Sele ingaphezulu kweminyaka emine ukusukela ngee-Oscars zika-2013, xa u-Anne Hathaway waphumelela ibhaso loMlingisi oBalaseleyo ngendima yakhe Iimbandezelo . Kwakukho nexesha apho kwaba yinto eyamkelekileyo ekuhlaleni ukubiza intiyo yomdlali weqonga. I-intanethi yayigcwele iziqwenga zokuqhekeka zichola ukuba kutheni umhlaba wonke uthathe bekhwaza ukungakhathali kwabo .
Babe izizathu ezininzi , kwabonakala. Abantu bathi uzama nzima kakhulu. Ixesha lomntwana womculo weqonga laphoswa ngeenxa zonke. Oku kwakulungile xa inkwenkwezi kaJennifer Lawrence yayiqala ukunyuka, kwaye uthelekiso lwalungenasiphelo. Kutheni le nto engenakufana noJLaw, ongazami konke konke, upholile ngaphandle kwamandla, akunjalo? Bangaphi abantu, bobabini ebomini nakwi-intanethi, okhe weva besithi abazi nokuba kutheni, bengamthandi nje u-Anne Hathaway?
Wonke umntu uthanda izinto ezahlukileyo, kwaye sonke sinabadlali esingabakhathalelanga. Sonke sihlangana nobuntu obusirhabaxa ngendlela engalunganga. Ukuba u-Anne Hathaway akakho, kulungile. Kodwa asinakho ukuzenza ngathi sisasazekile, inzondo enkulu kaHathaway yayigxile kuyo nayiphi na into ngaphandle kokuqonda gwenxa.
Yeyona andazi ukuba kutheni yeyona nto ixelayo. Cinga ngabadlali abangamadoda okanye abadumileyo (okanye, yithi, abezopolitiko) kuluhlu lwakho ongathandi. Ngokubanzi, xa singayithandi indoda, sinokusichaza isizathu. Rhoqo sinokwalatha kwizenzo ezithile okanye kukhetho lomsebenzi. Ukungathandi i-vibe jikelele akukhawulelwanga nje kuphela kwimbono yethu yabasetyhini, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ihlanjululwe.
Kwaye izizathu ezikhoyo zibonakaliswa ngokungafaniyo. Abasetyhini bayadilizwa xa bebonwa ukuba bazama kanzima, kodwa bayarhuqwa ngokulinganayo xa bebonwa njengabantu abangazamiyo okanye abangakhathaliyo ngokwaneleyo (jonga: UKristen Stewart), xa ukungakhathali kwabo kufunda ukungabi nambulelo ngamathuba aphambi kwabo. Kuya kufuneka uhambe umgca ococekileyo obonakala ungenamandla wokuphola kunye nokuziphatha okungapheliyo ukuze uthathwe njengothandekayo eHollywood (kwaye, ngokwenene, umhlaba). Kwaye ayiyonyani, okanye inyani. Jonga nje ukubuyela umva okwathi ekugqibeleni kwaqala ukukhula ngokuchasene noJennifer Lawrence ngokwakhe, xa umhlaba wagqiba kwelokuba, enyanisweni, wazama nzima ukuba aphole.
Ukulandela ukuphumelela kwakhe u-Oscar, uHathaway wabeka phantsi okwexeshana (nokuba kukhethwe okanye kungenxa yokuba ukuthanda ukubonwa kunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo namathuba emisebenzi kubadlali abancinci), ngaphambi kokuba aphoswe I-interstellar . Kwiminyaka ukusukela, i-Hatha-intiyo inciphile, kodwa ngoku, ekugqibeleni, lonke ixesha libhengeziwe kwaye lifile yi-intanethi ngokubanzi. Kule veki, Umjongi yabhala Awulunganga kwaye Usisidenge kwakhona ukuba Uyamcaphukela u-Anne Hathaway. Ixhalanga labhala Akupholanga ukuthiya uAnne Hathaway.
Akukho zinto zilungileyo malunga neTrump *
Ngaphandle kokuba ukuphumelela kwakhe kwenze ukuba intiyo yam ngo-Anne Hathaway yenziwa ngaphakathi kwi-misogyny !!!
