Amakhosazana kunye neentsomi zezinye zezona zihloko zixabisekileyo zishushu zenkcubeko kwihlabathi lobufazi. Ngaba ngokwemvelo bangabantu abathandanayo nabasetyhini kwaye bagqibe ekubeni bangabesifazana ngenxa yokunamathela kwabo kwiimpawu zobufazi bemveli?
Ngokuqinisekileyo kukho impikiswano enokwenziwa yokuba uninzi lala mabali aphela nge-cis, imitshato yabantu abathandana nabantu besini esahlukileyo-ngesiqhelo ngokungagqibeki, ukuba ayisosizathu sinyanzelekileyo-njengoko yonke injongo yokuphela kwabasetyhini ibenzakalisa. Ukunqongophala kokuyila kwezi ziphelo zonwabisayo, ukubambelela ngenkani kwiimbono zesiko kunye nezakudala zesini, ubungqingqwa, kunye namabhongo, sesona siphoso kula mabali, endaweni yomtshato okanye inguqulelo yobuqu yobufazi.
Ezi zezinye zezona zigxeko zixhaphakileyo kumakhosazana (ngesiqhelo kwiintlobo ngeentlobo zeDisney) -basindiswa ngamadoda, emva koko bagqibe amabali abo kumtshato wesintu.
Ayikokufunda ngokungekho sikweni ngokupheleleyo.
Kodwa iyanciphisa kwaye ibeke umda-ungasathethi ke, ngokuphandle, iyadinisa. I-Cinderella ifumana uninzi lwendalo ngokubanzi. Uyalazi ibali lakhe. Nguye lo mfazi uhlala nomama ophethe kakubi kunye noodadewabo, kwaye xa efumana indlela yakhe kwibhola yenkosana, ngesiqhelo ngoncedo lukathixokazi wenkosi, inkosana iyamthanda. Ngexesha eliphakathi kobusuku, ukhawuleza agoduke ngaphambi kokuba umlingo wentsomi yakhe uphele kwaye ashiye umtyibilizi weglasi kuphela. Zizo izihlangu ezizodwa ezikhokelela ukuba inkosana ibuyele kuye-njengoko isihlangu sifanela yena yedwa-kwaye banesiphelo esonwabisayo.
Kuyakruqula kwaye kungabikho arhente, akunjalo? Akunjalo.
UCinderella unokuba ngomnye wabalinganiswa ababhinqileyo, abanobubele, kunye nabanobubele endibaziyo. Uyinkosazana egcina iziqu zayo kanye njengayo nayiphi na enye enekrele okanye uhambo olunobuganga. Indlela ibali lakhe elixelwa ngayo kulungelelwaniso lwala maxesha lubonisa ukuvela kwebali kunye nemibono eguqukayo malunga nobufazi kunye nokumelwa.
Imifanekiso bhanyabhanya eDisney yoopopayi
(umfanekiso: Disney)
Ukulungiswa kokuqala okuqhelekileyo kweCinderella folktale yayinguWalt Disney ka-1950 oopopayi beklasikhi. Kwakungowesibini kwinto eya kuba yenye yeempawu ze-Disney eziphumeleleyo-amakhosazana-alandela inqaku labo lokuqala lopopayi, I-Snow White kunye neeNtsuku ezisixhenxe. Ngelixa imovie yaba yimpumelelo enkulu, isindisa istudiyo kwimeko yayo yezemali, yenye yezona zinto zilungelelanisiweyo, ngokuyinxenye, kodwa hayi ngokupheleleyo, ngenxa yexesha elenziwe ngalo.
Kwi Ezahlukeneyo ' s uphononongo , bachaza uCinderella njengakwicala elingenambala, elijongene nonodoli. Unengxaki yokunqongophala kwe-arhente kunye nobufazi obenziwa ngamanye amakhosazana awayefunda nawo (Snow White, Sleeping Beauty), nangona kufanelekile, ukuwela ebuthongweni obonwabisayo kuyamnika umda omncinci.
