Ukukhula, kubonakala kum ngathi amakhwenkwe ahlala ebizwa kuqala. Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba babezithembile ngakumbi, okanye mhlawumbi kungenxa yootitshala bam, kodwa kwandithatha ixesha elide ukuba ndifunde ukuphakamisa isandla sam ngentumekelelo kaHermione Granger.
Ukuva ukuba intombi encinci kaJake Tapper, uAlice, umile amantombazana akwiklasi yakhe indenza ndizive ndinelunda kwaye ndinethemba kwisizukulwana esilandelayo sabantwana.
Eli bali lihle uJake Tapper, i-anchor ye-CNN kunye I-Twitter yenqanaba , ekwabelwana ngayo malunga nentombi yakhe eneminyaka eli-11 ubudala ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wento amantombazana ekufuneka eye kuyo yonke imihla-kwaye kuthatha njani ukuba ontanga baqwalasele.
Kwi-2016, intombi yam uAlice waqaphela ukuba amantombazana awaphakamisi izandla eklasini ngokuzithemba okufanayo ukuba amakhwenkwe ayenjalo. Wathetha ngayo nomama wakhe / umfazi wam, yena @lukhanyom umkhosi, intloko ye-Girl Scouts yendawo @GSCNC kwaye yeza nombono WOKUPHAKAMISA ISANDLA SAKHO.
-UJake Tapper (@jaketapper) Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesibhozo ku-Matshi 2019
Umntu oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala wayibona ingxaki. Akunabo ootitshala okanye abanye abantu abadala, kodwa kunokuba intombi kaJake Tapper. UAlice kuye kwafuneka ukuba abonise ukuba bekukho umba osebenzayo, ewe, isandla. Wenza iinjongo zakhe ukunika amantombazana ukuzithemba ukuba azimele kwaye aphendule imibuzo ngohlobo olufanayo lwenkuthalo olwenziwa ngabafana eklasini yakhe. Oku kwandenza ndacinga emva ukuba kwakunjani ukuba sesikolweni kwaye ndibizwa ngokuba ndiyazi konke.
Xa ndandiminyaka ka-Alice, sayihoya kakhulu ingxaki ekhoyo kwezinye izikolo, apho amakhwenkwe anokulawula kwigumbi lokufundela, oko kube sengozini yeminikelo evela kubafundi ababhinqileyo. Saphinda safundiswa ukuba xa inkwenkwe ikuqhula, ukuba ikwenza intlekisa phambi kwabahlobo bayo, oko kuthetha ukuba iyakuthanda, okanye ukuyihleka uyijongise phantsi intloko. Ukukhula kwam, ndandiphantsi kwengcinga yokuba ukubizwa ngokuba ndiyazi konke ngabafana eklasini kwakungumqondiso wothando. Kodwa kwakungenakwenzeka ukungahoyi ukuba kwathiwa ngendlela ethoba isidima.
Into endandingayiqondi ngelo xesha kukuba kutheni ootitshala bam bengandibizi. Ukujonga emva, inokuba zizizathu ezininzi. Mhlawumbi bayazi ukuba ndiyayiqonda into eyenzekayo kwaye ndifuna ukunika abanye abafundi ithuba, okanye mhlawumbi abafuni ukuba ndim oza kuphendula izinto kuba ndiyintombazana, okanye mhlawumbi bathanda abona bantwana bangxolayo abadubula izandla ngokuzithemba okupheleleyo kwaye ndingakhathali ukuba oko kuhlala kungabandakanyi amantombazana kunye nabafundi abaneentloni. Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko, indenze ndaqala ukuzibuza. Indenze ndazibeka phantsi ndabuza ubukrelekrele bam kwaye ndiyibeka phantsi kwamakhwenkwe akwiklasi yam, ababehlala bethetha kodwa bengabhalwanga ukuba bayazi konke.
UAlice wenza into engakholelekiyo, enika oontanga bakhe ukuzithemba kubukrelekrele babo obubafaneleyo. Baza kufumana ukubamba ibheji ebonakalayo ezandleni zabo. Kodwa le nzame ikwafuna ukuba kootitshala. Akunakubakho nje ukuba amantombazana ngokuzithemba aphakamise izandla, kufuneka abakhuthaze ukuba benze njalo, kwaye bavume ubukrelekrele babo ngokufanelekileyo.
Abantwana banokuthetha krwada, banokuqhula, kodwa kubuhlungu ngakumbi xa utitshala okanye umntu onegunya engancedi, okanye, okubi nangakumbi, ngunobangela wokungazithembi. Ndibeka ukuzithemba kwam kwisizukulwana esilandelayo ukuba sibengcono kunesizukulwane sam. UAlice unentloko ebalekayo.
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