UGavin Bell kwisiphelo sokugqibela soTshintsho ekuZalweni, ngoncedo lwe-ABC Family / Disney.
Ixesha lesine le Utshintshiwe ekuzalweni Iyaphela ngoMvulo ebusuku, esonga iindawo ezithile kunye nokubonelela ngelitye lencopho lexesha ngokwanga, ukuhamba, usana olutsha, kunye nokuhlekisa ngeXesha lesi-5, ebisandula ukwaziswa . Ingqwalaselo yam igxile kulo sana nakubazali bakhe. Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, uLily, umama wosana, waveza ukuba lo mntwana ufumene ukuba une-Down syndrome. Njengentatheli yamalungelo abakhubazekileyo notata wenkwenkwe ene-Down syndrome, ndiye ndanxila.
Utshintshiwe ekuzalweni Ngumdlalo weqonga ophumelele amabhaso ePeabody osasazwa kwi-ABC Family (kungekudala uza kubizwa ngegama leFreeform). Umboniso ulandela ubomi beentsapho ezimbini ezinentombi zabo-uDaphne Vasquez kunye neBay Kennish -batshintshiwe xa bezalwa esibhedlele. Njengolutsha, utshintsho lutyhiliwe, iintsapho ziyahlangana, kwaye amabali aqhubeka. UDaphne usisithulu, ke imibuzo yokukhubazeka ihlala iziko lomboniso. Nangona ii-plotline zihlala zi-melodramatic, umboniso unezinto ezinzulu ngokungaqhelekanga ngenxa yokugxila ngokungaguquguqukiyo kukwahluka kunye nokuzazisa. Kwinqaku lakutshanje kwimbali ye-ABC Family, uJacqui Shine ubongwa Utshintshiwe ekuzalweni njengomboniso wokuqala ukwenza isiqubulo sejelo, 'Uhlobo Olutsha Losapho'… kuthetha ukuba kuthetha ntoni namhlanje: Iintsapho ezimele ukubonakala okupheleleyo kwezazisi ezahlukeneyo, ezingabalulekanga kwaphela kwaye zithembeke ngakumbi.
Ndadliwanondlebe nomdali womboniso uLizzy Weiss ye UMary Sue kwiiveki ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo ngelixa umboniso ugxile ekubeni uLily angakhetha ukusikhupha isisu. U-Lily ngumlingisi ophambili oxhasayo, ibhinqa elivayo elithetha kakuhle ulwimi lwase-Bhritane nolweMelika. Wazibandakanya kwezothando noToby, oyena mntwana mdala kusapho oluphakathi lwaseKennish, oneminyaka ethandekayo kwaye enetalente, kodwa engekakhuli; ukukhulelwa umntwana kuye kwamtshintsha wangcono. Kwisiqendu apho uLily noToby bathatha isigqibo sokugcina umntwana (kwaye bazame ukuba sisibini kwakhona), uBay uthatha uToby atyelele isikolo sabantwana abakhubazekileyo. Kuloo ndawo, kunye nezo zilandelayo, izinto ezimbini ziye zahambelana: Okokuqala, umboniso awuzami ukufihla imiceli mngeni enokuthi iziswe yi-Down syndrome, kodwa ihlala ibonisa ukuba uluntu ekwabelwana ngalo kunye nothando olwahlukileyo olwahlukileyo. Okwesibini, ndiyalila.
Omnye wemeko yakutshanje ngokukodwa ubalasele. ULily ukwigumbi lokulinda likagqirha kwaye ubona omnye umama nomntwana. Umama uxoxa ngovuyo malunga nendlela intombi yakhe ekuthanda ngayo ukufunda, emva koko ityhila ukuba unentombazana endala, eyimbaleki emnandi. I-monologue kamama, ngeendlela ezininzi, malunga nokuqonda ukufana kubantwana bakho, into uLily ayoyika ukuba angaze ayive. Ndihleli oku amaxesha amaninzi, kutsha nje ndimi kwigumbi eliphezulu lonjingalwazi owaziwayo njengoko yena nabahlobo bakhe bebebonakala ngathi bakhuphisana kwimpumelelo yentenetya yomntwana, bebamba impumelelo yabantwana babo emva naphambili njengoko bendizithululela esinye isiselo.
