Kuba bendijongile Oonyana boBundlongondlongo endaweni yoko, ndiyiphosile Indoda ephambene uloliwe kwaye kutshanje ubukele uthotho okokuqala. Ukususela ngalo mzuzu ndikhankanyileyo ukuqala kolu ngcelele, wonke umntu undixelele into enye: Ndingathanda uPeggy noJoan, kwaye uBetty Draper, owokuqala / wesibini uNkosikazi Donald Draper, wayengoyena mbi.
Ewe, kwifashoni yesiqhelo yeVeki yePrincess, ndathandana nomntu wasetyhini wonke umntu amthiyileyo.
Njenge-Skylar ukusuka Iphula kakubi , Ndiyazi ukuba uBetty wayengomnye wabalinganiswa bomfazi abantu abangabathandi. Isuka e Iscreen Prism yevidiyo Ndijonge malunga nomlinganiswa wakhe ndingekawuboni uthotho, ndafumana ukujonga ngokubanzi ukuba ibali lakhe liza kuba yintoni. Nangona kunjalo, akukho nto indilungiselele ukonwaba okwenyani endikuphume kumlingiswa wakhe kunye noloyiko olunzulu endiva ngalo ndisazi ukuba isiphelo sakhe kukufa ngumhlaza wemiphunga. * Uhlukumeza inqindi eLucky Strike. *
Inxalenye yesizathu sokuba ndinovelwano olukhulu ngoBetty Draper inento yokwenza nomubi kakhulu kumyeni kaDon kuye. Uyamkhohlisa, uyamhlazisa, kwaye unobuntu obuninzi ngaphezu komntu wakhe kwiziqendu ezifanayo apho aya kuba eyeke khona kwindlu yenkosikazi. Kumaxesha angaphambili, uBetty ulangazelela uDon; Uthetha ngendlela oluchitha ngayo usuku lwakhe elinde ukuba abuye ekhaya.
Ubeka uninzi lweenzame zesini kubudlelwane babo, ngaphandle kokudana kakhulu ngokwesondo. Sibona ngexesha lesikhumbuzo sabo sokuba ngamanye amaxesha uDon uneengxaki zokwenza, kunye nomfanekiso we iconic apho emi phambi komatshini wokuhlamba oshukumayo ngelixa esenza iminqweno yesini.
Ewe, ukunyaniseka, umatshini wokuhlamba iimpahla uyathandana njengoDon.
Ukukopa kukaDon sisivumelwano esikhulu kuba usenza ngokukhululekileyo. Ndiyathetha, le ndoda iphela ilele nentombi yakhe ititshala yesikolo sabaqalayo. Isiqendu apho uBetty ajongana naye malunga nemfihlo yakhe eyadlulayo sisiqendu esinye aceba ukusinda ngothando ngothando lwakhe, osemotweni kanye ngaphandle kwendlu yabo .
Xa ukukopela kuqala kuvela, u-Don uzibetha ngamandla uBetty, esithi akukho nto, ade uBetty, ngenxa yengqondo yakhe, afune ukumgxotha ekhaya. Esona sizathu sokuba uBetty ambuyise kukuba, emva kokuma ubusuku obunye noDon, ukhulelwa umntwana wabo wesithathu, uGene, kwaye uziva ukuba, ngenxa yolu sana lutsha, kufuneka azame. Emva koko uDon, emva kwawo wonke umzamo awenzayo wokuxolisa, uthatha phantse ixesha lokuphinda abuyele ekuphangeni.
UBetty uyimveliso yexesha lakhe ngendlela elunge ngakumbi kunoJoan okanye uPeggy kwi Indoda ephambene iphela. UJoan ufuna ukutshata, kodwa ukwangumfazi omdala, oqeqeshiweyo ofuna ukusebenza. U-Peggy mncinci kwaye uqala ubomi bakhe bobungcali kusapho olusebenzayo. U-Betty wayevela emalini kwaye, njengoko kwakusungulwa ingxoxo, wakhuliswa ukuba abe ngumfazi kunye nomama omhle ngokugxininisa ekuhlaleni ubukrelekrele (kodwa uBetty akasosidenge-uthetha isiTaliyane, kwaye ungakulibali).
