Zininzi iimvavanyo zobuntu phaya: I-Myers-Briggs, iprofayile yobuntu beWinslow, kunye nemibuzo emininzi yaseBuzzfeed eyenzelwe ukukuxelela ukuba uxhomekeke kubani oyithandayo incwadi kaHarry Potter / i-ice cream flavour / indawo yesondo. Kodwa siyile eyona niche, olona vavanyo luchanekileyo ngokusekwe kweyona bhanyabhanya iphambili yabasetyhini ngalo lonke ixesha: Iklabhu yovuyo lwethamsanqa .
Ifilimu kaWayne Wang seminal ka-1993, esekwe kwinoveli ethengwa kakhulu ngu-Amy Tan, ilandela ubomi babasetyhini baseTshayina abafudukela eMelika, kunye nezilingo neembandezelo abajamelana nazo neentombi zabo ezine zaseTshayina naseMelika. Ifilimu yayiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwaye ihlala ithandwa zizizukulwana ngezizukulwana. Kubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo koomama kunye neentombi zayo yonke imvelaphi, njengemixholo yoxinzelelo lwabazali, ulindelo oluphezulu, kunye nokwahlulahlula ukugqitha kwinkcubeko.
Yayenye yeefilimu ezimbalwa zestudiyo ukubonisa phantse yonke i-Asia cast, i-feat eyayingazukuphindaphindwa de kube yiminyaka engama-25 kamva Ama-Asiya aTyebileyo . Iklabhu yovuyo lwethamsanqa Ngumdlalo weemvakalelo, kwaye awuzifumani ukhala ngaxa lithile ngexesha lomdlalo bhanyabhanya, kungafuneka uye kwagqirha kwaye kuvavanywe imijelo yakho yezinyembezi.
Kodwa wonke umntu unendawo yakhe yokukhala; lowo ubabethayo kwiimvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha. Kwaye yandenza ndacinga, uthini umntu I-JLC indawo yokulila ithi ngayo? Ndiye ndenza olu luhlu lungezantsi, kunye novavanyo lwam lobuntu olungenasayensi. Jonga apha ngezantsi:
Waverly Uyeke uChess
La mandla bendinawo, le nkolelo kum, ndingaziva ukuba iyaphuma. Ndizive ndisiba ngumntu oqhelekileyo. Zonke iimfihlo endakha ndazibona, ndandingasaboni. Into endiyibonayo kukuba, yayizimpazamo zam, ubuthathaka bam. Elona candelo lam lilungileyo lanyamalala. Kodwa andinakukubeka konke kumama. Ndiyenzile kum. Khange ndiphinde ndidlale itshesi.
Ungumntu ophumelele kakhulu ozibekela imigangatho engqongqo. Ngaphandle kwempumelelo yakho eninzi, njengeWaxly, uxhonywe kwiintsilelo zakho ezibonakalayo. Ufaka ngaphakathi izithuko kwaye uthetha izimvo zikaTwitter ngelixa ungakhathaleli indumiso. Ngelixa ungavela kubazali abanoxinzelelo oluphezulu, ubeka uninzi loxinzelelo kuwe. Ngelixa uphumelela kwiimeko ezinzulu zomsebenzi, kubalulekile ukuthatha ixesha lokuzinakekela. Cima ifowuni yakho, ubeke umculo opholileyo, kwaye uziphathe ngokuhlamba okumnandi. Umhlaba uya kube ulindele ukuba uyoyise xa ugqibile.
U-Ying-Ying no-Lena, Tiger kwiMithi
Kuyo yonke le ndlu ndibona imiqondiso. Intombi yam ijonge kodwa ayiboni. Le yindlu eza kuqhekeka. Alikashiywa lixesha. Zonke iintlungu zam, ukuzisola kwam, ndiza kuzihlanganisa. Intombi yam iya kundiva ndikubiza, nangona ndingakhange ndithethe. Uza kunyuka izinyuko ukundifumana. Uya koyika kuba ekuqaleni amehlo akhe akazukubona nto. Uya kuziva entliziyweni yakhe kule ndawo afihla kuyo uloyiko. Uya kwazi ukuba ndilinde njengehlosi emithini, ngoku ilungele ukutsiba kwaye ndiyinqumle.
