NgeCynthia Nixon ebalekela iRhuluneli yaseNew York, i-Twitter yayithetha ngendlela yokuba UMiranda ayisabonwa njengento engathandekiyo, kodwa njengophawu lokuzimela kunye nobufazi. Ngoku, njengomntu omtsha, kodwa ozinikeleyo ngokweqile Isini kunye neSixeko , Ndingatsho ukuba ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo bekukho into engalunganga kunokuba nguMiranda, kwaye nguCharlotte.
Ukuqala kwam ukubukela umboniso kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo, ndandizimisele ukuthandana noMiranda endandimbona emhlophe uMaxine Shaw ( Ukuhlala ungatshatanga yeza kuqala, uxolo andixoli). Ukanti, xa ndibukele umboniso neqabane lam, umlinganiswa endiye ndazifumana ndithandana naye, ndivelana naye kwaye ndingenza eyona nto ibalulekileyo… yayinguCharlotte York. Ewe, yandikhulula nayo.
Kuba awufanelanga ukuba uthande uCharlotte, unguye krwada , uye esisimumu , uthe phithi yiyo kodwa ! Kodwa ndathi ndakujonga uthotho ndafika ekuqondeni ukuba uCharlotte ngoyena mntu uphucukileyo kumdlalo kwaye unomnye wabalinganiswa abaphambili kulo lonke ixesha lokubonisa.
Ke le yeyam Isini kunye neSixeko ukuthatha konke okushushu kuni nonke maqela kaMiranda kunye neQela Samantha abalandeli phaya (ndiyanibona balandeli beQela Carrie phayaa ezithunzini kwaye ndiyanazisa), ukuba yiCharlotte Park Avenue Pollyanna York-Goldenblatt oyena mntu ubalaseleyo Isini kunye neSixeko .
Okokuqala, kufuneka sijongane nezinto ezihlala zibanjwa ngokuchasene noCharlotte njengomlinganiswa: usisidenge esingenantlonelo okhathalela kuphela amadoda, umtshato kunye nokuphila ubomi besintu.
UCharlotte uyiPrude:
Enye yezinto endiyifumene ehlekisayo ngokubukela Isini kunye neSixeko yayinjani ukuba mbuna xa iyonke. Umboniso ngokuqinisekileyo wawusisiqabu xa wawuphuma, kodwa ngoku kuyahlekisa ukuba bonke bakhululwe njani kwaye banengxaki xa kufikwa kwisini okanye isini sangasemva. Ngelixa uCharlotte engenguye owabelana ngesondo njengoSamantha, akukho namnye kwabafazi . UMiranda wayekhe wakhululeka kuba iqabane lakhe eliyindoda lalifuna ukumanga emva kokwenza isondo ngomlomo kuye. UCarrie, njengoCharlotte, wayekhe wamhlazisa uSamantha ngokuba nesondo kakhulu.
UCharlotte wayevulelekile kwimbono yesithathu kwaye wakhanyisa ibele lakhe esidlangalaleni kwakanye. Akangomntu ongatshatanga yedwa, kodwa akangomntu onobuqili. Andazi ngawe, kodwa kwanentetho yam yesidlo sakusasa ayibandakanyi ukuxoxa ngendlela embi ngayo incasa yobudoda eyenye. USamantha noCharlotte bobabini bongezelelekile kwisiphumo se-comedic kunye ne-binaries elula, kodwa ayibonisi isimilo sabo kwindawo esisiseko.
UCharlotte ubakhathalele kwaphela abantu kunye noMtshato:
Le ngxabano ndiyifumanisa ingenakuphikiswa kuba kuyo yonke into kaMiranda yokugxeka uSamantha ngokwesini kunye noCarrie… UCarrie-ness, bonke bafuna ubambiswano kunye nokuzalisekiswa (nokuba kungokwesondo nje) emadodeni. UCharlotte kuphela komntu ophambili malunga nokuba ewe, ufuna ukutshata kwaye abe nosapho.
