Izitabane zoBomi Bethu: EMazantsi ndawo andifundisanga ukuba abafazi banokuncamisana njani

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Ihamba ne Qesha , umboniso wolutsha, EMazantsi endawo kwakuphakathi kwamaxesha okuqala, ebomini bam bokuqala ndabona isibini esithandanayo siphathwa ngobuntu bokwenyani. Ukusuka ngo-2005 ukuya ku-2008, umboniso uxelele ibali losapho lakwaCarlin, uPaula, uArthur, uGlen, uClay noSpencer, njengoko behlala kwikhaya labo elitsha eLos Angeles, eCalifornia.

Elona candelo libalulekileyo ebalini yayilulwalamano lwe-icon phakathi kukaSpencer Carlin no-Ashely Davies. USpencer kunye no-Ashely, abaziwa ngokuthanda kukaSpashley, isibini sam sokuqala ekukhuleni kwam. Ngenxa yokuba yayidlala kwi-N, yayigcwele ii-angst ezingapheliyo kunye nomdlalo weqonga. U-Ashley wayeyintombazana embi ke ngokwendalo wayengumlingani olala nomntu ongatshatanga naye (anditshongo ukuba yayigqibelele) kwaye uSpencer wayenomama olondolozayo kwaye wayevela eOhio.

Into endiyikhumbulayo ndiyithanda kakhulu ngoSpashley yindlela ababedibana ngayo ngothando. Umnqweno ujonge kwaye, kwangoko, ukubamba okuqinileyo okuhlala ixesha elide kulwakhiwo ukuze bavume iimvakalelo zabo omnye komnye. Ukumanga kwabo kokuqala yayingumzuzu omangalisayo endikukhumbulayo ukushukunyiswa ngokupheleleyo kuba wawumhle kakhulu kwaye wawubonakala unothando xa kuthelekiswa nolunye ukwanga phakathi kwabafazi endikhe ndabona.

Xa ukwangiwa kwabantu besini esifanayo kusenzelwa i-voyeurism ungayixela ngendlela ikhamera ebambeka ngayo elwimini kunye nokuba akukho mvakalelo phakathi kwayo, akukho chemistry yokwenyani, ikhona nje.

Indlela oyimisa ngayo indlela yokumanga kwabafazi ababini ibalulekile njengokuba uneso simeli. Kwi Swan emnyama , Iinjongo Ezikhohlakeleyo kwaye Umzimba kaJennifer, izigcawu zokwanga phakathi kwabasetyhini zihlukaniswe neemvakalelo zokwenene kangangokuba naxa zibukeka zithandeka- kwaye uninzi lwazo lukhona-alunanto. Ngenxa yokuba ayisiyonto yabasetyhini abameleyo okanye abaphulaphuli abakhathalele abasetyhini abasetyhini, imalunga nabantu abafuna ukuvulwa ngokubukela abafazi ababini bephuza.

Thelekisa ukwanga phakathi kukaLaura noCarmilla kwi ICarmilla belo – njani ekuqaleni zezi kisses ezinomdla ezakhiwe ngenxa yobudlelwane phakathi kwabafazi ababini . Bayamanga kuba le yinxalenye yendalo yebali kunye nobudlelwane obuxelwayo. Kukho inkanuko, kukho inkanuko, kukho into phaya. Okanye uCosima noDelphine abavela Inkedama emnyama , Bo kunye noLauren ukusuka Intombazana elahlekileyo okanye sibuyele kwi-OG Willow kunye neTara Buffy (Khange ndibukele uBuffy ekhula ngoko bendikhumbula lo mzuzu).

AyingoMegan Fox kunye noAmanda Seyfried betshintshisa amathe ebhedini ngekhamera phantsi emqaleni wabo ke sinokubona zonke intshukumo zolwimi.

Emazantsi e- Akukho ndawo , kuzo zonke iingxaki zalo ngokubhekisele (kubulungisa boDongwe), zisinike ubudlelwane obuqinisekileyo phakathi kwabafazi ababini, ekugqibeleni , yaphela kunye nabo. Indifundise ukuba ukwanga phakathi kwabasetyhini kunokuba novakalelo kwaye kumnandi kwaye kugcwaliswe ngobunzulu beemvakalelo ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba sisiphumo seengxaki.

Anditsho ukuba akukho ndawo yotshisayo, etshicela emilonyeni yomntu ngesondo phakathi kwabasetyhini, kodwa sisasebenza ukubona ukuba isini esithandana nesini masiboniswe ngamava alala ngokweemvakalelo. Okubandakanya iindawo ezintle zokwanga.

Zeziphi ezinye zeempawu zakho ozithandayo zesini esifanayo?

I-Sidenote: Zingaphi iinwele ezimnyama ezinenwele ezimnyama / ezitshatileyo ezitshatileyo ezidingwa lihlabathi?

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(nge-Pride Vortex, umfanekiso: N)