Ukukhula kwakhe ekubanjweni ngokwemeko yokuvuthwa kuvela kwilungelo lakhe, kodwa nokuba waphila ubomi bakhe ekulungiseleleni ukuba abe ngumncedisi endodeni nakukhuliso lwabantwana bakhe. Nangona kunjalo, uBetty uziva enexhala malunga noku, ngemicimbi yesandla sakhe ebalaseleyo kwixesha lokuqala kwaye ikhokelela kwingozi yemoto. Ayisoze isonjululwe ngokupheleleyo nangayiphi na indlela kuba uDon Iintlola kwiiseshoni zakhe zonyango ngokufumana iingxelo kuye ngengcali, kwaye asebenzise impilo yakhe kuye.
Nangona ekugqibeleni uBetty eshiya uDon aze atshate noHenry, ngelixa engumntu ongcono, uphatha uBetty njengomncedisi omele athule xa kuyimfuneko.
Ngaba uBetty ngumama ombi? Ewe, kodwa yintoni enomdla ngaloo nto kukuba uBetty akayazi indlela yokuthanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kuba akaze sele ethandwa ngokungenamda-hayi ngabazali bakhe, ngumntakwabo, okanye ngabayeni bakhe-ke ubeka ezo zinto zifuna ukuthandwa emagxeni abantwana bakhe. Abantwana ukuba yena Imelwe kukuthanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo ukuba ibe yinto ebukekayo ejonge kuyo kuloo mthombo wothando.
Kukho iziqendu apho uBetty engumama obalaseleyo, kwaye kukho amaxesha okuba ngumama owoyikekayo kuba engazi ukuba angabakhulisa njani abantwana bakhe, kwaye nangapha kolona ncedo, akafumani ncedo kumyeni wakhe .
UDon akangotata olungileyo. Emva koqhawulo-mtshato, uDon ubukhulu becala unabantwana bakhe abaphantsi kwesibophelelo kwaye uhlala efuna ukubizwa nguBetty ukuba akhunjuzwe hee, ubumele ukuba ulapha. Kulula ukubona i-backstory kaDon kunye nokukhathazeka kwakhe kwaye ubeke oko kwisiseko kwaye uthi, Ewe, mhlawumbi nguBetty, kodwa umtshato wakhe noMegan ngokukhawuleza ubonisa ukuba ingxaki kwimitshato yakhe nguye.
Xa uBetty ezala uGene wosana kule nkungu, ufumana imvakalelo yokunqamla okusekwe phakathi kukamama nomntwana kwasekuqaleni. Kukho le nkungu, oku kungabikho konxibelelwano, kwaye kuthwala abafazi abanjengoBetty kubo bonke ubomi babo.
Esinye seziqendu endizithandayo zikaBetty zikwixesha lesithandathu, elibizwa ngokuba sisiqingatha esingcono, apho uDon noBetty baphinde bahlangana khona ngokwesondo. Balala kunye, kwaye ebhedini, uBetty uthi uziva kakubi ngoMegan kuba akafundanga ukuba ukumthanda yeyona ndlela imbi kakhulu yokufika kuye. Ibonisa ukuba kule minyaka, nangona wayenamaxesha amancinci okuqonda, wayemqonda uDon. Wayemthanda uDon, kwaye wayengenakukwazi ukumthanda ngenxa yokuba loo nxalenye yakhe yaphukile, eyiphi ngu Kubuhlungu, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba abasetyhini ebomini bakhe kufuneka babandezeleke ngenxa yayo.
Ixesha lesixhenxe linzima ukuba ndibukele, kuba kanye njengokuba uBetty eza kungena kwakhe, ebuyela esikolweni kwaye ezama ukuvela, ufumana isaziso sokufa kwakhe. Ufumanisa ukuba unomhlaza kwaye akanabude bokuphila. Endaweni yokukhala, yena, ngefashoni yakudala-yokwenene, uyacinezela, esiya esikolweni kwaye enyuka ezo zitepsi, esatshaya loo midiza, kuba akazukunikezela kuxinzelelo olupheleleyo lwayo yonke.
