Iindlela zika-Ashley Judd zokuba nobuganga bokuba neNyanga ebusweni kuLuntu

Umlingisi kunye netshantliziyo u-Ashley Judd ujonge ngexesha leNkomfa yonyaka yama-29 yoosomashishini boosomashishini baseCalifornia (PBWC)

Xa owasetyhini umsebenzi wakhe wabekelwa bucala nguHarvey Weinstein kwaye nangona kunjalo wanikezela ngobomi bakhe esidlangalaleni ukuxhasa abantu basetyhini kunye namantombazana efumana ingqalelo kwi-Intanethi, kufanelekile ukuba kubhiyozelwe umsebenzi wakhe omangalisayo kunye nenkxaso. Ayisiyiyo ngoba umzimba wakhe awuhambelani nomgangatho woluntu ophambeneyo kunye nokuziphatha gwenxa komzuzwana ... kwaye ngoku, silapha kwaye uAshely Judd uhamba kuzo zonke izizathu ezingalunganga.

Izolo, uJudd ubonakaliswe kwividiyo evela kwiphulo lika-Elizabeth Warren likamongameli kwi-twitter. Uthethe ngokuthetha kakhulu malunga nokuba kutheni ebamba umnxeba e-Warren kwaye wanika abantu abatsalela umnxeba umdla omkhulu, kwaye bekufanele ukuba kukuphela kwayo.

Kodwa ke, i-intanethi igcwele ngabantu aboyikekayo abathanda UDean uKayin (ngubani nanjengendoda ebengafanelanga kujongana nolu hlobo lokuhlukumeza unomsebenzi ongathelekisi noJudd's) obefanele ukuqala ukuphawula ebusweni bukaJudd. Hayi umyalezo wakhe okanye uWarren, kodwa kutheni umfazi enesibindi sokuya kwikhamera enobuso obujikelezileyo.

Ewe, kuba kufuneka kuthiwe ndiyaqikelela: Ubuso buka-Ashley Judd budumbile ngenxa yokusebenzisa ii-steroids ukunyanga imeko yonyango. Kungenxa yoko le nto i-prednisone ikwatshintshile ngale ntsasa kuba (kunye namayeza anje ngayo) ayaziwa sisiphumo sobuso benyanga.

Ukudumba kobuso sisiphumo secala lamayeza amaninzi e-steroid kwaye uJudd ayisiyiyo kuphela indumasi ekuye kwafuneka ijongane nokuqwalaselwa kunye nokuqagelwa ngenxa yayo; USara Hyland kutshanje sinako phantsi kwemicroscope nayo . Eli ayiloxesha lokuqala u-Judd kufuneka ajongane nobuso benyanga okanye i-intanethi ephazamisayo ngenxa yokubonakala kwakhe; babe izehlo ukubuyela umva ngo-2012 kodwa intelekelelo ngaphezulu kwembonakalo yakhe yashushu kangangokuba uJudd ngokwakhe wathetha phandle ngo yokuhlela kunye neRhamncwa lemihla ngemihla .

Kodwa nokuba ubuso bakhe bujikeleze ukutyeba okanye nasiphi na esinye isizathu-ayisiyiyo le nto ekufanele ukuba sigxile kuyo! Inyaniso yokuba sithandwa kakhulu ngumfazi owaziwayo-ukuba asikwazi ukuvumela umfazi ukuba atshintshe okanye abonise ukungaphumeleli-yinkinga yangempela. Kwaye uJud ngokwakhe wachaza ukuba kutheni:

Ukuba abafazi bayazibandakanya kusasazo oluqhubekayo lokubonakala kwam kubalulekile. Ubukhokho abukho ngamadoda. Uosolusapho yinkqubo apho abasetyhini kunye nabesilisa bathatha inxaxheba khona. Inika amalungelo, phakathi kwezinye izinto, umdla wamakhwenkwe kunye nowesilisa ngaphezulu komzimba, ukuzimela, kunye nesidima samantombazana nabafazi. Ubuqili, ubuqhetseba, kwaye abunabungozi ngaphezu kokuba abafazi bekhanyela ukuba bona bayazenza. Oku kuthambeka kungaqhelekanga kubuso nakwimizimba yabasetyhini kuye kwaqheleka kangangokuba thina (ndiyazibandakanya ngamanye amaxesha-ndiye ndiwe nangoku) siye sangenisa ubukhokho ngokungenamthungo. Asikwazi ngamanye amaxesha ukuzichonga njengabaxhaphazi bethu, okanye ukuhlukumeza amanye amantombazana nabafazi.

Ke, abanye abantu abaziva benesidingo sokugxila koku: yeka nje. Yeka ukubekwa amabala ebusweni babantu amayeza. Yeka ukugculela kunye nokuhlekisa ngabantu abanobugqwetha emzimbeni. Yeka ukungahoyi ukufezekiswa kwabasetyhini kunye nemiyalezo ngokuthanda i-nitpicking ukubonakala kwabo. Yima nje wenze into eluncedo ngobomi bakho.

Ngaba ufuna amanye amabali anje? Yiba ngumbhalisi kwaye uxhase indawo!

-UMary Sue unomgaqo-nkqubo ongqongqo ongavumiyo, kodwa ungaphelelanga apho, ukuthukwa kwabantu nabani na , Intiyo nentetho egonyamelayo. —