Xa ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiphume ndikulindele ukuba kufuneka ndongeze ukuhlambalaza abantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabantu abathandana nabantu abathandanayo kuluhlu lwam oluqhubekayo lweendlela abantu abanokundizonda ngazo (bendisele ndinolucalucalulo, isini, kunye nehlazo elinzima kwikhadi lam lebhingo yengqondo). Ndinyanisile ndicinga ukuba uninzi lwethu luyayenza le nto. Sizama ngokuzilungiselela ukuzilungiselela inzondo, nokuba kungenxa yokuba siyibonile buqu, okanye ngenxa yokuba sikubonile ukubaluleka kobomi besini-kumajelo osasazo-bobabini abezobupolitika ababubuxoki kunye nobomi bokwenyani baqhubeka nokudlulisa amatyala amaxesha ocalu-calulo.
Into endandingakulungelanga kwaphela yayiyintlobo yentiyo ethi iphoswe kwindawo yokuhlala. Akusoloko islur okanye umzamo ocacileyo wokusibuyisela umva kumashumi eminyaka, ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwe phantsi kokuzenza inkxalabo .
Umzekelo omnye wenkxalabo? Ngaba umntu akazukucinga ngabantwana?
Kuya kuvela Iimpawu zeBlues kunye nawe NGABA ubucinga ngabantwana, kodwa ndijongile iintsapho zimatsha nganye nganye Ndabona ukuba le ngoma ininzi kakhulu kum, nayo.
Umngcelele, usingathwe ngu- Tsala ugqatso I-alum Nina West, ineempawu zeentsapho ezilishumi ezithatha inxaxheba kwi-Pride parade. Ingoma ngumdlalo weklasikhi, iimbovane zihamba ngomatshi, kwaye zibhiyozela iintlobo zeentsapho zasebukhosini (kunye namahlakani) zijikeleza iiflegi kwaye zinxibe imibala yazo ehambelana nempahla kunye nezinto zoncedo. Iparade, njengoko abanye kuTwitter beqaphele, zongeze iinkcukacha ezintle ukuqaqambisa izazisi ezahlukeneyo kuluntu.
Imikhondo eblues ethatha ixesha ukunika le beaver top scars indenza ndizive ndinemvakalelo ezininzi ngl pic.twitter.com/tjYf70w5L0
-UJack ukwisihogo fanfic seDR (@WaferBiscuits) Ngomhla wama-29 ku-Meyi 2021
Umngcelele ukwabonisa uthando kwamanye amaqela abahlelelekileyo kuluntu lwasebukhweni.
KUTHENI KWAKUNGEKHO MNTU ONDIXELELA UKUBA KUKHO I-LESBIAN HIJABI OWL KWI-BLUES CLUES PRIDE PARADE. pic.twitter.com/3BLW3MtUmh
- Xia! / Simahla & # x1f1f5; & # x1f1f8; (@aeniiac) NgoJuni 1, 2021
Njengokuba uninzi luchazile, eli candelo leemizuzu emithathu enesiqingatha linike owona mzobo mkhulu wokufuna esiwubonileyo kwithuba elide- ukuba kunje!
Eli candelo lekhathuni labantwana linokumelwa okungaphezulu kunayo nayiphi na enye into phaya kwaye iyanyibilika intliziyo yam ebandayo yesitabane & # x1f972; & # x1f3f3; ️ & # x1f308; & # x1f49c; pic.twitter.com/ppWns4UZEQ
-U-Eugene Lee Yang (@EugeneLeeYang) Ngomhla wama-29 ku-Meyi 2021
Ke kutheni le nto ingumcimbi omkhulu kangaka kumntu wam okhule ngokupheleleyo?
Inyani yile (njengoko ndiqinisekile ukuba ezantsi kunye nezimvo ezingazukufundwa kuYouTube zibonisa) kukho abantu abaziva ngathi umntu onomama ababini okanye ootata ababini kunzima kakhulu ukubachazela abantwana. Abantwana banjalo mncinci kakhulu ukuyiqonda ngoba amandla osapho ngoku kukubuya kwesibini kweCalucus. Nolwimi olusetyenziselwa ukuveza ezo ngxaki luyenzakalisa ngokungeyomfuneko. Veza ? Njengokuba umntwana ubona umzi onothando unjalo ukubhenca ukuya kwintsholongwane.