UBetty, owathi ufuna ukufa esemncinci, uya kuthanda, kwaye uzakuyenza ngale ndlela. Ubhalela uSally ileta, awayenobudlelwane obuxakekileyo naye kulo lonke umboniso, kwaye wathi ekugqibeleni: Sally, bendihlala ndikhathazekile ngawe, kuba uhlala umatsha usiya kwigqubu lakho. Kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba kulungile. Ndiyazi ukuba ubomi bakho buya kuba yinto entle. Ndiyakuthandana. Mama.
U-Betty Draper ngumfazi onamandla angenakusetyenzwa, kuba wayengavunyelwe ukuba abe ngaphezulu kunaye de abe semva kwexesha ebomini bakhe. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amabini ananye, wayetshatile, kwaye ngamashumi amabini anesibhozo, njengomama wababini, kunye nendoda esele iphelelwe luthando naye.
Siyayazi indlela yokusizela uDon, owayetsala nzima ngenxa yendlala kunye noxinzelelo ngokwesondo esemncinci, ngenxa yokoyikeka okucacileyo kwelo bali lasemva. Okwangoku, le iseyindoda ebiza inkosikazi yayo njengehenyukazi ngokuthandana, xa ibininzi, kwaye ihlazisa umfazi wayo wesibini ngokuba nomdlalo wesondo kumdlalo weTV xa elele nommelwane wabo osezantsi.
Kunzima ukumsizela uBetty ngaphandle kokuba uvumele ngenene ukuba uqonde ukuba uyile nto kanye wayefanele ukuba yiyo ngexesha apho kwakungasazinzi kulonwabo. Ngelixa engazange afunde Umfazi Mystique , U-Betty unengxaki ye-ennui emhlophe ekumgangatho ophakathi eye yazidibanisa ngokunzulu nomntu wakhe kangangokuba, ngexesha azilahla ngalo olo lwazi, sele esifa.
Kulula ukujonga abalinganiswa bale mihla abanjengoJoan noPeggy kunye nengcambu kubo kuba sibona ukuhamba okuphezulu abakwenzayo. Nangona kunjalo, bonke bayasokola ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye nezithintelo zesini zexesha labo, kwaye qho , nazo ziyangqina kubo. Benza nje ngendlela enencasa ngakumbi.
Nangona kunjalo, xa ndijonga izinto abagxeki bathi ngoBetty, njenge HuffPo isiqwenga esibeka inombolo yakhe yesibini njengenye ye Abalinganiswa ababi kakhulu beTV ka-2012, esithi, Asithengi ukuba uBetty usizisela uhlalutyo lwezithintelo ezibekwe koomama abaphakathi kwenkulungwane okanye amagqabantshintshi anyanzelisayo ngokutshintsha kwendalo kweendima zesini. Ungasenzi siphosakele, ezo yimixholo enomdla, kodwa ukungatshintshi kwakhe kwe-narcissism kunye nokuzicaphukisa kwakhe ngokuzingca kuye kwasenza sakhala, andinakukunceda kodwa ndicinge… ke ufana kakhulu nabo bonke abesilisa kumdlalo?
UBetty akasoloko ethandeka, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akangomntu unomdla kwaye unomdla. Ukungafezeki kwakhe njengomama kuyinxalenye yentlekele yakhe, kwaye ukungakwazi kwakhe ukuthanda ngokwenyani oko kumenza, ngokungaqhelekanga, abe ngoyena mntu ubalaseleyo kuDon. Umcimbi kukuba asikuxabisanga ukuphonononga loo mmandla kunye nabalinganiswa kuba sele sigqibe ekubeni elo xesha lalingalunganga, kwaye ke ngubani okhathalelayo ngokuhlola oko?
Kulungile uBetty Draper, wena mhle umntu, ndikuthandile kuba ayingabo bonke oomama abagqibeleleyo, ayinguye wonke umntu wasetyhini ongakwicala lasekunene lenkqubela phambili, kunye nezinto oziva ngathi zazisemthethweni, nokuba umyeni wakho uzama ukukuqinisekisa kungenjalo.
(umfanekiso: Michael Yarish / AMC)