-Lauren Duca (@laurenduca) Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesibhozo ku-Matshi 2017
Eli xesha litsha lokuqonda indima yethu edlalwe ngaphakathi kwi-misogyny yethu kwiimvakalelo zethu malunga neHathaway lixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nokukhululwa Ubukhulu , efundwayo, ubuncinci ngenxalenye, njengomzekeliso woxinzelelo kuluntu olubeka kwabasetyhini. Kwaye kukhenketho lakhe lokwazisa abantu ngemovie, umxholo wokungathandeki koluntu kuye uhlala uvela. Ngamafutha, uHathaway uthi ukhulisiwe kudliwanondlebe ngalunye alwenzayo. Ngelixa oko kuvakala kuyinto eyoyikekayo yokwenza-ukukhankanya kumntu ukuba akathandwa kangakanani, ngokungathi ayizukuba buhlungu ukuyiva-ngethemba lokuba esi sisiqalo sesiphelo se-Hatha-intiyo engathandekiyo. Waxelela uIzebhele ekuqaleni kwale veki,
Ndicinga ukuba kuyaxaka ukuba iyaqhubeka ukuthetha malunga nentwana. Ndiyaqonda kumxholo wale bhanyabhanya, kutheni kufanele uziswe. Kodwa kuyavela kudliwanondlebe endilwenzayo, malunga nje. Ndi… andilangazeleli, kodwa ndikulungele ukuba incoko iye kwenye indawo engaphaya kwayo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ndiwamisele onke amabali am, onke amava am ngelo xesha. Ndikulungele ukuba ichazwe, ingachazwanga ngokucacileyo. Kodwa nam andikho esihlalweni somqhubi kolu dliwanondlebe.
Udliwanondlebe, ngakumbi, lunomdla. UHathaway uthetha malunga nokuba nangona engenalo ulusu lomkhombe, unokujonga emva kuyo yonke inzondo eyayihamba ngendlela yakhe kwaye ayibone yonke loo nto. Kwaye uluvo lokuba kukho into engaphaya kokungathandi ngokwenyani, ukuba kukho ukugula okubanzi kuluntu emva kwendlela esithetha ngayo ngabafazi, ixhaswa ngamava odliwanondlebe njengoko ebalisa.
Kungenxa yokuba u-Rich Juzwiak wayengomnye wababhali ababhala la Kutheni Sithiya amanqaku ka-Anne Hathaway. Ngexesha lodliwanondlebe, uHathaway wakhankanya ukuba uza kudibana neziqwenga, naku-Izebhele, kwaye bamenza ukuba azive embi. (Ulugqibe udliwanondlebe ngokuthi Xelela uIzebhele ndiyabathanda nokuba abandithandi !!!) UJuzwiak uthi akazange azibhalele ezo ziqwenga uIzebhele, kodwa uyavuma ukuba wazibhalela Gawker .
Ngelo xesha, bendicinga ukuba ndizamile ukuvavanya inzondo yase Hathaway njengesiqhelo, kunye ne-caveat ethi, ngaphandle kwayo yonke loo nto, yena wayesaphumelela . Sekunjalo, ndandinzima ngokugqithiseleyo ngamanye amaxesha, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo andizange ndibuthathele ingqalelo ubuntu bukaHathaway kwinqanaba endifanele ukuba nalo. Ngapha koko, emva kokuba sithethile, ndafumana iposti endiyipapashileyo eyenze ukuba ndiphinde ndicinge ngayo yonke le ndlela yokuxoxwa nodliwanondlebe.
Okubi nangakumbi, unokukhumbula xa ifoto yeHazhaway yeupskirt yenza ujikelezo kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Waqhubeka kwi Namhlanje Umboniso kunye noMat Lauer benze ihlaya le-skeevy ebonwe kakhulu namhlanje. UHathaway uthe ngelo xesha udliwanondlebe ,
Ngokucacileyo yayisisiganeko esibi. Yinto endenze ndabuhlungu kwiiakhawunti ezimbini. Enye yayikukuba ndandibuhlungu kakhulu ukuba siphila kwiminyaka xa umntu ethatha umfanekiso womnye umntu ngexesha elisesichengeni, kwaye kunokuba awucime, enze into efanelekileyo, awuthengise. Kwaye ndiyaxolisa ukuba siphila kwinkcubeko eguqula isini sabathathi-nxaxheba abangathandiyo. Oko kusibuyisela Iseti […] Ke masibuyele ku Iseti.
Ukuthula kunye nobabalo kuyo yonke indawo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, uye engathandekiyo.
Ngapha koko, uJuzwiak uthi wayelibele kwaphela ngeso siganeko, de kube semva kodliwanondlebe, xa wayekhangela amanqaku amadala awayewabhale malunga neHathaway kwaye wakhumbula ukuba akazange abhale nje ngayo, kodwa wayeba phakathi kwabo baphindayo umfanekiso-umfanekiso ka-Anne Hathaway, ngaphandle kweengubo zangaphantsi kwaye uzama nje ukuphuma emotweni enoxolo. Uthi ngelixa wayengakhumbuli eyibhala, uqinisekile ukuba kwakungathethi lukhulu kuye ngelo xesha. Yayilinye nje iqhekeza lomxholo oweza wadlula kwakamsinya nje xa ndibetha ukupapasha. Uthi ukukhumbula oku ngoku, xa kungabikho iindawo ezininzi eziqhelekileyo eziza kuthumela olo hlobo lwesithombe esingenasiphelo, kwaye ukuphindezela inzondo kunye nenkcubeko yemvume zizona zifundo esithetha ngazo, uziva ezimbi.
