** Abaphangi ngexesha lokugqibela lesithathu le- Ibali lesicakakazi . **
Ukuvezwa ngokupheleleyo: Ndandilila ngokupheleleyo ngexesha lokugqibela le-3 yokugqibela kaHulu Ibali lesicakakazi , xa uMoira wakhwela inqwelo-moya kwaye uKiki / Rebecca wabuza ukuba le yindawo apho anganxiba khona nantoni na ayifunayo, emva koko umntwana wahlehla wabaleka waya kuwolana noyise. Ndilapha ukuze ndilawulwe ngokwasemphefumlweni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphelisa ixesha lokuhlangulwa kobugorha babantwana baseGiliyadi bekuyingxaki ngeendlela nje… ngeendlela ezininzi — okona kubaluleke kakhulu, umbono wokuba abantwana kufuneka bahlangulwe (kwaye abanye bashiye ngasemva) uqinisekisa isiseko esisisiseko seGiliyadi: abantwana babaluleke kakhulu kunabanye abantu, ngakumbi abantu ababhinqileyo.
Okokuqala, ndingathanda ukubonisa ukuba ukuthatha iqela labantwana kude nabona bazali babaziyo / iintsapho abakhe bahlala nazo kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo, kukodwa, kuyinto ekhohlakeleyo- nokuba abo bazali bayaziqhelanisa Uhlobo olugwenxa lobuKristu olungavumeli ukuzimela kwabasetyhini. Ukuba akukho namnye wabantwana obonakala ekhathazekile okanye edidekile-ukuba akukho mntu ukhalela abazali babo okanye ikhaya-ayenzeki nje kuphela, kodwa, kweli xesha lemigaqo-nkqubo yokwahlukana kosapho, uziva ephantse ukuba ngabom, ephazamisa ukuntsonkotha kweemvakalelo kunye nefuthe. Ukuba ababhali bafuna ukulandela eli bali, kunokuba yinto enomdla ukubona ukuba uJuni ujongana nenyani yokuba icebo lakhe, nangona lihlangula isimilo kumfanekiso omkhulu, linokubangela iintlungu kwangoko kwaye libe negalelo kwixesha elide imiba yeemvakalelo kunye nokuncamathisela aba bantwana.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, le nkqubela yomkhosi ishenxisa abasetyhini abona bantu bangamaxhoba acinezelweyo eGiliyadi. Njengoko uLawrence esitsho kwisiqendu, intombazana encinci, uKiki, umzekelo, uyintombi yomphathi. Ngelixa ngokucacileyo kuya kumunca ukuba akhulele eGiliyadi, ukhuselekile (igama lakhe). Ibiya kuba ligorha ngakumbi-kwaye isebenze-ukuququzelela ukubaleka ikhulu leencekukazi-uyazi, abo bantu bahlala bephantsi kodlwengulo lweziko. Kwaye ngokuthetha, ibiya kuba sisicwangciso esingcono. Ukuba ufumana abancedisi abaneleyo eGiliyadi, uya kuba nabantwana abancinci oza kubahlangula kamva.
Okokuba ababhali endaweni yoko bakhethe ukuqaqambisa uJuni kunye nabanye oogxa bakhe uMarthas kunye nezicakakazi ezenza idini lokugqibela-bebeka ubomi babo emngciphekweni wokukhusela indlela ekhuselekileyo yabantwana-hayi nje ukuziva ngathi yinto nje, kodwa ikwabeka ingcinga yokuba ubomi babantwana kunye nokuba sempilweni, Ngapha koko, ibaluleke ngakumbi kunaleyo yoomama (okanye abanye abafazi) kwisigqibo esiphoxayo kwingcinga yaseGiliyadi. Ngelixa, ewe, abantwana behlala bengabona bantu babuthathaka kuluntu lwethu, oku akunjalo eGiliyadi.
Ngenxa yeso sizathu, kuyakhathaza ngakumbi ukubona lo mboniso, ohlala ulingisa iindlela apho intetho yezenkolo nezopolitiko zinokuthi zihanjiswe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukungabikho kwamandla kwabasetyhini, ukubhiyozela ukuzenzela komama. Ilungelo lobomi babantwana njengelona libaluleke ngaphezu kobomi babafazi abadala liziva lisondele ngokungathandabuzekiyo ekucingeni ukuba ubomi bomntwana okanye obungekazalwa bulingana, okanye buxabiseke nangaphezulu kobomi bomama.
Nangona kunjalo, ngenxa yokuba abantwana baseGiliyadi bakhona ikakhulu njengezinto ezithandwayo zezityebi nezinamandla, ukubabamba ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubetha eGiliyadi apho kubuhlungu khona, kwaye ngale ndlela, iokhestra kaJuni yokubaleka okukhulu ibonisa ukuqonda kwakhe okunzulu kwenkqubo emcinezelayo. Ukuthi abakhonzazana, abakhokelwa nguJuni, bayakusebenzisa ingcinga yaseGiliyadi ngokuchasene nabo kukwacetyiswa kwiintsikelelo kunye nemithandazo echazwe kuyo yonke indawo yokubaleka: Amagama kaJuni okwahlukana noLawrence angathi uThixo akuzisele uxolo, Joseph. URita ucela ukuba ngenceba yakhe akhusele uJuni, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo, amazwi kaJuni okugqibela, kwilizwi njengoko eqhutywa ngabanye abakhonzazana, athathwe kwiEksodus:
Yathi iNkosi, Ndibabonile abantu bam besebukhobokeni, ndisiva isikhalo sabo; Ndiyazazi iintlungu zabo kwaye ndize ukubahlangula ezandleni zabantu abakhohlakeleyo kwaye ndibakhokele abantu bam baphume kuloo ndawo ilusizi.
Ukusetyenziswa kukaJuni kweBhayibhile kucebisa ukuba abaHedikazi abayi kuthatha kuphela abantwana babo, kodwa inkolo eye yajijelwa kulungelelwaniso lokuthotyelwa kwabo. Ngelixa ndihlala ndivumelana Isibhengezo esidumileyo sika-Audre Lorde malunga nezixhobo zenkosi, Ibali lesicakakazi Yintelekelelo yase-dystopi, ngoko ke ndicinga ukuba nantoni na enokwenzeka-nditsho nentsingiselo yaseGiliyadi. Kwaye kuya kuba mnandi ukubukela.
(umfanekiso: Hulu)
USara Hosey ngumbhali we Ikhaya lelapho iNgxaki ikhoyo: Imifanekiso yeendaba yamaKhosikazi nooMama , oza kuMcFarland ngo-Fall 2019, kunye nenoveli yabantu abadala yabasetyhini, evela eBlackstone Publishing ngo-Matshi 2020. Ungunjingalwazi wesiNgesi kunye nabafazi kunye nezifundo zesini eNassau Community College.
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