Kuwo onke la manqaku, bonke abafazi bayazigweba ngokwazi kwabo ukufumana amadoda kunye nolwalamano abalugcinayo. UCarrie ukhalaza ngomhla wakhe wokuzalwa ukuba akanamntu ukhethekileyo okanye umphefumlo. USamantha uhamba imigama emide ukugcina iithebhu kuRichard emva kokuba bebuyile kuba uyaphamba uya kuphinda amkhohlise. UMiranda ujonge emadodeni ukuqinisekisa isibheno sakhe sesini emva kokukhulelwa kwakhe.
Ngaphandle kokuba uCharlotte evakalisa umnqweno wakhe wokutshata kwaye abe neqabane lakhe lexesha elide, bonke abanye abadlali bayafumana amaqabane ngaphambi kwakhe kwiXesha lokuQala. (UJames / Samantha, Big / Carrie, Skipper / Miranda). Ke nanjengoko beqengqisa amehlo kwaye becinga ukuba iminqweno kaCharlotte ayinamsebenzi, inyani kukuba ukuphela kwenkqubo hayi ngu Abafazi abatshatanga kwaye bobabini uMiranda noCharlotte bobabini bonwabile emtshatweni. Kwakhona, makwazeke ukuba nguCharlotte, hayi uMiranda okanye uCarrie okanye uSamantha, abathi bonke bangabalingani bomphefumlo. UCharlotte, ngaphezu kwawo onke amanye amabhinqa, ungumhlobo othembekileyo. (UCarrie ngekhe abuze uCharlotte imali kwaye uCharlotte wayengekho mbi ngokunganikeli.)
UCharlotte usisidenge:
UCharlotte akasosidenge. Unamava kodwa ayiveli kukuswela imfundo, ivela ekukhuseleni. Ngapha koko, bendinokuphikisa ukuba uSamantha akalufumani uvavanyo lwe-HIV ade akhuliswe njengento yenye indoda ukuba ibe yenye yezona zinto zibubudenge umlinganiswa awakhe wazenza kolu thotho. Ubuye waya eSmith College, apho kuhlala uninzi lwamanenekazi kwimigca yeqela. Sihlala sibeka isihloko sesidenge kwabona babhinqileyo kwiqela labasetyhini kwaye yingxaki kwaye ithi ngakumbi malunga nenkcubeko yethu yokwabelana ngesondo ngaphakathi kuyo wenza malunga noCharlotte.
Ngoku ndenze iimpendulo zam, makhe ndithethe ngokuba kutheni uCharlotte, ngokuyintloko iSansa ye Isini kunye neSixeko .
Kum, uCharlotte kumaxesha okuqala ambalwa yingqokelela yazo zonke izinto abafazi ekumele ukuba babe zizo kwaye kufanele ukuba babe neentloni ngokuba kanye ngexesha elinye. UCharlotte uxelelwe ukuba uthando lokwenene lunokwenzeka kwaye ukuba uyazinikela njengomfazi ofanelekileyo indoda efanelekileyo iya kulibona ixabiso lakho kwaye ikukhethe. Ke ngoko uCharlotte wenza lo mdaniso, efuna uhlobo olulungileyo lwendoda, ukuthandana ngokungapheliyo efuna ukuzaliseka. Xa uCharlotte efumana le ndoda eTrey, uyaqhubeka nokusebenza. Abalali kunye kude kube sebusuku ngaphambi kokuba batshate (athi angene kuye ngokukhawuleza) emva koko uCharlotte afumanise ukuba uTrey akakwazi ukuyifumana. Sekunjalo, uphelelekile ngoko uCharlotte unquma ukuzama.
Esi sisiqalo sotshintsho lukaCharlotte.
Ngomtshato kaCharlotte, unyanzelekile ukuba achithe iingcinga zolonwabo lomtshato xa kufikwa kuTrey. I-Trey's Madonna-isifebe esimbaxa xa kufikwa kuCharlotte ichaphazela ubomi babo bezesondo xa engakwazi ukumbona ngokupheleleyo njengesondo kwaye endaweni yoko uphulula amalungu e-Jugs. Ukunqongophala kwabo ekusondeleni ayisiyiyo nje ibali nje ngabo, kodwa malunga nendlela ezo zimvo zesini zinokuthi zingabuyiseli kuphela abantu basetyhini, abanesondo, kodwa kubantu abangaziyo ukuba bangababona njani abantu basetyhini. ngeemfuno zabo zesondo.
