Okwangoku, umboniso weHBO ozayo Imincili Ukufumana iindaba ezininzi kuba kubonakala ngathi kuninzi ngesondo kunye neziyobisi kuwo-ngokukodwa, iipenisi ezininzi, kunye Intatheli yaseHollywood esithi zikhona njengama-30 dick kuyo . Ngoku, njengomntu obukele intsalela yamabele kumabonwakude wam, andizibambisi ncam iiperile zam ngombono wepenisi kwiscreen sam. Hayi, eyona nto indinika ikhefu kukuba bekungekho iiphedi zokugubungela ezikhusela abalingisi kwimiboniso yesini.
Imincili, zeziphi iinkwenkwezi Indoda yesigcawu: Kude nekhaya Inkwenkwezi uZendaya njengokhokelayo, ibizwa ngokuba yeyona nto ingagungqiyo, ingasathethi ke ngokucacileyo, thatha ixesha lokufikisa elilelayo ukubukela umabonwakude wase-U.S. Kwisiqendu esinye kuphela, kufutshane ne-30 penises flash onscreen, evakala ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ayinamntu kum, kodwa ndibukele nezigcawu ze-orgy Igazi lokwenyani kwiminyaka yam yeshumi elivisayo.
Ngoku, andikho krwada, kwaye ukuba i-HBO icinga ukuba olu luhlobo lwento ulutsha lwaseMelika oluyifunayo, banokulufumana. Njengomntu obukeleyo Riverdale kwaye wakhula nini Intombi ehlebayo yayingowona mxholo ulutsha olulinganiswa nge-x kumabonwakude waseMelika, ngokuqinisekileyo ixesha elide ulutsha luqhelekile ukuba lube sasendle kwiTV, kodwa ngexesha leNetflix, apho imidlalo yolutsha yamazwe aphesheya ifana Izikhumba, Imfundo yezesondo, phakathi, kwaye Abadala zifikeleleka ngokulula, ixabiso lokothuka liza kuphela ukuya kuthi ga ngoku kuye nabani na.
Kananjalo bangaphi abakwishumi elivisayo abazokwazi ukubukela lo mboniso? Ngaba iya kuba yeyolutsha okanye abantu abadala abafuna ukubukela ulutsha lusabelana ngesondo? Ndiyathetha, ngoononophala kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezifikeleleka ngokulula kulutsha, ndiyathandabuza ukuba baya kuhlaziswa ngama-30 dick kwiscreen. I-Snapchat iwaphule loo mqobo. Ngamanye amaxesha ezi zibonisa nje isandi sendlela yokuba abantu abadala babe ziivenkile zemizimba yolutsha ngelixa besazi ukuba abadlali badala kwaye bayazithethelela ngaloo ndlela.
Ulutsha luyabelana ngesondo, kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke into yokuba umdlalo wolutsha kufuneka ubenjalo.
Okwangoku, ayisiyiyo eyona nto iphambili endinika ikhefu, kuba ndilindele ukuba abantu abadala basebenzise iidrama zolutsha ngamanye amaxesha iindlela ezinoburharha. Nantsi eyona nto indifumeneyo:
Njengomgaqo omtsha kwi-HBO, uthungelwano luqeshe umnxibelelanisi, u-Amanda Blumenthal, intombi yesigqeba semveliso uGinny Nugent. Ukuba utyelelwe nguAmanda ngala mini, ubusazi ukuba kuzokuhla, utshilo umlingisi uBarbie Ferreira, 22, obefanele ukwenza umboniso bhanya-bhanya kwisiqendu sesithathu apho umntu otyebe kakhulu kwi-webcam ekhupha incanca yakhe encinci yena. Ndikhumbula nje wonke umntu ebekiwe, utshilo, eqaphela ukuba yena kunye nomnye umdlali weqonga babenomnxeba wokwenene weSkype owawudlala bukhoma kwiseti. Ekuqaleni, uBlumenthal wazama ukusebenzisa iipads zokugubungela ngokukodwa ezokwabelana ngesondo ezingqineke ziluncedo I-Deuce , kodwa wafumanisa ukuba aziloncedo kangako kuba abadlali kunqabile ukuba babe kwindawo yobufundisi.
Okokuqala, ndonwabile ukuba banabaququzeleli obusondeleyo kwiseti enzima ngokwesondo. Oko kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye kwixesha le-MeToo, kulungile ukuba nomntu owongamelayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu usebenzisa inzuzo. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyathemba ukuba babenohlobo oluthile lokugubungela ngexesha lesini, kuba zikhona ii-STIs ezinokudluliselwa ngonxibelelwano lodwa, hayi ulwelo lwesondo kuphela (i-herpes kunye ne-HPV yeyona ixhaphakileyo).
Ukuvavanywa kwe-herpes kuhlala kwenziwa xa kukho iimpawu ezibonakalayo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ayinakusasazeka. Ngaphezu koko, kunzima ukuvavanya ngokubanzi. Ukuvavanywa kwamadoda i-HPV kunzima ukuyenza, kwaye kubantu abanesibeleko, ihlala isenziwa nge-pap smear, nokuba ingaphila emzimbeni wakho kwaye ingasebenzi. Ngoku, ezi zii-STIs eziqhelekileyo, kwaye akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuba nazo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uza kuba kwindawo ebonakalayo yezesondo apho imizimba ichukumisa khona, kubalulekile ukuba kuthintelwe impilo yomntu wonke.
Ukonakalisa isondo kubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa okona kubaluleke nangakumbi kukukhuthaza isondo elikhuselekileyo kwiscreen kwaye emveni kwenkqubo.
(nge Intatheli yaseHollywood , umfanekiso: HBO)
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