Oku akuthethi, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ingxoxo yemeko kaCinderella ibingekho kwiDisney.
Umbhali wemiboniso bhanyabhanya uMaurice Rapf, onomsebenzi kwimuvi ongahambelwanga, waxoxa ngohlobo lwakhe lweCinderella njengovukelayo. Ukucinga kwam kukuba awunakuba nomntu ongena kwaye atshintshe yonke into yakho. Awunakuyihambisa ngesitya. Kufuneka uyifumane, ucatshulwe esitsho kwincwadi ka-David Koenig yowe-1997 Imouse phantsi kweglasi: Iimfihlo zeDisney oopopayi kunye neePaki zoMxholo.
Ke kwinguqulelo yam, u-Goddess Fairy wathi, 'Kulungile kude kube ezinzulwini zobusuku kodwa ukusukela ngoko kuxhomekeke kuwe.' Ndamenza wayifumana, kwaye into ekufuneka eyenzile ukuyiphumeza yayikukuvukela umama wakhe wesibini, uyeke ukuba likhoboka kowabo. Ke bendinombono apho bem-odola khona kwaye uziphosa kubo. Uyavukela, ke bamvalele kwigumbi eliphezulu. Andicingi ukuba nabani na uthathe (umbono wam) ngokungathí sina.
Nangona u-Disney uguqulelo lokugqibela lwefilimu luncinci kunomdla, isanikezela ngamakhazimla omfazi ochazwe yiRapf, kunye nesingeniso esihle sento uCinderella ajongene nayo kunye namandla akhe.
Njengoko umbalisi echaza ekuqaleni kwimovie, uCinderella uphila ubomi bokungcungcuthekiswa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ezandleni zikamama wakhe wesibini kunye noodadewabo. Nangona kunjalo kuyo yonke loo nto, wayehlala ethambile kwaye enobubele. Inkcubeko yenkosazana yakwaDisney ifumana zonke iintlobo zokugxekwa-okuninzi okufanelekileyo-kodwa inye into ebalasele ngovelwano ngamaqhawekazi abo.
Ibali elinoopopayi lincinci kakhulu kunolungelelwaniso lwamva, kodwa nangona kunjalo, lumchaza njengomntu ofumana amandla kububele bakhe kunye nokusombulula. Okwangoku, kule bhanyabhanya, esona sizathu sakhe sokuya kwibhola kukuba abe nobusuku obuhle kwaye mhlawumbi adibane nenkosana entle, kodwa kunzima ukumgweba ngenxa yoko xa konke akwaziyo ngobomi luphahla, iimfuno, kunye ukungabikho kothando.
Ukuphupha ngobomi obungcono-okanye ubuncinci, ubusuku ngaphandle-luphawu lokomelela kwakhe. Umboniso bhanyabhanya ngokungaguquguqukiyo ubonakalisa abaphulaphuli ukuba nesisa kukaCinderella kunye nokuba nomonde, nokuba ujongene ne-vitriol kamama wakhe wesibini, kwaye yindlela esebenzayo yokwenza abaphulaphuli bafumane i-Cinderella.
Nangona kunjalo, le movie ikwazisa enye indlela yokwahlula uCinderella kwabanye abafazi ebomini bakhe eqhubeka kulungelelwaniso lwamva: ukubonakala kwakhe. Apho uCinderella eyinguqulelo yeengelosi yemigangatho yobuhle bendabuko-iinwele ezimhlophana, izinto ezithambileyo, intwana engeyongozi — oodadewabo bomtshato oopopayi, banempumlo kunye neenwele ezihlekisayo. Kwindawo enye, imovie ikwabonisa u-Drizella ecula isitshixo-esingathandekiyo ngaphambi kokuba asike uCinderella acule ingoma efanayo kwi-lilt ethandekayo.