Kukule arc apho uCharlotte aqala khona ukulawula ubuni bakhe, kwaye ngelixa esebenza ukugcina izinto zesondo zomtshato wakhe, kukho enye into ayifunayo: abantwana. Yeyiphi eyona nto isizisa kumdlalo webali endiwuthandayo kolu ngcelele: Ukungachumi kukaCharlotte.
Enye yezinto uGabrielle Union athetha ngayo kwimemo yakhe yindlela aphunyelwe zizisu ezininzi kunye nonyango ukuzama ukuba nabantwana abangaphumelelanga. UCharlotte wayengomnye wamaxesha okuqala endakha ndabona ibali elalijongana naloo mbandela ngendlela ekhathalayo nengahambelaniyo. Ibonisa intlungu yakhe, ukukhathazeka kunye nendlela ekunokuba buhlungu ngayo ukubona abantu abakungqongileyo benabantwana xa ufuna ngamandla ukuba nabo.
Okokugqibela, ngokwalo mxholo webali, uCharlotte umi kumamazala wakhe onobuhlanga xa esenza amagqabantshintshi ngobuhlanga malunga noCharlotte noTrey becinga ukuthatha umntwana waseChina. Into engafane ivele ngokwamkelwa kwabantu bezinye iintlanga.
Xa uCharlotte edibana noHarry, aka owona mdla mhle kulo mboniso, utshabalalisa ulindelo lwakhe malunga nothando ekufanele ukuba lubonakala ebomini bakhe. Endaweni yokukholelwa ukuba ukubukeka kwakhe kunye nomtsalane yedwa zanele, kuya kufuneka afunde ukuthanda ngaphandle kokulindelweyo ngokwesiko, nokuba ayingomtshato lowo.
UCharlotte ohamba kuloo nto eyoyikekayo umtshato kwiSizini yesithandathu ngewaqhekeka wasisigidi ukuba yayiliXesha lokuQala. Ixesha lesithandathu uCharlotte uthatha ngokungakhathali, kuba ungumfazi ofundile ukuba ukugqibelela okungaphezulu akulingani nothando.
Xa ndicinga ngoCharlotte, ndicinga ngentetho emangalisayo uCat Grant onika uKara ekugqibeleni Intombazana entle S2:
'Yabona, into eyenza abafazi yomelele kukuba sine isibindi ukuba sesichengeni. Sinako ukuziva i ubunzulu yeemvakalelo zethu, kwaye siyazi ukuba siza kuhamba nangona siye kwelinye icala.
Yindlela endiziva ngayo ngoCharlotte, yiyo loo nto ebengumntu obaluleke kangaka kum. Mna naye sahluke ngokupheleleyo kubantu. UCharlotte uyi-WASP ethe tye. Ndingumfazi omnyama wesizukulwana sokuqala esimnyama. Kodwa siyafana kuba sobabini uPollyannas ukholelwa eluthandweni.
Enye yezinto endiyifumanayo xa ndithetha nabahlobo bam ngothando kukuba sonke sizifumana sithetha ngendlela ekuye kwanyanzeleka ukuba sizenze lukhuni ngayo ngoba amadoda azokukwenzakalisa kwaye awunakulindela nantoni na ngelixa uphika into esiyenzayo, ngeendlela ezininzi, ufuna iqabane. Kunzima, njengabafazi, ukufumana indlela yokuhlala kuloo ndawo. Indawo apho sinokukhala khona malunga nokuqhekeka ngaphandle kokuziva sineentloni ngokunakekela loo nto kwasekuqaleni. Indawo apho singavuma khona ukuba abanye bethu, isini esingaqhelekanga asithethi kangako. Loo ndawo apho ungoyikiyo ukuvuma ukuba ufuna ukutshata kwaye unabantwana ngenye imini.
