Ndithathe isigqibo sokuba ndinganxibi ibra namhlanje kwaye ndikhutshiwe eklasini bc omnye wootitshala bam ukhalaze esithi yinto ephazamisayo kubafana beklasi yam. Isikolo sam ngokusisiseko sandixelele ukuba imfundo yamakhwenkwe ibaluleke kakhulu kunam kwaye kufuneka ndibenentloni ngomzimba wam. @Zintleyi :)
- liz (@lizzymartineez) Epreli 2, 2018
Olunye usuku, elinye ibali elinomsindo malunga neekhowudi zokunxiba zesikolo ukohlwaya amantombazana amancinci ngokuba nemizimba.
U-Lizzy Martinez, umfana oneminyaka eli-17 ubudala kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo i-Braden River, wayenxibe ihempe ka-Calvin Klein enemikhono emide engena bra kwiveki ephelileyo. Uye watsalwa eklasini waziswa i-dean's office, apho waxelelwa ukuba amabele akhe ayaphazamisa kwaye inkwenkwe yayihlekisa ngaye. UMartinez waxelelwa ukuba wophula indlela yokunxiba yesikolo (nangona oku kungachazwanga ngokukodwa kumgaqo-nkqubo wesikolo), kwaye wanikwa ii-Band-Aids ezine ngumongikazi wesikolo sakhe ukuba abeke iingono zakhe. Uye walila ebathroom emva koko.
Ndothukile kukuba ibiyinto enkulu le yokuba ndinganxibanga bra, uxelele Iindaba eziBuzzfeed , Uninzi lweentsuku andinxibi. Kuxhomekeka kwimood yam. Andinxibanga enye ngoku, kwaye kutheni kufanelekile? Wongeze ngelithi wayengonwabanga ukubuyela kutitshala owayekhalaza ngebele lam.
Umama wakhe, uKari Knop, naye uphawule ngesi sehlo, esithi ngumzekelo onyanyekayo womgangatho ophindwe kabini kwaye ubonisa indlela inkcubeko yethu ebahlaza ngayo abantu basetyhini. Ukuba inkwenkwe ibijonge iingono zakhe ixesha elide kutheni engathethwanga okanye ohlwaywe? Waqhubeka:
Lo mbandela wonke wawundivule amehlo kwaye ubeka izinto ngendlela eyiyo kuba ndinonyana oneminyaka eli-13 ubudala kwaye, ngelo xesha ubudala, banee-erections ngengozi kwaye akukho mntu ubabizayo okanye abathumele ekhaya… Kutheni le nto Intombazana eneminyaka eli-17 ubudala ibele ihamba ngokwahlukileyo? Yingqokelela yeeseli ezinamanqatha.
UMartinez ukwathe, Baye bandinxiba ihempe yesibini emva koko ndema ngeenyawo, ndathi, ndashukuma kwaye ndatsiba ndibone ukuba amabele am ahamba kangakanani. Oku kuvakala ngathi akukho nto imfutshane kukuhlukumeza kunye nehlazo elihlazo. Ndabulawa, utshilo uMartinez, owayethumela umyalezo kwiTwitter yesikolo (eyamthintelayo).
Yeka ukulala ngesondo emzimbeni wam @iqosweb
- liz (@lizzymartineez) Epreli 2, 2018
* isikolo sifake ibhandeid phezu kweengono zakhe kuba sisiphazamiso emva koko sibathintele ekubabizeleni kuye ukuba bamlalise *: / pic.twitter.com/x8dEDYjh2c
- liz (@lizzymartineez) Epreli 3, 2018
Umcebisi jikelele wesithili uMitchell Teitelbaum, wakhupha ingxelo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kamva, ethi:
Lo mbandela waziswa kwiOfisi yeNtsumpa ukuze uyiqwalasele. Ayinakuphikiswa into yokuba lo mbandela bekufanele ukuba usingathwe ngendlela eyahlukileyo kwinqanaba lesikolo kwaye kuthathwe amanyathelo okulungisa ukuthintela ukuphinda kwenzeke ngendlela eya kuthi le miba isonjululwe kwixesha elizayo… Kwakukho ukwaphulwa koMgaqo weSinxibo weSikolo kwaye wawungumthetho Umcimbi ofanelekileyo oza kujongwa siSikolo. Kucacile ukuba injongo yamagosa esikolo yayikukunceda umfundi ekusombululeni le meko. Khange kuthathwe manyathelo oluleko ngokunxulumene nomfundi.
Ngokusisiseko, ngelixa besithi lo mcimbi awuzange uphathwe ngokufanelekileyo, kufanelekile ukuba isikolo siwuphathe njengokwaphula imigaqo yokunxiba. Isikolo ngoku sikwinkqubo yokulungisa indlela yokunxiba ukuze sifune iibrasi nezambatho zangaphantsi. Nokuba baya kuyilungisa nayiphi na inqaku likaMartinez okanye leKnop akucaci, utsho uBuzzfeed.
Le meko ayisiyonto intsha okanye ayothusi, njengoko sihlala sibona amabali malunga namantombazana afumana ukophulwa kwekhowudi yokunxiba yemitya ebonakalayo, ibhulukhwe emfutshane, nayo yonke enye into. Ipateni ekhathazayo yala mabali kukuba ahlala esabelana ngesondo namantombazana amancinci kuba nje enemizimba. Ukuthumela intombazana ekwishumi elivisayo eofisini okanye ukuyithumela ekhaya isinxibo sayo kuthetha ukuba imfundo yayo ayibalulekanga njengaleyo yamakhwenkwe ekuthiwa iyayiphazamisa. Kwaye ukumnyanzela ukuba ahambe kwaye atsibe? Akunakuphikiswa kwaphela oko.
Ukubohlwaya amantombazana amancinci ngenxa yokuba kukuphazamiseka kuthumela umyalezo wokuba yimpazamo yabo ukuba abanye abantu bajonge kubo, kwaye kuqhubela phambili izimvo zokubeka ityala amaxhoba (ngakumbi, ootitshala ) kwaye abafana abanakuthenjwa ukuba bazilawule.
