Kubandakanya abaphangi abaphambili kuthotho lweNetflix Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni .
Kufuneka ibe ngcono, utshilo uClay Jensen kwisiqendu sokugqibela sika Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni , Uhlengahlengiso lweNetflix lwenoveli kaJAY Asher ka-2007 yegama elifanayo. Indlela esiphathana ngayo kwaye sijongane ngayo… Kufuneka ibengcono ngandlela thile.
Oko kuyacaca kancinci ngokuziphatha kothotho malunga namava amantombazana akwishumi elivisayo ngokuxhatshazwa, ukuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, kunye nokuzibulala ekugqibeleni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isisombululo esithile kwaye umngcipheko wokuza njengokugxeka okanye ukuzithoba kwimiba entsonkothileyo yoluntu. Kodwa nangona kuyinyani ukuba akukho zimpendulo zilula, imibuzo ngokwabo inzima kunokuba olu luhlu luzama ukucinga, ngaphandle kweenjongo zalo ezilungileyo.
Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni yenzeka ngamaxesha amabini. Okwangoku, uHannah Baker usandula ukuzibulala kwaye uClay Jensen uzibona ephethe iiteyiphu ezili-13 azirekhodileyo ezichaza izizathu zokuba enze into ayenzileyo. Ixesha lesibini kukuboniswa kwexesha elidlulileyo, njengoko kubaliswa nguHana ngeetheyiphu zakhe. Iiteyiphu zibonisa udongwe kunye nabaphulaphuli ukuba inkwenkwe, uJustin, ngokufihlakeleyo ithatha ifoto kaHana enxibe iimpahla awayeyithumela kuye wonke umntu esikolweni. Bacacisa ukuba amakhwenkwe ambambe njani kwaye amguqa ngelixa amantombazana emsebenzisa kwaye emala. Babonisa indlela enye inkwenkwe eyisebenzisa ngayo ikhamera yakhe ukumlahla ngaphandle kwefestile yakhe yegumbi lokulala. Nditsho nodongwe olumnandi, olucoca emva kwakhe kususela kusuku lokuqala, esenza amagqabantshintshi okusika malunga nokuba kungcono ukulinda ngamanye amaxesha xa efumana ifoto kuJustin. Okubi nangakumbi kukuba, uHana ulingqina elithuleyo lodlwengulo kungekadluli phambi kokuba adlwengulwe. Xa uHana esiya kumcebisi ongumcebisi ngoncedo, akaphumeleli ukuthathela ingqalelo iiflegi ezininzi ezibomvu azitshisayo phantsi kwempumlo, kwaye uHana, eziva elilolo ngokwenyani, uthatha ubomi bakhe.
Kucacile ukuba kuninzi ekufuneka ukhuphe apha. Kwaye kukho nangakumbi xa uthathela ingqalelo ukwahlukahlukana kweyona midlalo iphambili kunye nabalinganiswa bezinto ezahlukeneyo zesini. Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni iyazi ukuba ulutsha luza ngeephakeji ezahlukeneyo, kwaye luyayazi nelungelo, ukungazithembi kunye nenkcubeko yokudlwengula. Kodwa iyayiqonda le micimbi kwinqanaba lomgangatho kuphela, kwaye kulapho kukho ingxaki ethatha umboniso ukusuka ngokuqondakalayo iphosakele ukuya kuphosakele ngendlela ephazamisayo.
Thatha umdlwenguli. Ngokufanelekileyo ngokwaneleyo, kukho enye kuphela: UBryce, umntwana osisityebi ugoba imbaleki yeenkwenkwezi ehlasela umhlobo wangaphambili kaHana uJessica, kwaye kamva uzinyanzela kuHana. Ukhohlakele kakhulu ngekhathuni kwaye ukhohlakele ngokucacileyo ukuba kunzima ukukholelwa ukuba umboniso awukhathazeki ukuphazamisa ukulindela kwakho.
Kwelinye icala, baninzi abantu ababudala bokwenene abanjengoBryce-singasathethi ke ngamakhwenkwe okwenene akwishumi elivisayo-kwaye basenexesha elilusizi ngokungahlwaywa ngokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo. Kodwa kwelinye icala, ukuba ufuna ukwenza umboniso malunga neentlobo zobundlobongela esingazivumiyo kuluntu lwethu, kutheni ungenzi uJustin abe ngomnye wabadlwenguli? Kutheni ungangeni kwi-nitty gritty yenkwenkwe yokudlwengula intombi yayo xa inxilile, iyikhathaza, kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo ayiqondi into eyenziweyo engalunganga kuba ayiqondi ukuba isebenza njani imvume? Kutheni le nto uJustin, ovumela ngokwenyani uBryce ukuba adlwengule intombi yakhe eswelekileyo, ahlangulwe ngokucocekileyo?
Kukho iindawo ezithile apho umboniso uzama ukungavumeli abalinganiswa bawo ukuba bakhululeke ngokulula, ngakumbi udongwe. Udongwe uxolisa kuHannah ngenkcazo yakhe ehlazisayo, evuma ukuba wayenomsindo kwaye enomona kwaye kwakungamelanga ayitsho. Kodwa akufuneki sithethe ngayo ngoba Ukuphendula kwamathumbu odongwe yayikukugqabhuka kuHana xa, ukuba wayefuna ukudibana naye yena , ngewayengazange akhathazeke kangaka ngokulinda? Ukuba nomona kwaye ucaphuke xa umntu wakho engakuqapheli uyinto enye, kodwa akazange eze nala magama akhohlakeleyo kwisithuba. Udongwe aluzange luthethe nje into ekrwada okanye engakhathaliyo ngomzuzu wokukrala ngokweemvakalelo; indlela awasabela ngayo yabunjwa kwaye yabunjwa ziingcamango zakhe zenkcubeko zento amantombazana afanele ukuyenza ngemizimba yawo kwaye nini kwaye nabani. Kuhle kakhulu ukuba axolise kwaye imeko yakhe yothando noHana ibonakalisa ukuvuma ngenzondelelo, kodwa ayisiyonto ityibilikayo ukutyibilika kwizakhiwo zamandla zamandulo ezinyanzelisa iifom zokuhlushwa kolutsha.
Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuyinto encinci, kodwa emva kokuba uninzi lwabagxeki beveze ukuba olu luhlu lukhutshiwe njani, ukuba lushiyeke njani embindini, kunzima ukunganqweneli ukuba basebenzise elinye lelo xesha ukuphonononga ngakumbi malunga nobuntu bomntu, ukuya phambili ngaphezu kwabantwana kufuneka baziphathe kakuhle. Ayinakungena nokugula ngengqondo kunonina kaHana esenza intetho yokulahla angakhange ayiqonde ukuba uHana wayedandathekile, nto leyo iyothusa xa ucinga lo ngumboniso wokuzibulala kolutsha. Ewe kunjalo, ayinguye wonke umntu ozibulala ohlangabezana nokugula ngengqondo, kodwa ubuncinci ukubala ngokwezibalo abanye babafunda noHana ngokuqinisekileyo benza. Okona kuthotho lubeka umba wokugula ngengqondo ecaleni, kodwa okona kubi kakhulu kubonisa ukuba ukulunga emntwini kuyakunyanga ukudakumba kwabo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuthatha okungaphezulu komdongwe wobuhlobo ekugqibeleni ukunceda uSkye ngemicimbi yakhe yokuzenzakalisa?
Owona mzekelo uphazamisayo kwithambeka elimtyibilizi lokulula Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni NguTyler Down, inkwenkwe eyangena kuHana kwaye yathatha imifanekiso yakhe esondeleyo ngaphandle kolwazi okanye imvume yakhe. UTyler naye uxhatshazwe ngogonyamelo ngokwakhe. Ukuya esiphelweni kolu ngcelele, siyabona ukuba unenani lemipu kunye neembumbulu ezifihlwe phantsi kwetrunk engezantsi, okuthetha ukuba unokuba uceba uhlobo oluthile lokubulala. Ukuba yonke inqaku lomboniso kufuneka siphathane ngcono, ngaba sigqibile ukuba amaxhoba odutyulo lwesikolo anoxanduva lokudala ababulali babo?
Andiqondi ukuba ababonisi benza ingxelo enjalo ngenjongo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba bafuna ukuthoba ababukeli ngaphandle kokubacela ukuba bacinge kakhulu. UTyler waziva enelungelo lomzimba kaHana, kangangokuba akazange acinge nto ngokumbuza xa ejongene naye malunga nokuthatha imifanekiso yakhe. Ngaba akuyonyani ukuba ubudoda obunetyhefu bunento encinci yokwenza zombini nendlela uTyler ahlukumeza ngayo uHana kunye nendlela awangcungcuthekiswa ngayo ngokwakhe? Okanye ngaba leyo yingxoxo yexesha lesibini?
Zininzi izinto ezithi Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni yenza kakuhle kakhulu. Iphoswe ngokugqwesileyo kwaye ikhokelwe kakuhle. Ndayixabisa ngakumbi indlela umboniso ophonononge ngayo ukuba kude kangakanani ekufuneka sikwenzile ukuze sincede abantwana be-LGBTQIA bazive bekhululekile malunga nokuphuma, ukuba umlingiswa kaHana wayene-arhente nangona wayefile ngalo lonke ixesha, kunye nendlela ebonakalise ngayo imeko evumelana ngesondo.
Kodwa xa usenza uthotho olungcono ufumana iwonga lokubanjwa kwimigangatho ephezulu, kwaye ababonisi abenzi mathambo malunga neenjongo zabo eziphakamileyo kwisiqingatha seyure epilogue apho iqela labadlali kunye neqela loyilo lithetha ngemicimbi. Bafuna ukuthatha abaphulaphuli babo ngokwaneleyo ngokwaneleyo (nokuba olo khetho alufanelekanga lifanelwe sisincoko salo ) ukubonisa ukudlwengulwa kunye nokuzibulala kuko konke ukoyikeka kwabo, kodwa khange bazithathele nzulu ngokwaneleyo ukuba bajonge umfanekiso omkhulu. I-iPhones khange ivelise ubuhlanga, zenza nje lula ukubona kunye nokwenza izixhobo. Bekusoloko kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni, zininzi kangangokuba ukuzibala kunokuphosa inqaku.
(umfanekiso: Netflix)
U-Chelsea Ennen ubambe inkosi kwi-Contemporary Literature, Theory, kunye neNkcubeko evela eKing's College London. Ukubhalwa kwakhe kuye kwavela Umfazi oGaze , Isaqhwithi, kunye SawubonaGiggles kwaye ungumgxeki wencwadi yoPapasho lweeVeki zeVeki kunye neeKirkus. UnguMhleli woKonwabisa kwi Uqhwithela , kunye noMhleli weFiction kwi I-Kaaterskill Basin yoNcwadi lweNcwadi . Mlandele ku-Twitter ( @ChelseaEnnen ) kuhlaziyo lomsebenzi wakhe wokuyila kunye nokuhlomla kwenkcubeko.
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