ILady Gaga iyayazi ukuba awuyithandi iSuti yayo kwaye ayikhathali. Bendifuna Ukubuyisa Amandla. Namhlanje ndinxibe ibhlukhwe.

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U-Lady Gaga wayengomnye wabasetyhini ababhiyozelwayo Bona Abafazi kumnyhadala waseHollywood phezolo. Xa wabetha ikhaphethi ebomvu enxibe isuti kaMarc Jacobs ene-ultra-oversized, impendulo yayingathandeki kwaphela. Iibhlog zefashoni kunye nabasebenzisi be-Twitter bahlekisa ngenkangeleko. Ukuthelekiswa kweKardashian kwandile.

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Kodwa kwintetho yakhe yokwamkela amabhaso, uchaze indlela yokuqiqa. Kwaye ngelixa kungafuneki ukuba uyithande inkangeleko, kunzima ukuba ungahloniphi kwaye uvelane nokukhetha.

Ndizamile kwilokhwe emva kwengubo namhlanje ndilungiselela lo msitho, i-corset eqinileyo emva kwenye, isithende esinye emva kwenye, idayimane, intsiba, amawaka amalaphu anobuhlalu kunye neesilika ezintle kwihlabathi. Ukunyaniseka, ndiziva ndigula esiswini, utshilo. Kwaye ndazibuza: Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumfazi eHollywood? Asizonto nje zokuzonwabisa ngehlabathi. Asingomfanekiso nje wokuzisa uncumo okanye iigrimines ebusweni babantu. Asingawo amalungu okhuphiswano lobuhle olukhulu olwenzelwe ukuba simelane ngokuchasene nolonwabo loluntu. Thina bafazi baseHollywood, singamazwi. Sineengcinga ezinzulu kunye nemibono kunye neenkolelo kunye neenqobo ezisemgangathweni malunga nehlabathi kwaye sinamandla okuthetha kwaye siviwe kwaye silwe nathi xa sithulisiwe.

Uthe xa azama isuti, wadibana nembono eqaqambileyo yamehlo andijonge ngokudideka. Kodwa imvakalelo yesuti yamenza ukuba abe neemvakalelo. Kule suti, ndaziva ngathi nam namhlanje. Kule suti, ndaziva inyani yokuba ndingubani kakuhle emathunjini am. Kwaye ndizibuze ukuba ndifuna ukuthini le ngokuhlwanje kucace gca kum.

UGaga uqhubeke nokuvula malunga nokuhlaselwa kwakhe ngokwesondo. Xa wayeneminyaka eyi-19, wahlaselwa yindoda kwishishini lokuzonwabisa, angakhange ayichaze ngegama. Emva kohlaselo, utshilo, watshintsha ngonaphakade. Uqhubeke, Icandelo lam livaliwe iminyaka emininzi. Khange ndixelele mntu. Ndiziphephe ngokwam. Kwaye ndaziva ndineentloni nangoku ndisemi phambi kwakho. Ndiyaziva ndineentloni ngento eyenzeke kum. Ndisenayo imihla apho ndiziva ngathi yayiyimpazamo yam. Emva kokuba ndibelane ngento eyenzeke kum namadoda anamandla kakhulu kolu shishino, akukho mntu wandincedayo. Akukho namnye owanikezela ngesikhokelo sam okanye isandla esincedayo ukuba undikhokelele kwindawo apho ndaziva khona ubulungisa, zange bandikhombe nakwindlela yoncedo lwempilo yengqondo endandiludinga kakhulu. Loo madoda azimela kuba esoyika ukuphulukana namandla awo. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba bazifihla, ndaqala ukuzifihla.

Iminyaka, kamva, wafunyaniswa ukuba une-PTSD kunye neFibromyalgia (abantu abaninzi abangacingi ukuba iyinyani, kwaye andazi nokuba yintoni le ndiyitshoyo malunga naloo nto).

Njengomntu osindileyo ekuhlaselweni ngokwesondo ngumntu othile kwishishini lokuzonwabisa, njengowasetyhini ongekabi nesibindi sokuchaza igama lakhe, njengowasetyhini ophila nentlungu engapheliyo, njengowasetyhini owayenemeko esemncinci kakhulu ukuba amamele oko amadoda andixelele ukuba ndenze, ndithathe isigqibo namhlanje ndifuna ukubuyisa amandla. Namhlanje ndinxibe ibhlukhwe.

Ke akukho, akufuneki uyithande impahla kaLady Gaga. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ucinge ukuba intle okanye iyathandeka. Kodwa loo nto intle kakhulu. Nangona kufanelekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le suti yayingeyonto nje yakudala ikhutshwe kwikhabhathi yomntu. Ivela kuMarc Jacob NgeNtwasahlobo ka-2019 umgca. Ke ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ngaphezulu, iisuti zamandla ezi-comfy ze-AF ziya kuba ngumkhwa wabasetyhini kungekudala, kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo, andinasikhalazo ngaloo nto.

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