Ke ucele udliwanondlebe olukhawulezayo lokucela uxolo, kunye nenqaku elithi uyaxolisa ngokuthumela lo mfanekiso, ukuba ukubangela iintlungu zakhe bekungafanelekanga ngeposti yebhlog, ukuba amaxabiso am atshintshile, kwaye ayisiyonto ' ndike ndacinga ukwenza kwakhona. Umthunywa kaHathaway uthe uza kuyidlulisa inqaku, kunokuba acwangcise ukulandelelana. Kwi-post-script yodliwanondlebe, uthi,
Ndicinga ukuba kulungile. Ngelixa ndinqwenela ukuba ndingaxolisa ngokungqalileyo kuHathaway, ibinokudala umzuzu wentsholongwane ebingafanelekanga (u-Anne Hathaway ujongana neBlogger ngubani othumele i-Crotch yakhe ebonakalisiweyo; I-Blogger iyaxolisa ku-Anne Hathaway ngokuba yi-Male Shithead kwaye awuyi kukholwa Kwenzeka ntoni ngokulandelayo). Kuya kuba kokungafanelekanga ukwenza inzuzo kwakhona, oko kukuthi, ngenxa yento ebekungafanelekanga ukuba ndiyenzile kwasekuqaleni-bekuya kufana nokufumana ibhaso lokundizisa kwinqanaba lokungathathi cala kwezokuziphatha.
U-Anne Hathaway ufumene amathuba amahle obuchwephesha kule minyaka idlulileyo, kodwa wafumana into eluhlaza xa kufikwa kumba woluntu. Sibona indlela awayethethwa ngayo ngelo xesha, kwaye kuncinci kangakanani okutshintshileyo. Ukuba ikhona nje into endingayithandiyo ngaye! isikhumbuza ngokubaliswa malunga noHillary Clinton, ndifuna ukukhwaza ndiphezu kophahla. Kodwa ngoku, ubuncinci, siya siziqonda ngakumbi iimpembelelo ezinkulu zolo hlobo lokujonga. Azikho iindawo ezininzi ezinkulu eziza kugubungela uhlaselo olunzulu lwabucala. Sithetha ngokungaziphathi kakuhle kwinqanaba elilelinye, kwaye ukuzimela kwabasetyhini, inkcubeko yokuvuma, kunye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokwesondo akukhutshwa lula. Singaxoxa ngokuphandle ukuba ezi zigxeko zingacacanga, nezingalunganga zobuntu babafazi zigxile kwinto emnyama, into engenanto yakwenza kakhulu nalo mfazi ngokwakhe kunendlela ihlabathi elijonga ngayo ukuba ngumfazi. Kwaye ukubona umbhali owayesakuba ngumlobi we-Gawker flip i-180 kwaye wanyanzelwa ukuba ahambisane nendima yakhe kwintlalontle yoluntu ngamava abuhlungu, anzima kakhulu. Ugqiba ngokuthi,
Ndiyathemba ukuba uHathaway ufunde inqaku lam, okanye ufunda le nto, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba icacile indlela endibuhlungu ngayo ngokushicilela umfanekiso womzimba wakhe ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe. Ndiyathemba ukuba esi siganeko sigxininisa ukomelela kwesimilo sakhe. U-Anne Hathaway wayengenasibophelelo sokuthetha nam-enyanisweni, ngokunikwa iimvakalelo zakhe ngoIzebhele, wayenesizathu esivakalayo sokungavumi (okanye ukwala nje udliwanondlebe-baninzi abantu abanomdla kwezinye iindawo kuba u-Anne Hathaway uyaqhubeka nokuba wenza kakuhle). Ukanti wandibonisa inqanaba lokuzonwabisa ngaphezulu nangaphaya kwento endandimnike yona. Ubukhulu Umboniso bhanyabhanya malunga nokuba ngumntu omkhulu-ngamanye amaxesha unikezelwa ngokoqobo-kwaye ayinakuba nenkwenkwezi efanelekileyo ngakumbi edlala isikhokelo sayo.
Asikho emgceni wokugqibela, kodwa senza inkqubela phambili.
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