Yinto enye ukuthelekisa amaziko abo okuziphatha-ububele bukaCinderella ngokuchasene nokuzingca kunye nenkohlakalo yabazali bakhe-kwaye enye, luphawu loluntu loosolusapho, ukubopha la maziko okuziphatha kwimbonakalo yomzimba njengoko kugwetywe ngokutyibilikayo imbonakalo yendoda.
Ngonaphakade
(umfanekiso: 20th Century Fox)
Kumashumi eminyaka kamva, Ngonaphakade yafika njengempendulo yama-90 yabasetyhini ebalini likaCinderella. Ayibonakalisi bumlingo, akukho ntsikazi yintsomi (kule movie, ingxelo eqingqiweyo kaLeonardo da Vinci ethatha loo ndima), kunye nomphetho kunye noburharha ngaphambili obungabonwayo kweli bali.
UDrew Barrymore, ukuza kuthi ga kweli nqanaba lomsebenzi wakhe, wayesaziwa ikakhulu ngenxa yemvukelo kunye nobundlobongela, odlala uDanielle kwimovie. Hayi, khange baligcine igama elithi Cinderella, befuna ukubalisa eli bali ngaphandle kwempahla ebonakala ngathi iphelelwe lixesha. Ukubukela Ngonaphakade, Kunzima ukuxelela ukuba uBarrymore uphela phi kwaye uDanielle uqala. Ungena kwi-Strong Female Character mold ye-90s ukuya kwi-T, njengoko imovie iyalahla ubume obugciniweyo, kucingelwa ukuba bubuthathaka, beCinderella kwiinguqulelo zemveli zebali.
Olu hlengahlengiso luvumela uDanielle ukuba enze into ngomsindo wakhe kumlingane wakhe (isinye, njengoko elinye inyathelo lakhe limnandi kuye). UDanielle ubetha amanqindi kumlingane wakhe, uMarguerite, emva kokuthukisa umama kaDanielle kwaye azame ukweba ilokhwe kanina. Komnye umboniso, uDanielle nguye osindisa iNkosana uHenry ngokumphakamisa ngokwasemzimbeni nangokumthabatha amuse kude nengozi.
(umfanekiso: 20th Century Fox / yoba )
Konke kumnandi ukubukela, ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ngelo xesha, kongeze umbono oxhaphakileyo kwiminyaka yee-90s kunye nee-2000s zokuqala ukuba yayilinye kuphela uhlobo lokwenyani lweStrong Woman ™, kwaye ukubonwa komzimba yayiyimbonakaliso yendalo yamandla athi. Ndikhule ngexesha leBuffys kunye neXenas kunye neMulans, kwaye ngelixa abalinganiswa ababhinqileyo bemangalisa, abamele kuphela iindlela zokuba abafazi bomelele, bazimele, kwaye babe ne-arhente.
Uhambo lwam lundikhokelele, ekugqibeleni, ekuqondeni ukuba uvelwano kunye nokuzola akuthethi kuthi uhleli kwaye ubuthathaka. Lo mboniso bhanyabhanya ugcina uphawu lwentengiso yeCinderella (okanye kaDanielle) kunye nesisa, kodwa ikwazisa ukuba ulukhuni, ngokungafaniyo namakhosazana eeNtsuku eziDala.
Enye indlela imovie ezisa ngayo ibali likaCinderella ukuya kumaxesha anamhlanje ngendlela elungileyo kukunika iqhawekazi ixesha lokuchitha nenkosana ngaphambi kwebhola, ukujongana nengcinga engekho ngqiqweni yokuthandana ngobusuku obunye. Kuyahlaziya kwaye kuyonwabisa, kwaye ngombulelo kuye kwaba yinto eqhelekileyo ngoku.