Kwisigqibo, uLily ufumana amandla okuchaza uloyiko lwakhe kuToby, ethetha ngokukhanyela kwakhe, kwaye kunye, baya phambili ekwamkelweni nasekuqondeni. Ngeeyure emva kokuba unyana wam ezelwe kwaye efunyanisiwe, ndiyakhumbula ndibambe umfazi wam kwaye ndilila ngokungafanelekanga. Ke, njengesi sibini sineentsomi, saqala uhambo sisuka ekubeni sicinezelwe yiyantlukwano phakathi kwethu nomntwana wethu ekuqondeni konke esabelana ngako. Andizange ndibone ukuba idrama ethile yeemvakalelo, enye inomdla kwimemori yam, idlala ngaphambili kwiTV.
Kwaye ngoku, njengoko kutyhilwe kwipromo yonyaka wokugqibela , uyeza umntwana!
Ndithethile noLizzy Weiss malunga namacebo e-Down-syndrome ngexesha ukusukela oko uLily noToby bagqiba kwelokuba babe nosana.
UDavid Perry: Ngokucacileyo umba wokuqala emva kokuba uLily efumene ukuba unesifo sokukhupha isisu. Nje ukuba uLily athathe isigqibo sokugcina umntwana, ngenkxaso kaToby, yayithini imixholo elandelayo yeziqendu eziseleyo zeli xesha?
U-Lizzy Weiss : Emva kwesigqibo sikaToby & Lily, isiqwenga esilandelayo yayikukuba nosapho, ngakumbi uJohn noBay, bamkele isigqibo sabo kwaye bavakalise inkxaso. Iikawusi zazenzelwe ukuba ziyimangalise kwaye zivuselele indlela yokuba usapho lumxelele ukuba bonke bebeza kunceda ukukhulisa olu sana.
Ibali elilandelayo elibaluleke ngokwenene-enye yeentando zam-yayikukubonisa ukungathandabuzeki kwicala likaLily. Ndifuna nyani ukuthembeka kwimbono yokuba ngenxa yokuba uthatha isigqibo sokugcina umntwana, oko akuthethi ukuba uloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki kuphelile. Bendifuna ukuba noLily abonakalise ukuba buhlungu kwinto angazukuba nayo, imvakalelo yelahleko ngenxa yento awayekulindele ukuba ngumzali… zonke ezo mvakalelo zichazwe kakuhle Wamkelekile eHolland , ’Nokubonisa ukuba neentloni kwakhe ukuba nezo ngcinga, emva koko kubekho umntu othi 1. Kulungile ukuziva ngaloo ndlela. Ayikwenzi isilo. Konke oku kutsha kwaye kuyasoyikisa kwaye uvumelekile ezo mvakalelo. 2. Unokumangaliswa zizinto zonke ezinokwenziwa ngumntwana wakho. Kwaye 3. Lo uzakuba ngumntwana wakho. Kwaye icandelo le-Down Syndrome liza emva kwendima ethi 'lo ngumntwana wam'.
Ishawa yabantwana yayilibali nje lendalo kuthi… Kwakuza kwenzeka ntoni emva koko? Umama omtsha mhlawumbi angaphoswa ishawa. Kulungile, ingahluka njani ishawa yomntwana one-Down Syndrome? Ewe, mhlawumbi akufuneki yahluke kodwa ngaba ezinye iindwendwe zingaziva zixhalabile okanye zibuhlungu okanye zixabisekile kwaye zithethe izinto ezingafanelekanga? Mhlawumbi kunjalo. Kulungile, ngubani oya kuthi athethe into engafanelekanga ngokupheleleyo? Mhlawumbi umfazi wesayensi. Kwaye saqonda ukuba kufuneka sizibandakanye kwingxoxo entle enomdla malunga ne-eugenics kwaye sibuze imibuzo enje 'Ngaba sifuna ukuphelisa umahluko? Ngoba? Ngaba umahluko uyinto embi? Ngaba kufuneka sihambelane nombono wokuba ukukhawuleza / ukomelela / ubukrelekrele kubangcono? ’Kwaye ngumbuzo ogqwesileyo nozidlayo ukutsho ukuba andikaze ndibone uphakanyiswa komnye umdlalo.