Sihlala sithetha malunga nokuba le mpapasho ye-R ukuya kwi-clutch mentality iyingozi njani kubantwana. Umntwana ozama ukumkhusela unokuthi, enyanisweni, abe ngqindilili, kodwa nokuba abayanga, baya kuthi, i-1000%, banqumle iindlela zomntu osisitabane ngaxa lithile ebomini. Ukufundisa ukunyamezelana nomntu owahlukileyo kunawe uhlala eyiyo, kwaye kwangoko usasaza lo myalezo, ungcono.
Uyazi ukuba ngubani omnye umntu onqanda amehlo akho, mntwana, kuba isitabane esiza ngengqondo siza kubuhlungu?
Mna nabanye abantu abadala kule ndawo.
Uhlobo lokunganyamezelani olwenza abantu boyike ubukho bam kuba abantwana babukele baphela bekhulisa abantu abadala abaneengcinga. Inzondo enje ayiyonto ozelwe nayo, iyafundiswa, kwaye idluliselwe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana.
Ngapha koko, ikwenza uzibuze. Njengam, ndinjalo ngokwenene ingozi kubantwana kuba ndisitabane?
Ngaba ndifanele ndihlale kude nabo?
Kuya kufuneka ndixoke xa bendibuza ukuba ngubani inenekazi elinomsesane ofanayo emnweni wakhe? Nokuba bendihleli nela nenekazi phantse iminyaka engamashumi amabini?
Njengomfazi omnyama omnyama ohleli njengabalinganiswa abafana Inkosazana uTiana , uya kwiindibano ze-geek, kwaye ngubani owenza iipaneli ngokufuna ukumelwa ngakumbi kumajelo eendaba, andicingi ukuba ndizilungiselele uloyiko olucacileyo lwabanye abantu abadala ngokubhekisele kubantwana, ugh, kucacisiwe kuluntu lwasebukhosini. Ndiyayikhumbula isiza kwiphaneli yabalandeli beDisney xa umntu othile wakhankanya ukuba ufuna ikumkanikazi yeDisney engummangaliso.
Ndingabachaza njani abantwana bam?
Abantwana abayidingi ukubona into umdala kangaka .
Njengokuba ndishumayela umyalezo wokuphila ngenyaniso yakho, umbono wokuba bubomi bam, nomsebenzi wam, kunjalo umdala kakhulu yabantwana banamathela kum. Njengokuhlekisa njengoko umbono wawuzwakala kum, eneneni, okwethutyana, NDISEBENZILE kum. Okwethutyana, khange ndicinge ukuba ndingabhala umsebenzi wam wokubhala njengombhali we-indie oselula kuba abalinganiswa bam bayafana. Ndaye ndagqibela ngayo ekugqibeleni, kodwa loo nto yokucinga ngokuzimela kuthetha ukuba umntu omdala iyakuqinisekisa ukuba indlela yakho yokuphila ayenzelwanga bantwana, nokuba loo ndlela yokuphila ndingumbhali onomfazi kunye neekati ezintathu ze-buthead.
Ke xa ndibona inkqubo yabantwana ithatha ixesha lokonwaba, umbhiyozo woKhukhumala onemibala eqaqambileyo enezazisi ezininzi ezimelweyo, iyandibonisa ukuba ubomi bam abuyongozi kwizizukulwana ezisencinci njengokuba abantu bezenzile. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu bayathula, kwaye abo bantu bafuna ukuphathwa ngentlonipho efanayo efunyanwa ngumntu wonke.
Khawuleza!
Enkosi, Luhlaza.
(Umfanekiso: Nickelodeon)
Ngaba ufuna amanye amabali anje? Yiba ngumbhalisi kwaye uxhase indawo!
-UMary Sue unemigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo yokuphawula engavumiyo, kodwa ayikhawulelwanga, ukuthukwa nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
