Unyango lukaBill Cosby lukaLisa Bonet kufanele ukuba lube luphawu lokuqala lokuziphatha kwakhe

ULisa Bonet

U-Lisa Bonet, umongameli kunye ne-CEO yobumnyama be-bohemian, uye wahlala ethe cwaka malunga nezityholo zeBill Cosby kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo. Ayisiyomfihlo into yokuba uBonet noCosby babuphelisile ubudlelwane babo ngokusebenza ngendlela engalunganga, ngenxa yoko kusenokwenzeka ukuba yayikukuthintela ukubuyela umva ngokungeyomfuneko. Nangona kunjalo, ngoku uthethile naye INet-Porter malunga neemvakalelo zakhe kuCosby.

UBonet ubanga ukuba, ngelixa wayengenawo amava ezesondo kunye noCosby, kwakusoloko kukho into engalunganga ngaye awayeyiva. Kwakukho nje amandla . Kwaye olo hlobo lwamandla amabi esithunzela alunakufihlwa […] Kwaye ukuba bendinayo enye into endiza kuyityhila ngeyayenzekile kudala. Yindalo yam leyo. Inyaniso iya kunikhulula. UBonet uyongeza, akukho mfuneko yokuba nditsho, 'bendikuxelele.' Ndishiya nje yonke loo nto kwikarma nakwezobulungisa kwaye kuyakuba yintoni.

Ngaphandle kokungaxhatshazwa ngokwesondo nguCosby, indlela awaphathwa ngayo naye yayikhohlakele kwaye eyabelana ngesondo kwaye kubonakala ngokuxhatshazwa kwamandla ekufuneka kukhumbuze wonke umntu ukuba ukulingana emsebenzini kuthetha ukuba nabasetyhini ngasemva kwemiboniso, ngokunjalo.

Uxinzelelo iqalile xa wayesenza imiboniso yesondo noMickey Rourke ngo-1987 Inhliziyo Yengelosi Kwaye yavela ze kwiqweqwe le Udliwanondlebe ukukhuthaza ifilimu.

Nangona kunjalo, ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwamandla okwenene kwafika xa uBonet wakhulelwayo, into ethile kuye Ihlabathi elahlukileyo co-star, Debbie Allen, wathetha ngayo kwividiyo.

Njengoko uAllen echazayo kwividiyo, uBonet weza kuye esithi ukhulelwe, kwaye besazi ukuba uCosby unezinto ezingalunganga zokukhulelwa okwenziwe ngaphambili, bacinga ukuba kungcono ukuba bahambe kunye. UAllen wayengumvelisi olawulayo womboniso ngelo xesha kwaye, xa ebekwe kuloo ndawo, wafaka umbono wokuba bangakusebenzisa njani ukukhulelwa ukubalisa ibali elikhulu loomama abantsundu abancinci:

Ndimcacisele ukuba ndifuna ukuyisebenzisa kanjani kumdlalo weqonga kuba inokuba yinto entle leyo. Ukubona intombazana ekwinqanaba eliphezulu, inosana, ingatshatanga kuba ingafuni ukutshata ... Ndacacisa konke esinokukwenza. Kulungile busi bendivuthela nje umsi kwaye ndingazi (ehleka). Wayimamela.

Saqala ukuthetha ngamabali kwaye kwangoko… mhlawumbi malunga neeveki ezimbini okanye ezintathu kamva wayefana Uyazi ukuba yintoni uDebbie? Hayi ukhulelwe, 'uDenise Huxtable' akakhulelwanga, uLisa Bonet ukhulelwe hayi uDenise. Ke hayi… hayi ngekhe ubenayo, hayi asizukuyenza, hayi. Wambuyisa ke, bendinomsindo ngaye, bendifuna ukumthatha, kodwa ndiyaqonda, ebefuna umva nje. Ke usishiyile [iHlabathi eyahlukileyo] ukuba abuyele ekhaya [kwindlu eneHuxtable], wagqiba ekubeni atshate kumdlalo nayo yonke into eyenzekileyo phaya.

UCosby wayenombono kwaye ndiyaqikelela ukuba kwakunzima kuye ukuphazamisa umbono wakhe wokuyila into engaphaya kolawulo lwakhe. Ndinqwenela ukuba babenokuyifumana indlela yokwenza ukuba isebenze, kanye njengoko benzayo xa uPhylicia Rashad wakhulelwayo, nangona uBill watyhola umyeni ka-Phylicia ngelo xesha u-Ahmad ngokonakalisa lo mboniso kuba wammithisa. Leyo yayiyindlela eyodwa nengaqhelekanga yokuphendula ukukhulelwa kwakhe, kodwa kwakhona, ngokucacileyo uCosby wayenombono engqondweni kwaye nantoni na engaphandle yamphazamisa. (nge Iingqondi zasezidolophini )

Olu hlobo lwengqondo luvakala luqhelekile. UJoss Whedon wayedume ngokumgxotha uCharisma Carpenter emva kokuba ekhulelwe kuba yayixakene nelibali lakhe, kwaye uninzi lwezinto zoburhabaxa esizifumene ngendlela yoMhlolokazi Omnyama Ubudala buka-Ulton Uluhlu lwendaba lwenziwa ngoba iScarJo yayikhulelwe ngelo xesha.

Nokuba uCosby wayechasene noDenise ukuba ukhulelwe, zazikhona iindlela ababenokuyiphatha ngaphandle kokuba ibe yingxaki. ULisa Bonet wayengenguye uDenise. Wayengumntu onomsebenzi kunye nobomi kunye nomyeni olungileyo e-Lenny Kravitz (kwaye ngoku u-Jason Mamoa-iinjongo zokuthandana).

Uluvo lokuba uCosby ufuna olo hlobo lwamandla ngaphezulu kwesikhokelo sakhe sabasetyhini lukhulu kwaye lunzulu, luyabelana ngesondo ngokunzulu. Kubonisa ukunqongophala kwentlonipho ngemizimba yabo nokuzimela komzimba njengabafazi. Indlela kanye abaziva ngayo ukuba kufuneka bazilungise ngaphambi kokuba bamxelele ukuba uziva…….

ULisa Bonet ekugqibeleni wagxothwa ngo-1991 ngenxa yantlukwano yoyilo, kodwa ukuba ezi ziganeko zangaphambili zazisisiqulatho, umahluko yayikukuba uLisa Bonet wayefuna ukuphathwa njengomntu, hayi umlinganiswa. Inokuba ibiyingxaki enkulu ngelo xesha. Ngethemba, izakubonwa njengenye yengxaki ngoku.

(nge Ixhalanga, umfanekiso: ADRIAN SANCHEZ-GONZALEZ / AFP / Getty Izithombe)