphazeleka kwisini esahlukileyo / ngokwesini . Ngapha koko, luhlobo oluchaseneyo, kuba le miboniso isebenza ngokungathi isini asikho kukonke , ezinokuthi zikhokelele kubalinganiswa abancinci, ukulungelelaniswa kobuntombi, kunye / okanye ukugwetywa okungafunekiyo komnqweno womzimba njengento engcolileyo okanye eyihlazo (oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kwintombazana entle ebonisa ukuba ijolise kubaphulaphuli abangamadoda amadala, kodwa nakumakhwenkwe akwishumi elivisayo aboniswe njengabaphambukayo ukulungiselela ukulala ngesondo).
Ngandlela thile, imeko ye-anime / manga yokungabeki bucala abalinganiswa bayo ayisiyonto ihlambulukileyo njengotyekelo lokujongwa kwabalinganiswa kwimithombo yeendaba zasentshona, kwaye zombini zihlala zikhokelela ekususeni ngokwesondo. Kwibali elichaza ngokuchanekileyo umlinganiswa we-ace (ubuncinci okwangoku kunyuka usiya kumelo), kungaphantse kube unayo ukwenzeka kwihlabathi okanye ekuhlaleni apho isondo lalibhekiswa ngqo, kungenjalo ngekhe ubenayo indlela yokwenyani yokubonisa umlinganiswa ukunqongophala yomdla kubaphulaphuli.
Kutshanje ndizifumene ndikhangela umlinganiswa we-ace ocacileyo kwimidiya yam-engabandi okanye eyothusayo okanye exakeke kakhulu, kodwa ngokucacileyo engenamdla-kwaye ndiqala ukucinga ukuba ndiza kuba nexesha elilula nale naliti bayingcwatyelweyo kwindawo yengca yendawo (hay, ndikuxelele ukuba ndihlala eMidwest). Kubekho abakhuphisana abambalwa- ILiwa ILemon yeLemon, Ithiyori enkulu yeBang Bang 'NguSheldon Cooper, UNozaki-kun ' s titular character-kodwa kuhlala kukho into ethile ebalini ekhonza ukunciphisa loo ngcamango yokumelwa, loo nto ivakalelwa kukuba le luphawu endinokulukhomba ukunceda ukucacisa indlela i-asexuality isebenza ngayo kum (nangona kucacile ukuba ndingazithethela kuphela; abanye banokuziva ngokwahlukileyo).
Kwaye ke, ngeli xesha le-anime, ndifumene ibali lam lothando. Okanye, ukusebenzisa iziphumlisi ezifanelekileyo: IBALI LAM lothando !!
Kwabo bangaziyo, Ibali lam lothando (ukusukela ngoku ukufutshane ukuya kwi-OreMono) yenye yezona zinto zisikiweyo, zihlekisayo zincinci zothando endakha ndonwabela ukubukela. Olu luhlu lubeka kubudlelwane obuthandekayo nobumnandi (nangona ngokuqinisekileyo bungagqibelelanga) ubudlelwane phakathi kweTakeo kunye neYamato, abantwana abaneziphoso kodwa abanomdla wokwenene. Ngaphandle kwamanyathelo athile, i-OreMono isebenza ngobukrelekrele ngokubhengeza isini kunye nohlobo oluthile, kwaye iyahlaziya ngokuthe ngqo kwindlela yayo yokutsala ngokwasemzimbeni kunye nolindelo lwenkcubeko (umzekelo, u-Yamato uhlala evulwa ngumlenze wesoka lakhe, kodwa uhlala esoyika ukuveza loo mnqweno woyika uya kubonwa njengongahlambulukanga ngenxa yawo).
Zonke zilungile ngezizathu zazo-kwaye ndixoxe nzulu ngazo iziqendu zam zeposi , nudge nudge - kodwa ndiyisebenzisa apha njengolwazi lwangemvelaphi ukuze uqonde ukuba sijongana nebali elinomdla wokwenene kwezesondo kunye nokwabelana ngesondo, kwaye yile nto eyenza ukuba omnye wabalinganiswa bayo abonakale ngakumbi.
Sunakawa Uluhlu oluhle lweSuna-min UMakoto (okanye, uyazi, uSuna ngokufutshane) ngumhlobo kaThato. Uthule kwaye ungenisile, ukhetha ukuchitha usuku efunda egumbini lakhe kunokuba aphume neqela elikhulu labantu, kwaye kunqabile ukuba nememes phambi kwabanye. Nangona kunjalo, uyikhathalele kakhulu iTakeo (kunye neYamato) kwaye uyakonwabela ngokwenyani ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo, nokuba yeyesithathu-ivili imihla embalwa ukubanceda ukuba bahlale bekhululekile.
