Isilumkiso somxholo: udlwengulo, ukungaziphathi kakuhle.
Kwabaninzi abasetyhini abakwi-intanethi, ii-incels kudala bezisoloko zibubungqina obucekisekayo. Kodwa kude kube kutshanje, i-incel yayingelogama elaziwa ngabantu abaninzi. Abazali bakho, umzekelo, banokuthi bazi malunga neetrolls ezikwi-intanethi kodwa mhlawumbi babengaqhelananga nobunzima obuthile. Mva nje, nangona kunjalo, oko bekutshintsha.
Kubekho inani leeprofayili zokubulala ezenziwa ngabantu abazibhengeza, kwaye ii-incels zisandula ukubizwa yi-Anti-Defamation League njengeqela eliyingozi elinentiyo elinobudlelwane nobumhlophe.
Kwaye ngoku ii-incels zingene ngokupheleleyo kwi-zeitgeist ephambili, njengoko bebeyintloko kwiveki ephelileyo Umthetho kunye noMyalelo: SVU .
Kwesi siqendu, esithi Impindezelo, isigqubuthelo sokuhambisa ipitsa esifihlakeleyo sihlasela isibini ekhaya, sibetha indoda ngompu kwaye sidlwengula owasetyhini. Ngalo lonke eli xesha lobunzima, ubiza indoda enguChad kunye nomfazi uStacy, engengawo amagama abo. Esinye isibini sinokuhlangana okufanayo kungekudala emva koko.
Amapolisa ayakhubeka. Ngaba lo mfo ubethe idilesi engeyiyo? Ngoobani uChad noStacy? Kulabo baqheleneyo nemigaqo, kuyimizuzu eli-12 ebuhlungu (phantse isinye kwisithathu sesiqendu) phambi kokuba uCaris acinge ukuqhuba amagama kwiwebhu emnyama, ngokungathi la madoda awakho ngokulula kwimithombo yoluntu ephandwayo.
Kodwa kulapho kwiwebhu emnyama apho afunda khona malunga ne-incels, okanye i-celibates engazibandakanyiyo, nendlela abazaliswe ngayo ngumsindo ngenxa yokwaliwa isondo abaziva benelungelo. (Xa ekugqibeleni bezisa umntu okrokrelayo, ubiza isondo njengelungelo eliqinisekiswe ngumgaqo-siseko, njengenxalenye yolo lonwabo.)
Ucacisa indlela iiChads ezisebenza ngayo ngokwesondo ngokubona i-alpha yamadoda kunye neStacys ngabafazi abanomtsalane abalala ngesondo neChads. I-Ice-T chimes kuleyo yinto ehlekisayo kuba yiyo loo nto uThixo wasungula iihukuers. UCarisi uphendula athi abathengisi bezesondo bayinxalenye yengxaki. Kuba bantu, amadoda akufuneki ahlawule ngesondo. Umfazi kufuneka afune ukukholisa nayiphi na indoda, nangaliphi na ixesha.
Ngelixa umboniso unika intshayelelo enesidima yeli qela liyingozi, olu tshintshiselwano luyadanisa. Uluvo lokuba iingxaki ze-incels zinokusonjululwa ngabathengisi ngemizimba kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ibe yimpikiswano njengoko iyingozi. I-Incels ayingobantu abaqhelekileyo abanengxaki yokufumana imihla. Banomsindo, banelungelo, banokuba nobundlobongela obunobundlobongela obunobunkunkqele obunobunkunkqele ekuhloneleni kwabo abafazi. Abathengisi ngemizimba abanakusetyenziswa njengekhaka ukukhusela abanye abantu basetyhini kwiindlela zabo eziyingozi.
Uluvo lokuba abathengisi ngemizimba (okanye iirobhothi, njengoko kuhlala kucetyiswa) zinokulungisa ii-incels zikwacinga ukuba umba wabo kukuswela isini. Kodwa, njengolwaphulo-mthetho oluninzi ngokwesondo, ingcambu yomsindo wabo ayiyo malunga nesondo, imalunga namandla. Baziva benelungelo lokwabelana ngesondo kuba bakholelwa ukuba bangaphezulu kunabasetyhini, ukuba abafazi mababe yipropathi yabo, kwaye bayacaphuka kuba abantu basetyhini banakho ukubonisa iarhente. (Kungenxa yesi sizathu le nto ii-incels zihlala zibonisa iinkolelo zabamhlophe njenge-supremacist kunye nezo zesini. Banomsindo wokuba bengabonwa njengabongamileyo kunabafazi ne-POC.)
** Abaphangi ngesiqendu esingaphambili, ukuba yinto oyikhathaleleyo leyo. **
Isiqendu se SVU uphela une Abasemzini kuLoliwe -uhlobo lokujija, apho amadoda adibana khona kwi-Intanethi kwaye athengisa ngokudlwengula, ukuze umntu ngamnye abe ne-alibis xa umfazi awayefuna ukumjolisa (kwaye wayenokunxibelelana naye) wahlaselwa. Oko kuyilungele ngokupheleleyo inkcubeko ye-incel kuba, kwakhona, ayisiyomnqweno womfazi othile. Akukho malunga nokuchithwa okungafunekiyo. Imalunga nokubonisa amandla kubo bonke abantu basetyhini.
Okwangoku, inqaku elibalulekileyo lesiza livakala ngengozi. Kubonakalisiwe lonto SVU wenze imitsi ekwandiseni ukuqonda kwabaphulaphuli bayo ngemicimbi efana nemvume kunye nenkcubeko yokudlwengula. Kodwa ukujongana nale micimbi inzima kunokuba yinto engathandekiyo okanye ebhakwe ngesiqingatha, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo le yenye yezo meko. Ekugqibeleni, inkcazo yabo yolwaphulo-mthetho olwenziwe zezona zinto zibalulekileyo esidibana nazo zibotshelelwe kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kunye nonxibelelwano oluphosiweyo, kunye nemicimbi kamama.
Ekuvavanyeni ububi benkcubeko, SVU ifika phakathi. Kuyadanisa ukuba umxholo ekugqibeleni ushiywe kwinqaku lokuba umama wakhe ebengamxakanisanga okanye ukuba intombazana ifumene isimemo sakhe (kuyacaca ukuba wayenenombolo yefowuni ayichanekanga), mhlawumbi ngekhe ajike ngale ndlela.
Ndiyavuya SVU ikubhengeza okukuko kubaphulaphuli abanokuthi bangaqhelani neenkolelo zabo ezenyanyekayo, kodwa bekuya kuba mnandi ukubona ukujongwa okunzulu kwendlela yokuziphatha gwenxa, ubuhlanga, kunye nenkcubeko yokudlwengula inegalelo kuluntu lwamadoda athe phithi kukulawula kwamadoda amhlophe, endaweni yoko kunokuba ugxile kakhulu kukhuthazo oluqondakala lula lomntu omnye.
(H / T. Ixhalanga , umfanekiso: screencap, NBC)
