Kutshanje, uEliza Dushku weza ngaphambili kwaye wabelana nge-akhawunti yomququzeleli we-stunt uJoel Kramer wamhlukumeza ngexesha lokudutyulwa kwefilimu ka-1994 kaJames Cameron Ubuxoki Bokwenene. Iakhawunti ke yaqinisekiswa ngumgcini wakhe osemthethweni kwiseti Sue Booth-Forbes, owathi uxele indlela yokuziphatha kukaKramer ku-Dushku owayeneminyaka eli-12 ubudala kwaye esithi wadibana nabantu abangenanto kwaye wayenombono wokuba andinguye ukuxelela loo mntu nantoni na ababengayazi. UKramer uzikhanyele izityholo.
Ngoku, abanye abantu abadala abavela Ubuxoki Bokwenene babelana ngeakhawunti zabo, kwaye kufuneka bahlangane njani nokuqonda ukuba iqela labo lisilele umntwana kwaye limbeke emngciphekweni-nokuba bayazi okanye akunjalo, kuyothusa ukuba into enjalo inokwenzeka kwaphela. UDushku ubhala ukuba uKramer wayemthiye igama lokuba nguJailbait kwaye ngokungazithembi wambiza [ngendlela] egulayo phambi kwabanye. Nokuba ubusaziwa okanye hayi ubungakanani bokuziphatha kwakhe kakubi, bekukho ngokucacileyo inqanaba longenelelo okanye inyathelo ebekufanele ukuba lithathiwe.
UCameron ubize uDushku ukuba abe nesibindi sokuthetha kunye nesigameko esibuhlungu, esithi akakhohliwe. Ukuba bendisazi ngayo, yena amabango , ngekungekho nceba.
UJamie Lee Curtis, owayedlala indima Ubuxoki Bokwenene ecaleni kuka-Arnold Schwarzenegger, wabhala iposti ye Huffington Post enesihloko Inyaniso nobuxoki Apho abhala khona, Wabe wabelana nam ngeli bali ngasese kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Ndothukile kwaye ndibuhlungu ngelo xesha nangoku ndisenjalo nanamhlanje. NgeyeDwarha kunyaka ophelileyo, uCurtis wabhala inqaku elibizwa ngokuba yi-Asking For It ephendula uDonna Karan ehlazisa amaxhoba amabhinqa awayeze malunga noHarvey Weinstein. Ngoku, uthi, ibali lika-Eliza ngoku lisivuse ekulaleni kwethu ukukhanyela kwinto entsha, eyoyikisayo. Ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana.
Kwisidingo sokukhusela abantwana kolu shishino, uCurtis ubhala athi:
Sonke kufuneka sithathe uxanduva lokuba ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo kunye nobukhululekileyo esabelana nabo nabadlali bethu abancinci babenoluvo oluphosakeleyo lokuba ngabantu abadala kwihlabathi labantu abadala, abanakho ukwenza ukhetho lwabantu abadala.
Ugqiba, Inyaniso iya kusikhulula sonke. Ndiyathemba ukuba inkululeko izakuzisa amandla amatsha okubiza impatho-gadalala kwaye, xa olo gonyamelo lwenzekileyo, kufuneka lukhawuleze luze luhambisane, ukuze kungabikho namnye oya kulinda iminyaka engama-25 ukuba iviwe inyaniso yakhe.
(umfanekiso: iThelevishini yama-20)
