Uhlaziyo: Ewe, eli bali lifumene ubunzima obungakumbi. Ngokwe- Inguqulelo kaGoogle kwinqaku lePortugal le-BBC (eyona nto sinokuyenza, ke ukuba kukho umntu olwaziyo ulwimi kwaye angathanda ukunceda, nceda unxibelelane!), uluvo lokuba uNoiva do Cordeiro ufuna amadoda angatshatanga kubonakala ngathi ayenziwanga kwaphela.
Ngelixa imvelaphi yedolophu iyinyani-uMaria Senhorinha de Lima ngenene uye wagxothwa kwaye wancediswa ekufumaneni idolophu, kwaye amadoda edolophu ayaphuma phakathi evekini ayokusebenza kwimizi-mveliso yalapha-iindaba ezininzi zase-Bhritane ezifana ne-The Mirror ziye zabonisa gwenxa iinyani. Abemi bedolophu basondele kuma-300, umzekelo, kwaye ukwahlulwa ngokwesini kuthiwa kulingana kakhulu. URosalee Fernandes ukwathe akazange anike udliwanondlebe naye nabani na malunga nedolophu, nangona enye yeentatheli zangaphakathi ezaphula ibali zisanyanzelisa ukuba uthethe nabantu bendawo.
Ababukeleyo babonakala bekholelwa ukuba iingxelo ezingeyonyani zivela kwimarhe yangaphambili yokuba idolophu yayilikhaya lendlu enkulu yamahenyukazi. Inkqubo ye- Umtshakazi weMvana 360 iphepha le-Facebook amanqaku:
Le lali incinci, ibekwe eBelo Vale, kwiphondo laseMinas Gerais, ikhokelwa ngabafazi abomeleleyo abakhe baphila ibali lomkhethe - babesoloko behlukunyezwa ngamarhe malunga nendawo yokuba yindawo yoonongogo - ebubuxoki. Ezi ndaba zipapashwe yiDaily Mail kunye namanye amajelo eendaba aphesheya anesimo sokuziphatha ngokwesini, kwaye ayibonisi eyona njongo yala manina - amandla abasetyhini kunye nokoyisa ucalucalulo, oluthi lusasazeke eluntwini. Iintsapho zihlala apho, kwaye zinemilinganiselo yokuziphatha eyomeleleyo kakhulu. Ubuntu, intlonipho kunye nokuqonda zezona mpawu zibalaseleyo zolo luntu.
Kwelethu icala, siyaxolisa ngokusasaza ulwazi olungelulo kwaye sinethemba lokuba abo balikhulisileyo ibali nabo baya kuthatha uxanduva. Ukuba isiPhuthukezi sakho somelele kunesethu, unokufumana ngakumbi ngembali yedolophu Apha .
Ibali lokuqala lilandelayo:
Hayi yehla! Ungathanda ukuhlala phi kwindawo eqhutywa ngabafazi ukusukela ngo-1891? Kuba iNoiva do Cordeiro, idolophu esemaphandleni kwiinduli ezintle ezingaphandle kweBelo Horizante, eBrazil, ifuna amavolontiya. Landela nje yonke imithetho yabo, kwaye ungenzi naziphi na iziqhulo ezibubudenge malunga nokufa nguSnu Snu. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe bayithande loo nto.
INoiva do Cordeiro yasekwa nguMaria Senhorinha de Lima, owayegxothwe kwicawa yamaKatolika (kunye nezizukulwana ezihlanu ezizayo zosapho) njengomfazi okrexezayo ngokushiya indoda awayenyanzelekile ukuba ayitshate. Ngokukhawuleza wajoyinwa ngamanye amabhinqa angatshatanga kunye neentsapho ezazikhokelwa ngabasetyhini kwaye wazenzela elona qela lizimeleyo labasetyhini-de uAnisio Pereira, umfundisi wevangeli, watshata intombazana eneminyaka eli-16 ubudala edolophini kwaye waseka ingqongqo. Icawa ye-puritanical apho kwi-1940s. Phantsi kweliso lakhe elicokisekileyo abafazi babengavunyelwanga ukuba basebenzise izinto zokuthintela inzala, bamamele umculo, okanye bazichebe neenwele. Emva kokubhubha kwakhe ngonyaka ka1995, idolophu yachitha icawe yakhe wafunga ukuba abasayi kuvumela amadoda ukuba abalawule ngendlela awayenayo.
SinoThixo ezintliziyweni zethu, uxelele uRosalee Fernandes oneminyaka engama-49 Isibuko . Kodwa asicingi ukuba kufuneka siye ecaweni, sitshatele phambi komfundisi okanye sibhaptize abantwana bethu. Le yimigaqo eyenziwe ngamadoda.
Ngoku le dolophu yonwabileyo ibambe ngaphezulu kwama-600 abasetyhini ikakhulu abaphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 ukuya kuma-35, kwaye ngokukaFernandes, Idolophu yethu intle, icwangcisiwe, kwaye iyavisisana kakhulu kunokuba bekungamadoda aphetheyo […] Sabelana ngayo yonke into, nkqu nomhlaba siyasebenza. Akukho mntu ukhuphisana namntu apha. Konke kuyinto enye, kwaye enye yazo zonke. Ngelixa abanye abahlali batshatile neentsapho, abayeni babo kufuneka basebenze kude namakhaya kwaye bavunyelwe kuphela ukubuya ngeempelaveki, kwaye oonyana bayanyanzelwa ukuba baphume xa beneminyaka eyi-18. Akunjalo Nangona kunjalo, abantu abatshatileyo baziva belahliwe.
Apha, kuphela kwamadoda esihlangana nawo amantombazana angatshatanga nokuba atshatile okanye ahlobene nathi, wonke umntu ngumzala. Andizange ndamanga indoda ixesha elide, watsho uNelma Fernandes, 23. Sonke siphupha sithandana kwaye sitshate. Kodwa sithanda ukuhlala apha kwaye asifuni ukuba sishiye idolophu siyokufumana umyeni.
Ke isisombululo esacetyiswa nguNoiva Cordeiro? Mema amadoda angatshatanga ukuba ahlangabeze ezinye zeedolophu ezifanelekileyo, kwimeko yokuba bayakwazi ukuthobela yonke imigaqo ebekwe ziinkokheli ngokubhekisele kubomi bakhona. Ukuthathela ingqalelo ukuba iwebhusayithi yedolophu iye yehla ngenxa yazo zonke izithuthi, uninzi lwamadoda alukhange lubenangxaki ngombono. Nje, uyazi, lumka, dudes. Isenokuba ngumgibe wokunincama nonke kunkulunkulu wezinyosi onomsindo ngolunye uvuno lobusi olunempumelelo. Ndivile ukuba inokwenzeka .
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