Kukho iakhawunti yeTwitter enikezelwe kwi-AITA (Ngaba ndingu-Asshole?) Reddit evumela abasebenzisi ukuba babuze… kakuhle, nokuba ngaba bayimpundu kwimeko ethile okanye hayi. Ingxaki? Uninzi lwexesha, iimeko ziyabacaphukisa ngandlela thile okanye enye (singasathethi ke ukuba ezinye zazo ngamabali obuxoki ayilelwe ukuba yiyo kanye).
Ngeli xesha, indoda eneminyaka eyi-29 yagqiba ekubeni ibhale malunga neholide awayeyithatha kunye nosapho kunye nentombi yakhe. Intombi yakhe, engutitshala kwaye yenza ngaphantsi kwe-50k ngonyaka, ayinayo imali ayisebenzisayo ayenzayo ngelixa esenza i-150k ngonyaka kwaye evela kusapho oluhle, kunye nexabiso lentengo abacinga ukuba lifanelekile ngela holide — kunye nazo zonke izidlo nezinto ezazisenziwa kuyo — yayiphakame kancinci kunokuba wayenokukwazi ukuyenza.
Nangona yena usebenze umsebenzi wempelaveki ukonga nje ukuya kuhambo, iyaphela ayikabi nayo imali eyaneleyo yokugcina ukuthanda kwezinto ezibizayo kwendoda kunye nosapho, kwaye ngandlela thile wathi ukutsiba kwakhe ukutya kunye nokushiya imisebenzi kuye kunokuba nengxaki yokutya endaweni yoko yokuqonda ukuba intombi yakhe, ayinakukwazi ukubhatala zonke izinto ezibiza kakhulu usapho lwakhe.
Nantsi iposti epheleleyo yokufunda kwakho (dis) uyolo:
I-AITA ngokumema intombi yam (29M) (28F) kwiholide ebiza kakhulu kwaye ilindele ukuba ihlawule sonke isabelo sayo? (Ndenza okuninzi kunaye) https://t.co/bFad8kfOIV pic.twitter.com/UEhi991yMk
- NdinguMpundu? (@AITA_reddit) NgoJuni 28, 2021
Mholweni. Intombi yam, mna, abazali bam, kunye nomntakwethu kunye nenkosikazi yakhe bonke baya eholideyini kwelinye ilizwe kwiveki ephelileyo. Mna nomntakwethu ibingabo abenze ucwangciso lokuhamba nangona besicele wonke umntu ukuba enze igalelo. Ngemvelaphi, ndenza malunga ne- $ 150,000k njengomcebisi we-IT, intombi yam eyintombazana ingutitshala owenza i $ 45,000k. Abazali bam batyebile kwaye ngumnakwethu nodadewethu.
Intombi yam ibisazi ukuba olu hambo luza kwaye yathatha umsebenzi wesibini wokulinda ngeempelaveki kangangeenyanga ezininzi ukuyilungiselela. Besisoloko sohlula-hlula izinto 50/50 kwiminyaka emi-2 sikunye. Kwakukho amaxesha ambalwa ekhefini xa wayengayokuphuma kunye nathi- ukungcamla iwayini / ukuntywila emanzini / njl. Kananjalo angatya kuphela ukutya oku-2 ngosuku, echaza nje ukuba ukwabhajethi. Usapho lwam luthanda ngakumbi kwiindawo eziphezulu (* ezibizayo *). Abazali bam bacinga ukuba kuyamangalisa ukuba atye kuphela ukutya okungu-2 ngemini nangona ngesiqhelo etya kathathu.
Ukufika kwethu ekhaya ndambuza ukuba kutheni aphume kohambo oluninzi kwaye atye kuphela ukutya okungu-2 ngemini- ndikhankanyile indlela endasiva ngayo isisu sakhe sibhomboloza ngobunye ubusuku ndathi ndikhathazekile malunga nokuba nengxaki yokutya. Wayenenyembezi kwaye wathi ukutya oku-3 ngemini kwakungeyonto inokwenzeka kuye kwaye kwakungekho nezokuphuma azikhethele ukungahambi kuzo (waya kwi-3 kwezi-6 zokuphuma). Uthe ebengalindelanga ukuba yonke into izakubiza imali engaka kwaye ebephethwe ngamandla.
Uye wathi akazi ukuba izakusebenza ixesha elide na ukuba kulindeleke ukuba aye kwiholide ezinje nabantu abenza okungaphezulu kunaye. Ndiva kabuhlungu kuba ndingakhange ndimthabathe kwangoko ukukhathazeka kwakhe. Kodwa sivumile ukwahlulahlula yonke into ngo-50/50 kwaye andazi ukuba kutheni evumile ukuza ukuba iindleko ingumba na.
Ngoku, ukuba ufana nam, unomsindo nje ukuba le ndoda inokuba dense kangaka. Ayikuko nje ukuba krwada kwakhe nosapho ukuba bacinge ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo nale ntombazana ingatyi kathathu ngemini-enokubangela abantu, ngakumbi ukuba bayasokola ukutya-kodwa kule meko, isoka Ndiyazi Wayesebenza nzima ngendlela engummangaliso nokuba eze ekhefini kwaye Ndiyazi yenze malini ngonyaka
Awunomsindo ngokwaneleyo? Ewe, uphendule nabo basabela gwenxa ebalini, eqinisekisa ukuba uyinyani.
Ezona zimvo zibangela umsindo zinokuza okulandelayo. Zonwabele. pic.twitter.com/Rvpj9JppOD
- Jen (@such_hockey_wow) NgoJuni 28, 2021
WONA UNGCONO KAKHULU KUNAWE, OP. pic.twitter.com/pIKdHsX1Nj
- Jen (@such_hockey_wow) NgoJuni 28, 2021
Nantsi into: andicingi ukuba ngenxa yokuba usenza imali engaphezulu kufuneka unyanzelwe ukuba uhlawule enye ebalulekileyo. Ayisiyiyo le nto imalunga noku. Le ndoda, nangona kunjalo, iyazi ukuba intombi yakhe yenza okungaphantsi kunaye, iyazi ukuba olu luhambo olubiza kakhulu, kwaye iyaqonda ukuba usapho lwayo luhambile, kwaye ngequbuliso iye yanyanzelwa ukuba iye yagqobhoza iesile layo ukuze iqhubeke iholide kwaye andinakukwazi ukwenza yonke into? Leliphi ilizwe ebengayi kucinga ukuba angalinika ukutya? Okanye ubuncinci ubuze ukuba ingaba wayelungile na xa wayekuhambo okanye kwakutheni ukuba engezi nabo kule misebenzi?
Umbono wokuba ebefanele ukuba uyazi ukuba zingakanani ezi ndleko kuba umbonise apho wonke umntu akhethe khona ayisosizathu, nokuba. Ukuba wonke umntu usekwe kuzo zonke ezi zinto zibizayo kwaye akanako ukuzifikelela, kutheni kuye kwafika yena ukucebisa ngokuya kwindawo encinci? Uyisoka lakhe kwaye olu lusapho lwakho, kwaye UNONKE ulwazi olufunekayo ukuze wazi ukuba akanako ukuchitha imali eninzi njengabo. Ke thatha imbumbulu, cela usapho lwakho ukuba luye kwindawo engabizi kakhulu, okanye unikezele nje ngokubhatala, hayi ngendlela enosizi.
Ewe ewe, ulisile. Kwaye andikhathali nokuba ufuna ukuyithethelela njani impendulo yakho. Unokuba uncede umfazi othi uyamkhathalela kwaye akazange akwenze.
(umfanekiso: Netflix)
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