UDanielle noHenry bathandana ngelixa besazana (inikwe, uHenry ucinga ukuba uDanielle ngu Ukubala , kodwa akatshintshi ubuntu bakhe ukuba ahambe nesihloko), kwaye yenza ibali lothando libe mnandi. UHenry unokuba bubukhosi, kodwa uthando lwabo oluqhakazileyo lubabeka ngokulinganayo, nto leyo ebaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano oluhloniphekileyo nolokwenene lobufazi. Yinto elahlekileyo kwiintsomi ezininzi zesintu (kwaye ngakumbi amakhosazana akwaDisney amathathu akuqala) kodwa wamkelekile kakhulu ngoku.
IRodgers kunye neHammerstein's Musical
(umfanekiso: Andrew H. Walker / imifanekiso kaFetty)
Olunye uhlengahlengiso lwamva nje lweli bali lithatha indlela yesiNtu yeCinderella njengomphefumlo omnene, kodwa ngohlaziyo lobufazi lwanamhlanje, ukudibanisa umlinganiswa ophambili weCinderella kunye nearhente Ngonaphakade.
URodgers noHammerstein benze ifayile ye ICinderella zomculo njengemovie yeTV, eyaqala ukuboniswa ngo-1957. Nangona kunjalo, siza kugxila kwimveliso ebanzi ka-2013. Le iteration intsha ithatha isimilo seCinderella kwaye ikhanyise ukukhanya kokulunga kwayo, inesizathu esongezelelekileyo. Xa umama wakhe wasentsomini, owayesaziwa njengoCrazy Marie, ekugqibeleni ezityhila kuCinderella, uthi ngokulula, Ngokwenyani, ndingumamakazi wonke umntu, kodwa nguwe wedwa ondinike uthando, ububele kunye nobubele. (Kwikona Yam Encinci-Phinda Ubuye.)
Emva kwexesha kwezomculo, xa esiya ebholeni, ujoyina iindwendwe kumdlalo wokuhlekisa. Le nto kuthiwa yeyomdlalo ibandakanya abantu abathukanayo. Xa lithuba likaCinderella lokudlala, nangona kunjalo, wenza izincomo endaweni yoko. Ezinye iindwendwe zasebukhosini zididekile kulo mboniso wobubele obungenazintloni, kodwa kungekudala ziyakwamkela, kwaye ngovuyo zivakalise ukuba obu busuku bunjani.
Umculo we-Broadway uphinde uthathe isicatshulwa Ngonaphakade ngokwazisa uCinderella kunye neNkosana (apha ekuthiwa nguTopher) ngaphambili, xa ikharavani yakhe ihlangana nendlu ahlala kuyo, kunye nomama wakhe wesibini kunye nabazala, ehlathini. Uye wabethwa kwangoko bububele bakhe bokumnika amanzi, kunye nokukhusela uCrazy Marie.
Baye bafike thetha ngokwenyani . UCinderella uzimasa ibhola zombini ngenxa yokuba efuna, kwaye ukuxoxa ngezopolitiko. Ngokunyanzelwa ngumhlobo wakhe oguqukayo, uJean-Michel, waya kuyokujongana nenkosana malunga nokuphathwa kwabantu ebukumkanini bakhe. Ivumela uCinderella kunye noTopher ukuba bazane-njengabantu abanezimilo zabo, njengeenkokheli-kwaye baqale iziseko zobambiswano. UTopher ngokwakhe naye ufumana ukukhula komlingiswa njengomfana oza kungena eyakhe njengenkokeli yobukumkani, ethi ityebise yena kunye nolwalamano lwakhe neqhawekazi lethu.
Ungayichazanga eyokuba yonke into ibaluleke ngakumbi kwi-2018 kunokuba yayiqala ukuboniswa kwi-2013, kwaye yenza ukuba uCinderella abe ngumlingisi ozaziyo ngakumbi. Emva kokudibana okokuqala noTopher, uphawula: Laa ndoda? Inkokeli yehlabathi? Kodwa ubonakala enentliziyo, ingqondo, nomphefumlo; ayinakuba njalo. Kwahleka kakhulu kwaye kwavuya kwimveliso yamva nje endiyibonileyo eLos Angeles.