Xa kuziwa kwezothando kunye nothando, uninzi lwethu, kunye nabasetyhini ikakhulu bafundiswe kancinci ukuba boyike, boyiswe yiyo, bayifune, kodwa bangaze bafundiswe ukuba bangabanjani kuyo. Asifunde ukuba ziiarhente ezisebenzayo kulonwabo lwethu kwaye sihlale sinyanisekile kuthi kwinkqubo.
Njengotata olumkileyo uthe Ndibize Ngegama Lakho: Sikhupha okuninzi kuthi ukuze sinyangeke ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kufanele ukuba siye sabhanga sineminyaka engamashumi amathathu kwaye sinezinto ezimbalwa esinokuzinikela ngalo lonke ixesha siqala nomntu omtsha. Kodwa ukungaziva nto ukuze ungaziva nantoni na-inkunkuma!
Kodwa uCharlotte akenzi njalo. Ufunda indlela yokungalalanisi oko kubalulekile kuye ngokwesondo nangokweemvakalelo kwaye aphume kuqhawulo-mtshato ngokuzithemba nokuxabiseka ebengenako ngaphambili. Uyasilela, ubukhulu becala, kodwa uya esiba namandla kwaye angcono kunangaphambili. Wahamba kwelinye icala kwaye wayenza nangoku ekholelwa ukuba uthando lunokwenzeka.
Kumsebenzi wakhe Konke Ngothando Amagwegwe ebell acaphula isicatshulwa esivela kuHarold Kushner Xa Yonke Into Owayekhe Uyifuna Ayonelanga :
Ndiyoyika ukuba singakhulisa isizukulwana sabantu abatsha abazakukhula boyike ukuthanda, boyike ukuzinikela ngokupheleleyo komnye umntu, kuba baya kube bebonile ukuba kubuhlungu kangakanani ukuthatha umngcipheko wokuthanda kwaye kungasebenzi. ngaphandle. Ndiyoyika ukuba baya kukhula befuna ukusondelelana ngaphandle komngcipheko, ukonwaba ngaphandle kotyalo mali olubalulekileyo. Baya kuluyeka uthando kunye novuyo.
amagwegwe ongezela kwindinyana ethi, Abantu abatsha abaqiniseki ngothando. Ekugqibeleni, ukugxeka sisigqubuthelo esikhulu sentliziyo edanileyo nengcatshiweyo.
Kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto uCharlotte engoyena mntu ndimthandayo, kwaye kwimbono yam ethobekileyo, oyena mntu ubalaseleyo kulo mboniso. Ayikuko ukuba akanazimpazamo, kodwa kungenxa yokuba unesiphene kwaye uyakwazi ukukhula abe ngumntu ongcono ngelixa esinyanisekile kwisiseko sokuba ungubani. Sisoloko sicinga ukuba abantu basetyhini badinga iintlungu ukuze bomelele kwaye kufuneka bazenze lukhuni ukuze baphile, kodwa kuyonakalisa oko. UCharlotte ngumlinganiswa, othe ngaphezu kwabo bonke abanye abantu basetyhini, ongavumiyo ukuncama uvuyo nothando ebomini bakhe kwaye, njengomntu olwa noxinzelelo noxinzelelo, uyaphakamisa.
Yiloo nto eyenza Isini kunye neSixeko umboniso omnandi kunye nomaleko kuyo yonke ezininzi iingxaki umboniso unazo. Bonke abalinganiswa kufuneka baguquke ngaphaya kweendlela zabo ezikhohlakeleyo ngandlela thile kwaye babukele olo hambo kwaye babukele abantu ababhinqileyo abaneziphene bekhula babe ziinguqu zabo ezingephi ezingenamakhwiniba kumabonwakude omkhulu.
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-UMary Sue unemigaqo-nkqubo engqongqo yokuphawula engavumiyo, kodwa ayikhawulelwanga, ukuthukwa nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —
