Kubantu abaninzi abakhulele kwiminyaka yoo-2000, umdlali weDisney uChristian Carlson Romano wayengumntu obonisa. Ukusuka eBroadway Omhle kunye nesilwanyana, UCadet Kelly , Nkqu noStevens, okanye UKim kunokwenzeka , URomano wayebubuso obuqhelekileyo (kunye nelizwi) ebiyinxalenye yobomi bethu. Uye waziwa ngokuba nobomi esidlangalaleni obuzolileyo, kodwa a Ulutsha oluVogue Isincoko esibhalwe ngumdlali weqonga iyavuma ukuba uninzi lwalo mfanekiso Uvela ekujonganeni cwaka nentlungu yakhe.
Ekuqaleni kwesiqwenga, uRomano ucacisa ukuba, ngelixa imizabalazo yakhe ingakhange yenzeke eluntwini, yayiseyinxalenye enkulu yento awayeyiyo ngelixa sasimbukele kwiscreen.
Ngelixa uninzi lubonile umzabalazo wam uShia LaBeouf esidlangalaleni, ndiye ndasokola ndathula, uyabhala. Andililo ixhoba, kodwa andikaze ndigqibelele okanye ndidityaniswe kunye njengoko igama lam okanye impumelelo yokuba mdala kwam ingabonisa. Ngexesha lexesha ebomini bam, bendinengxaki yoxinzelelo, ukusela, nokuninzi, ndinqwenela ukufumana izilungiso zendlela endiziva ngayo.
Ukwathetha ngokungaphuhlisi ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ezenziwe ngabafundi kuba wayeqhutywa yindlela yakhe yobugcisa, eyamshiya enqongophele ekuzazini nasekuziqhelaniseni nabanye abantu:
Ndifunde kuphela ukukhwela ibhayisekile ndineminyaka eli-12 ubudala kuba bendinomnxeba wokurhweba ngokutya okuziinkozo. Ndandinabahlobo abambalwa kakhulu abalingana nam kwaye ndingenako ukunxibelelana neemvakalelo zam ngokufanelekileyo ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kwam ngokwahluka. Into ekwakufuneka ndithandwe yayingumsebenzi wam osisigxina kunye nokukhathazeka kwam rhoqo.
URomano waxelelwa ukuba uza kusilela kakhulu ukuba angahamba Nkqu noStevens kwaye baphela besokola ekholejini ngenxa yale micimbi sele ikhankanyiwe ngokwazi ukufumana ubuhlobo. Wazifumana edidekile xa enokuba nakho ukuba namava okwishumi elivisayo njengalawo awamncedayo ukukhuthaza kumabonwakude. Kulapho wagqiba ekubeni abuyele ekusebenzeni njenge-Belle kwi-Broadway. Ekukhuleni kwam, ndandihamba namakhaya angamawaka ndiziva ndililolo kwaphela. Abantu babenokubuyiselwa endaweni ababebone ukuba ndingayo. Imposter syndrome yayinokhuphiswano olunzima ngokuchasene nokuzithiya kwam ngelo xesha.
Ukuzonda kuye kwaguquka kwaba kukuzenzakalisa, noRomano evuma ukuba uzame ukukrwela ulusu lwam ngozipho kuba bendisoyika ukusebenzisa imela. Ndikhutshiwe kwaye ndiziva ngokunyanisekileyo ngathi ndiphumelele umdyarho obalulekileyo wokuphumelela indebe yeyona 'ntombazana intle, intle.'
Ndiyifumene le nxalenye ibaluleke kakhulu kuba, xa ndijongana nemicimbi yam yokuzenzakalisa, ndaziva ndonwabile ngenxa yokoyika ukusebenzisa izinto ezibukhali. Yindawo engaqhelekanga yokuziva ukonganyelwe ziimvakalelo zakho kodwa woyika nokushiya imiqobo ehlala ixesha elide, ebonakalayo eza kuvumela abantu ukuba babone into oyenzileyo.
Njengoko isizukulwana esibukele uLindsey Lohan siwohloka, kunye namanye amadoda namabhinqa aselula adumileyo, akukho nto inokuphika ukuba ukuba nodumo usemncinci kangaka kunokuba nomonakalo omkhulu onokubakho. Ukunyanzelwa kwindawo yokuba ngumdala kwezemali kunye nomsebenzi kwaye ungabinanto ngaphandle kwamadoda ewe kulutsha lwakho izandi njengeyona ndlela igqibeleleyo yokubambelela kuphuhliso olunamandla olubanjiweyo.
Isiqwenga sonke kukuhlola ngamandla komntu oza kungena endaweni emnyama, ngokwengqondo, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe kufuneka afumane indlela yokuphuma. Kukwakhumbuza ukuba ukugula ngengqondo nezinto ezinje ngoxinzelelo zinokuzibonakalisa ngeendlela ezininzi. Ngenxa yokuba umntu engangxoli kakhulu, oko akuthethi ukuba akakhalanga ngaphakathi. Kubi nangakumbi xa kulindeleke ukuba ube negama elicocekileyo lokulunga kwaye unyanzelwe ukuba ngumzekelo xa ungekagqibi nokuzikhulisa.
Sisoloko siza kuba neenkwenkwezi zabantwana, kodwa kufuneka sibe neendlela ezingcono zokubakhusela. Ndonwabile ukuba uChristy Carlson Romano ufike kwindawo apho angathetha khona malunga noku kwaye avumele abanye abantu bazi ukuba ababodwa.
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