Okokugqibela, umculo nawo uyatyhala ngokuchasene nembono yokuba lunye kuphela uhlobo lomfazi onokubandakanya uCinderella. Ngo-1997, uBrandy wathatha indima ebonakalayo kwi-movie ye-Disney TV, kunye noWhitney Houston njengonkulunkulukazi. Kwiminyaka kamva, ngo-2014, uKeke Palmer wenza imbali njengowesifazane wokuqala omnyama ukudlala uCinderella ka-Broadway. Njengoko UMgcini kuphawulwe ngelo xesha , Ukuphosa umdlali we-Afrika waseMelika njengophawu lomfanekiso-kwaye uqobo uluthuthu-luphawu lwenkqubela phambili eyenziwa ngu-Broadway, kancinci nangokumileyo, ekusebenziseni abalinganiswa bombala kuluhlu olubanzi lwamacandelo.
Umfazi omnyama odlala uCinderella, nokuba kumabonwakude okanye kwinqanaba, yimbali. Ivumela amantombazana ombala ukuba azibone kwiindima ezinje ngezi, njengeenkosazana zakudala ezaziboniswa njengamantombazana amhlophe. Kusatsho nangoku, nangona kunjalo, ukuba bobabini uBrandy noPalmer bangamakhosikazi amancinci, amahle, ngelixa oodadewabo, kwakhona, bengumngxunya ngokuchasene neCinderella bobabini kwindalo nakwimbonakalo yomzimba (enye inzima, enye inqabile kodwa imile kwaye imbi).
Ukuphila ngoku ICinderella
(umfanekiso: Disney)
Okokugqibela, siza kulungelelwaniso olukhulu lwakutshanje lwebali: uKenneth Branagh's 2015-live-action film. Ibona uLily James kwindima ephambili kwaye ikwabonelela ngomnye weyona miboniso mihle yeCinderella njengebhinqa eliselula elijamelene nokuxhatshazwa, ukwenzakala, kunye nosizi, kunye nendlela umntu anokuvuka ngayo kubumfama.
Kule movie, igama leqhawekazi lethu ngu-Ella, kunye ne-moniker yakhe entsha, uCinderella, luphawu lwenkohlakalo eyaboniswa ngumama wakhe wesibini. Yindibaniselwano yegama lakhe lokwenyani- uElla- kunye negama elithi cinder, emva kokuba elele ubuthongo phambi komlilo wasekhitshini elandela usuku oludinisayo lomsebenzi, evuka enezinto zobuso ebusweni.
Kodwa akunakuphela apho. Uhliselwe ukuhlala kwigumbi elibandayo, unokutya kuphela iziqwengana zayo nantoni na angayityi umama wakhe wesibini (emva kokugqiba umsebenzi, ewe), kwaye ujongane nengcinezelo yokuthotywa kunye nokuzithoba, ngalo lonke elo xesha esentlungwini yokufa Utata wakhe, umntu wokugqibela owayenobubele kuye.
Ngosuku oluqhelekileyo eUnited States, kuye kwafowunelwa abantu abangaphezu kwama-20 000 kugonyamelo lwasekhaya nokuphatha kakubi iifowuni. Amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala emakhaya ajongene nomngcipheko ophezulu Iziphumo zempilo yengqondo ezinje ngoxinzelelo, uxinzelelo lwasemva koxinzelelo (PTSD), umlutha, kunye nokuziphatha okuzibulala.
Wonke umntu obhinqileyo obethwayo endikhe ndathetha naye ucinga, ‘Ndingaphuma njani?’ URita Smith, owayesakuba ngumlawuli olawulayo weNational Coalition Against Against Domestic Violence, uxelele i-NPR . Ngexesha elithile, mhlawumbi bonke baya kwenza inzame ezithile. Umbuzo ngulo, yintoni endaweni yokumnceda enze loo nto? Kwaye ihlala ilinganiselwe kakhulu.