Uye wawala nayo yonke intombazana eyakhe yamcela ngaphandle. Xa u-Takeo emnika i-flack ngenxa yayo (ndiyathanda u-Takeo kakhulu, kodwa unesini esibi kakhulu ngaphakathi kunye nokucalucalulwa ngokwesondo), uSuna ubanga ukuba unomdla kumantombazana njengamadoda alandelayo kodwa ucinga nje ukuba ubudlelwane buvakala budinisa. Ngoku, uninzi lwamantombazana luyamfumana enomtsalane kwinqanaba lokumchasa, kodwa ayikaze iboniswe njengomothuko kakhulu nje ngokuba yinto nje ecaphukisayo ekufuneka ejongane nayo, ke ndiyakuyithatha njengenxalenye yobomi bakhe kodwa hayi unobangela yokungathandi kwakhe.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokungafaniyo nabantu abaninzi abancinci, abalinganiswa abangatshatanga kwi-anime / manga abangazikhathalelanga okanye abangafezekanga kune-asexual (okt, kuyacaciswa ukuba ekugqibeleni baya kukhula baphume kuyo), uSuna lelona lungu liqwalaselekileyo kubalingisi, onovelwano kunye nokuqonda kunye nokukwazi ukubona umntwana okwishumi elivisayo onikwe i-twitter ukusuka kwimayile enye. Bobabini u-Takeo kunye no-Yamato bahlala beza kuye befuna indlebe yokumamela okanye ubudlelwane bobuhlobo, kwaye uyakhawuleza ukubazolisa okanye akhombe naziphi na izithuba kwingcinga yabo egudileyo.
Ayikuko ukuba akafumani ubudlelwane. Wenza. Kwaye ayisiyiyo ukuba ukrakra okanye uthandabuze malunga nothando, nokuba. Uhamba ngenqanawa iTakeo / Yamato kunaye nabani na ekhaya. Kukho lo mboniso ubalaseleyo kwisiqendu samva apho u-Yamato no-Takeo banomzuzu omnandi kunye ne-Suna, bencuma ecaleni, bethetha ngokuvakalayo: Oku kuhle. Uyayiqonda into ayithethileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza uzama ukuzichaza, kodwa u-lovestruck njengoko enjalo, esi sibini sicinga ukuba unqwenela ukuthandana yedwa kwaye aqale ukuqokelela iingqondo ukuze afumane intombi yakhe egqibeleleyo. Yonke into anokuyenza kukujonga ubuso kwaye ubacenge ukuba bayeke.
I-Suna ayisiyonto ingavakaliyo, ayilibale, ayikhulanga, ayinabukrakra, ikrwada, okanye (kufutshane njengoko sinokuthi siyixhalabise) U-OreMono akaze azame ukwenza ityala ukuba kukho into engalunganga kuye. Ungumntwana olungileyo, ozolileyo okwenzeka ukuba angabinamdla wokulandela ubudlelwane bakhe.
Kwaye, ndakuba ndiyifumene loo nto, okokuqala ngqa mhlawumbi ngonaphakade , Ndacinga: ndim lo.
Sunakawa Makoto ngu Mna .
Ngoku, ndinamandla e-jaded kweli nqanaba, ke ndinoluvo lokuba ayizukuhlala-ukuba uthotho ekugqibeleni luye luyekelele kwi-heteronormativity kwaye inike uSuna (non-asexual) ezothando. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ndinombulelo ngalo mzuzu, onamandla ngokumangalisayo kwaye eyinyani ukuqonda kunye nokuba ngowakho, njengokuqiniseka ukuba akukho mntu uya kukukhetha ukuba ube kwiqela le-dodgeball kwaye emva koko uve igama lakho libizwa ekugqibeleni.
Iphindaphindwa rhoqo ukuba iyinto yemantra ngeli xesha, kodwa ukumelwa kwimidiya kubaluleke kakhulu, bafana. Nokuba ungowesini sini, ubuhlanga, isini, ukuthanda wena, inkolo, inkcubeko, okanye nezinto ozithandayo. Nokuba umdala kangakanani okanye wamkela njani abahlobo okanye usapho lwakho okanye ucinga ukuba ukhululeke kangakanani (ekugqibeleni) ulusu lwakho. Ukubona umntu ojongeka okanye owenza okanye ocinga njengawe, oboniswe ngendlela elungileyo kwibali olikhathaleleyo, kunokukwenza uzive ungacacanga, uceke wedwa — kwaye mhlawumbi abanye abantu banokukuqonda ngcono, naye.
Intsomi ifuna i-Sunakawa Makotos yayo njengoko ifuna iGouda Takeos kunye neYamato Rinkos. Kwaye, okwangoku, ndonwabile ukuba sinaye.
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