Ungumxazululi weengxaki, umntu onokuzibona ngokucacileyo iingxaki zabanye, kodwa ungaboni kwiingxaki zakho. Ngelixa wonke umntu esokola, kufuneka bazibonele ngokwabo. Ungumhlobo owoyikekayo nothembekileyo, kodwa ulumke ungagqithi kwimida. Endaweni yokuzama ukulungisa iingxaki zabo, zama ukumamela kwaye ubaxhase. Sukuchitha amandla akho agqithisileyo uzama ukulungisa wonke umntu okujikelezile. Uthetha kakuhle, kodwa izenzo zakho zinokubonwa njengokulawula okanye ukuphatha. Zama ukuhambisa amandla akho okwenza umsebenzi wesisa okanye abantu abaludinga ngokwenene uncedo lwakho.
An-Mei kunye neeperile ezaphukileyo
Ndikuxelela ibali kuba ndikhuliswe ngendlela yamaTshayina. Ndafundiswa ukunga nqweneli nto, ukuginya usizi lwabanye abantu, kunye nokutya ubukrakra bam. Kwaye nangona ndifundise intombi yam okwahlukileyo, kodwa yaphuma ngendlela efanayo.
Ugcinwe ngokwendalo kwaye akukho namnye oza kwenza ingxabano. Kodwa ungatyhalwa kude kube ngoku ngaphambi kokuba ubuye umva. Ukuzola kwakho kugquma inkolelo enzulu kwezobulungisa kunye nokungenamkhethe, kwaye akukho nto ikucaphukisayo kunabantu abakujongela phantsi okanye abo ubathandayo. Ngelixa uzolile ebusweni, ulijoni elingaphantsi. Xa uAn-Mei omncinci eqhekeza iiparele ezingezizo azinikwa ngumama wakhe wesibini, umbizela ubuqhetseba. Musa ukoyika ukuma kwaye wenze ilizwi lakho livakale.
USuyuan noJuni, uMgangatho oQaqambileyo woMgangatho, eyona Ntliziyo yoMgangatho
Elo nonkala mbi, nguwe kuphela ozamile ukulithatha. Wonke umntu ufuna olona mgangatho uphezulu. Wena, ukucinga kwakho ngokwahlukileyo. Waverly uthathe unonkala osemgangathweni ophezulu. Uthathe okona kubi, kuba unentliziyo ekumgangatho ophezulu. Unesimbo akukho mntu unokufundisa. Kufuneka uzalwe ngale ndlela.
Ngelixa usenokungabi libhabhathane ekuhlaleni leqela, unentliziyo entle ezaliswe sisisa. Uzifanisa ngokungafanelekanga nabanye (bahle / baphumelele ngakumbi / banethamsanqa elingcono eluthandweni) kodwa uthoba amandla akho. Ukuba nobubele, ukucinga nokupha ziimpawu ezintle, ezenza ukuba abantu ebomini bakho bakuxabise kwaye bakuthande. Uninzi ngokwaneleyo, njengokuba unjalo. Musa nje ukuba nzima kuwe, ewe?
UJuni Udibana Noodadewabo
Ndingudade wakho, ngoJuni. Ndize kuthatha indawo kamama wethu. Ndize kukuzisa amathemba akhe.
Andinalo ngokwenene uhlalutyo lomntu kule ndawo. Ngumboniso wokugqibela kwifilimu kunye nokuvuthwa kwebali. Ukuba awukakhali okwangoku, kulapho kuvuleka khona amasango ezikhukula. Siyavuyisana nawe, ukuba ukhale kule ndawo ungumntu onemvakalelo.
Yeyiphi indawo oyithandayo yokukhala yeJLC? Yabelana ngezimvo!
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