Ixesha lokuqala lika-Ella kude nendawo ekuphela kwayo ayaziyo-ikhaya elihlukumezayo-yibhola, kodwa kule nguqulo, njengakwezomculo, akahambi njengentombazana engenazintlungu, enethemba lokuba inkosana iyakumsindisa ubomi bakhe. UCinderella udibana nenkosana (Kit, edlalwa nguRichard Madden) ngaphambi kwebhola, engazi ukuba uyinkosana. Endaweni yokuba, ungoyena mntu ubonakalise ububele kuye-into engekhoyo ebomini bakhe. Ukuya kwibhola yindlela yokuba abone umhlobo wakhe.
Kungenxa yokuba uCinderella unoncedo lokufika kwibhola-nokuba nguthixo wasentsomini kunye nezinye iimpuku, okanye uLeonardo da Vinci-ayimthathi iarhente yakhe ngokuzifunela ubomi obungcono, kwaye akufuneki nokuba nabani na abe nobukhwele kumfazi oxhatshaziweyo yobubele. Ngokwenyani, xa sele engasekho phantsi kolawulo lukamama wakhe wesibini, uya kuqhubeka nokuhlupheka ngenxa yeminyaka yomothuko kunye nenkqubo ende yokuphilisa, kodwa kungcono kakhulu kunenye indlela.
Indawo yokugqibela kaCinderella kunye nomama wakhe wesibini kule filimu ngumzuzu onomdla, othusayo. Ngelixa uhamba nenkosana, uye kubomi bakhe obutsha, ujika ngesiquphe kwaye athi, ndiyakuxolela. Kulula ukucinga ukuba umama wakhe wesibini akakufanelanga ukuxolelwa, kodwa le ndawo ayisiyakhe. Kungenxa yeCinderella. Ukuxolela kwakhe akumenzi akhulule umamakhe kwizinto ezimbi azenzileyo. Endaweni yoko, ivumela uCinderella ukuba abize amandla akhe kwaye afumane isibindi sokuxolela umntu omphethe kakubi kakhulu, ngaloo ndlela azikhethele uxolo njengoko ephelisa isahluko esimnyama kakhulu ebomini bakhe.
Xa ujongene nenkohlakalo, usizi kunye noxinzelelo olukhulu, uCinderella, kuyo yonke inguqulelo, akaze alilahle ithemba nobubele bakhe. Kungenxa yoko le nto inkosana iyamthanda. Uyanyamezela kwaye uyanyamezela kwaye uyanyamezela, kwaye ayisiyonto imfutshane encomekayo. Ibali lakhe likho kuleyo yentsomi, apho kukho oomama abathandwayo kunye neeslippers zeglasi kunye nomlingo-apho amaqhawekazi (ubukhulu becala) emhlophe kwaye ngokwesiko emhle kwaye, ewe, aphelisa amabali abo ngomtshato, kodwa ayiphikisi nayiphi na into UCinderella uya kuye ukuze afumane isiphelo esihle.
Ulixhoba, ixhoba, kunye neqhawe ebalini lakhe. Akukho nkosana inokuthomalalisa imiphumo ehlala ihleli yokuphathwa gadalala, kuphela ngumoya womfazi ongavumiyo ukunikezela kwinto ebeya kuyibona ukuba ibekho kwihlabathi ukuba ebephulukene nokubona ukubaluleka kobuntu bakhe.
Ububele, njengalo naluphi na uloyiso lweqhawe emfazweni, bunokuligcina ihlabathi.
(umfanekiso obonisiweyo: Disney, 20th Century Fox, Andrew H. Walker / Getty Izithombe)
Iimpawu zika-Anya zobufazi nguLeslie Knope noLauren Bacall. Xa engasebenzi kwi-Master's yakhe, unokufumana ukubukela iimovie nenja yakhe, ufunda uNeil Gaiman, okanye eDisneyland. I-Twitter: @iamfanlalisa .