UDavid Perry : Ndabethwa kwindawo yokuhlambela usana indlela uKathryn Kennish aye waba ngummeli onobuchule nobusebenzayo kwimicimbi yokukhubazeka, kangangokuba ndabuya ndabuya ndaphinda ndayibukela ixesha lonyaka 1 isiqendu 1 kunye nokuphendula kwakhe kukungeva kukaDaphne. Ngaba ungathetha kancinci malunga nokukhula kwakhe njengomlingiswa kula maxesha onyaka? Ngaba ukhulile uJohn?
Oko kukuqonda okuchulumancisayo okwenzileyo kwaye ngokungafihlisiyo, ukuba ngaphakathi kwebali yonke le minyaka, andizange ndilwenze olo nxibelelwano. ULea mhlawumbi unayo. Kodwa yinyani! Waqala kumqhubi wenqwelomoya wakhululwa ngokupheleleyo kukungeva kukaDaphne, kodwa inxenye yaloo nto kungenxa yokuba wayengakwazi ukunxibelelana nentombi yakhe ngokulula, kwaye kuba wayengekho nje nakubani na (ngokwenkcubeko) engevayo ngaphambili. Yaziva ingaphandle kwaye yoyikisa. Kwaye zonke ezi ziqendu kamva, ufundile nje. Yiyo yonke into oyifunayo ngokwenene. Imfundo kunye neqhina leemvakalelo kumntu omthandayo. Kuyafana noko sikubonileyo kweli lizwe ngomtshato wesini: eyona ndlela yokutshintsha ingqondo yomntu kukwazi nokuthanda umntu osondeleyo kuwe ophakamisa naziphi na iingcinga obukade unazo ngaphambili kwaye akujike ube ngummeli onomdla wamalungelo abo.
Ngokubhekisele kuJohn, ulukhuni ejikeleze imiphetho kodwa eneneni ungumntu onothando ngaphakathi, notata omangalisayo. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba uyakukhusela umzukulwana wakhe ngokungqongqo njengomfazi wakhe, nje ukuba adibane naye.
UDavid Perry Umboniso ulwenza njani usana olune-Down syndrome, lucinga ukuba lulusana lokwenene?
ULizzy Weiss: Ewe yayingumntwana wokwenene lowo! Kwaye siphosa umntwana one-Down Syndrome! Yindlela esiqengqeleka ngayo Utshintshiwe ekuzalweni. Ayizange ithi qatha ezingqondweni zethu ukudubula loo ndawo ngenye indlela. Kwaye impendulo 'njani?' Ngumsebenzi wemveliso yethu emangalisayo. Icawa yethu i-UPM Mary Church yazibandakanya kweli bali, yamchukumisa, kwaye wachitha impelaveki yakhe edibana nosapho kwaye ehamba ngezo kawusi. Yena kunye nomvelisi wethu uShawn Wilt (onoxanduva lwale nati kunye neebholithi zemveliso yethu) bafumene uluhlu lweentsana kwaye sakhetha uGavin Bell, waseApple Valley. Wayemalunga neenyanga ezintathu ubudala xa sasidubula isiqephu kwaye wahlawulwa kwinqanaba lomlingisi! Kukho iarhente yetalente ephetheyo (ndiyakholelwa phantse kuphela) abadlali beDown Syndrome, ke kukho inkqubo phaya yokufumana nabani na oyifunayo. UGavin waziphatha ngokugqibeleleyo ngalo mhla kwaye sonke samthanda.
UDavid Perry : Ngawaphi amanye amabali anxulumene nokukhubazeka ongathanda ukuwabalisa kwixesha elizayo? Ngaba ungasinika nakuphi na ukucebisa malunga nokuzayo emva koko?
U-Lizzy Weiss : Sinikwe nje iXesha lesi-5, endonwabe ngalo, kungoko ndinemincili yokubuyela kumabali ajongene nokukhubazeka. Andikayazi nangoku ukuba iza kuba yintoni kanye le arene; Iqela lam kwaye ndiza kubona nje ukuba amabali kunye nabalinganiswa basisa phi. Kodwa ndilindele ukudibana nosana olutsha njengomfana omncinci kwaye ndimbone eyinxalenye yale ntsapho imangalisayo eyahlukileyo kwaye inothando.
Utshintshelwe kwimimoya yokuzalwa ngeMivulo kwi-ABC Family kwi-8 yaseMpuma / 7 eMbindi.
UDavid M. Perry yintatheli ezizimeleyo. Fumana umsebenzi wakhe e lo myalezo.net . Mlandele kwi-Twitter ( @Lollardfish ).
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