Isilumkiso: Abaphangi Iphupha lotata ngaphambili!
Ngaba ukhe wadlala Iphupha utata okwangoku? Ngaba uye wayifumana iphupha lakho elimnandi notata wamaphupha akho? Kuxhomekeke yeyiphi utata ukhethe ukuba umhla wesithathu, mhlawumbi awuzange.
Ukuba awuqhelananga (WENZA NTONI NGEXESHA LAKHO?), Iphupha utata yinto entsha yokuthandana apho udlala khona utata ongumhlolokazi, ukhulisa intombi yakho ekwishumi elivisayo ngelixa uzama ukuthandana nabanye ootata bengingqi. Kuyonwabisa.
Njengoko udibana nomhla abanye ootata, imihla yakho inikwa amanqaku ngezinto ezihambelanayo (ii-puns zibaluleke kakhulu), de ekugqibeleni ukhethe utata omnye ukuba azibophelele ngomhla wesithathu. Kubo bonke abalinganiswa – intombi yakho, uAmanda, ibandakanyiwe – kukho iziphelo ezilungileyo eziqhelekileyo kunye neziphelo ezimbi onokuzilindela: okt ukuphumelela kunye nokuphulukana nomdlalo. Kodwa uninzi lwabadlali baphoxekile ukuba bakhethe ukulandela uJoseph, umphathiswa wolutsha wasebumelwaneni, nokuba sisiphelo esihle asikuvumeli ukuba nibe kunye. Nokuba wenza yonke into ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye uzifumanise ukuba ekugqibeleni uyahambelana, awufumani ngaphezu kobusuku obunye kwichits.
Kwaye kungenxa yabo bonke ootata, nguJoseph kuphela ongatshatanga. Kwaye nangona yena nenkosikazi yakhe kucacile ukuba abonwabanga, abadali bomdlalo, uLeighton Grey kunye noVernon Shaw, bathi abafuni kunyanzela umdlali ukuba enze igalelo ekupheliseni umtshato. (Kuyabonakala ukuba, nawe awungekhe ufumane isiphelo esihle ngenkwenkwe embi uRobert, kodwa andikadlali ukuba ndifumanise kuba ngokwenene Andinakumelana naloo mfo.)
Watsho uGrey Kotaku Wamangaliswa kukuba abantu abaninzi babecaphukiswe yindlela izinto eziphelela ngayo ngoJoseph. (Kwaye akunakubalwa oko Ukuphela kwehlelo lokubulala elingaqhelekanga Abanye abadlali abafunyenwe kwimowudi yemidlalo.) Ndiyamangaliswa, utshilo, kuba bendicinga ukuba intetho malunga naloo ndlela ingafana nokuthi, 'Oku kuvakala kungathandeki kwaye kubi,' kuba uzama ukophula umtshato . Ndiyamangaliswa kukuba abantu abaninzi bebefana, 'Kutheni singenakuba kunye?'
Ngokungavumeli ukuba umdlali aphele kubo bonke utata, uGrey kunye noShaw baphosa umbono wonke weziphelo ezilungileyo nezimbi entloko. Ngokomntu, ndandikuthanda ukuphela kukaJoseph, kodwa kufuneka ndivume ukuba ndaziva ndiba nomsindo xa ndidlala xa ndingazange ndifumane impendulo evela kubawo ndicinga ukuba ndiyifanele. Xa unikwa ukhetho phakathi kweepun ezimbini, umzekelo, kungekho mahluko ubonakalayo kwiinjongo zabo, utata angaziphosa iintliziyo komnye nakwezo ndawo zoyikekayo zokuphendula ziye kwenye. Kodwa Iphupha utata uzibophelele ekuboneleleni ngamava anyanisekileyo, kwaye oko kuthetha ukungabinakho ukuphumelela rhoqo. Kwaye xa kunjalo, olona luvo lothando olufanelekileyo luziva luluhle.
Njengoko uShaw ebeka, Akufanelekanga ukuba kube malunga 'woo-hoo-ing' wonke umntu. Ukutsho ngokuchanekileyo into afuna ukuyiva umntu de akuphuze yile nto yenziwe yintlalontle.
Inqaku elifanelekileyo.
(nge Kotaku , umfanekiso: Iphupha lotata)
