Kwabhengezwa kule veki ukuba, emva kophando olwenziwe yi-AMC, uChris Hardwick uza kubuyiselwa njengomgcini we Ukuthetha kwabafileyo. Ngoku u-Chloe Dykstra, obhale isincoko malunga nobudlelwane obunetyhefu, obuhlukumezayo kunye nendoda ekukholelwa ukuba nguHardwick (akazange amthiye kwisiqwenga) okhuthaze ukususwa kwakhe kwasekuqaleni, uthathe kuTwitter echaza ukuba kutheni ekhethe ukungabi Inxalenye yolo phando.
Ekuqaleni ndibhale isincoko sam ukuze ndiqhubeke nobomi, kwaye ngoku ndinenjongo yokwenza njalo. Enkosi, kwakhona, kwabo bandixhasile ngeli xesha. pic.twitter.com/sjBEKGpY7v
-Chloe Dykstra (@skydart) Julayi 26, 2018
Bendihleli ndinyanisile okoko ndavela ndaya kwisincoko sam endingazange ndazimisela ukonakalisa i-career yalomntu bendithetha ngaye, uyabhala. Ndingabonelela ngeenkcukacha ezithe kratya, kodwa ndakhetha ukungazenzi. Ndithethile into endifuna ukuyithetha ngalo mbandela, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuqhubeka nobomi bam. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, ndikhethe ukungathathi nxaxheba kuphando ngokuchasene nomntu endithetha ngaye. Andikholelwa kwiliso ngeliso, ke ngoko ndiye ndabelana nobungqina bam nabo baziva ndibafanele ukuba babubone.
Ngelixa iDykstra kufanele ukuba yayazi ukuba, nokuba angabizi igama likaHardwick (aqhubeka engayenzi ngoku), isincoko sakhe besinokuba neziphumo ezibi kuye kunye nomsebenzi wakhe, esi sithuba sisikhumbuzo esikhulu sokuba xa ixhoba elityhola ukuphathwa gadalala likhetha ukuza phambili, yena okanye uvumelekile ukuba enze ngokwemiqathango yabo. Isincoko sakhe besithetha ngokuvalwa nokukhanya kwimicimbi yokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemphefumlweni, kunye nokubuyisa oko, ngamazwi akhe, ibali elingeyonyani […] elenzelwe ukundenzakalisa kunye nomsebenzi wam. Uye wakhankanya ukuba wayenobungqina obuphathekayo bokuxhatshazwa abuchazayo, kodwa kuphela njengesilumkiso sokuba indoda ekuthethwa ngayo ingazami ukuziphindezela ngokusemthethweni.
Kuya kubakho iitroli ezininzi ezithatha ukwaliwa kweDykstra ukuba zithathe inxaxheba kuphando njengobungqina bokuba uyaxoka, njengoko bekwachaza ngendlela engeyiyo ukubuyiswa kukaHardwick njengobungqina bokuba umsulwa, kodwa oku yayingekokuqhubeka komthetho. Ayinanto yakwenza nenkqubo efanelekileyo. Yayiluphando lwangaphakathi oluqhutywa yinkampani yabucala, ejonge ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba ingaba izityholo ezichasene neHardwick ziyabuchaphazela na ubudlelwane babo bokusebenza, nokuba ayinyani okanye ayinyani. Kwaye yayiluphando malunga nesiphelo somsebenzi kaHardwick, awathi uDykstra kwasekuqaleni akazami kwenza zwi.
Kodwa abo troll bathembela kwiziphumo zophando lwangaphakathi njengobungqina bokuba umsulwa kwendoda kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngabantu abafanayo abacaphuka kubukho bayo nayiphi na uphando olukhokelela ekudubuleni kwendoda . Kukuzingela kobugqi, bathi, kungenjalo, kutheni inkampani ingenakwenza ukuba uluntu lwazi zonke iinkcukacha? Ndicinga ukuba umzobo kaVenn wala maqela mabini sisangqa esifanelekileyo. Akukho malunga nenkqubo kubo; imalunga nokufumana iziphumo ezithile.
Ndiqinisekile abo babesele beqinisekile ukuba iDykstra yayixoka ayikhathali nento yokuba ifemu yomthetho eqeshwe yi-AMC inembali ende yokumela usapho olwalutyebe ngokumasikizi usapho lakwaHearst, awatshata kulo uHardwick xa wayetshata nenkosikazi yakhe, uLydia Hearst, kodwa yeyiphi eyona mpikiswano inkulu yomdla olinganiswe nemibono ebesele imiselwe kwangaphambili yeyabalandeli abanogonyamelo?
Unyango lweDykstra okoko waphuma nebali lakhe luye lwenyanyeka. I-Hardwick stans ayifuni uphando ukuze ikholelwe ukuba iyaxoka (kwaye imxelele njalo kwi-Intanethi), kwaye akukho siphumo kolo phando lwalunokutshintsha iingqondo zabo, kodwa nabo bangakholelwa kuye basenakho, kwihlabathi eligqibeleleyo , mphathe ngesidima. Endaweni yoko, i-TMZ yapapasha yaza yajika imibhalo kuye ukuya eHardwick, ngelizama ukumenza abonakale ngathi uphambene kwaye unxanelwe. (Yeyiphi iDykstra ekhankanye kule posi ye-Twitter njengempendulo kuye wonke umntu obuza ukuba kutheni engazange afikelele kuye buqu ngaphambi kokupapasha isincoko sakhe.)
Umfazi kaHardwick, uLydia Hearst uhlasele iDykstra kunye nabaxhasi bakhe kwi-intanethi, ukuya kuthi ga ekuhlaziseni esidlangalaleni omnye owayesakuba ngumqeshwa weNerdist ngemizabalazo yakhe yabucala enesidima. (Ngokucacileyo, andidibanisi naloo nto, kodwa kukuziphatha okungathandekiyo.)
Ngokunyanisekileyo, andikuniki nto.
Yintoni eyenziwa liQela uHardwick ngezixhobo zalo ezimangalisayo. Ligwala. Kuchasene nobubele, okanye uvelwano, okanye ukuthantamisa.
Ukubetha phantsi, kunzima, ukugcina ubuso.
-Ngakumbi (@Theremina) Julayi 27, 2018
Ndiyakholelwa kwiDykstra xa isithi ibingazami ukuba nefuthe kwikhondo lesoka lakhe langaphambili. Wayenethuba lokulinganisa kwinethiwekhi yokukhetha ukuqhubeka nokumqesha, kwaye wala. Abaninzi baya kukhetha ukukholelwa ukuba kungenxa yokuba wayengenabo ubungqina bokuxhasa amabango akhe, kodwa emva kokuzithoba kwisibetho sokuxhatshazwa okunetyhefu kwinyanga ephelileyo, ndikhetha ukumkholelwa xa esithi akanamdla.
Ngeeseksi eziphumayo edolophini, ubhala ku-Twitter, ndizimisele ukugxila kumxholo endandifuna ukukhanyisa kuwo: ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo. Ndiceba ukuqhubeka nale ncoko kwaye ndizimisele ukusebenza namaziko afana neRAINN kunye namanye amaqela enkxaso kumaxhoba.
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