Ukulahleka kobunzima buka-Adele akukho kwiShishini lakho

UAdele uyibulala eqongeni

U-Adele, imvumi engathandekiyo ethanda ukukrazula intliziyo yam kwaye inyathele kuyo, kuyo yonke iminyaka yakhe ekukhanyeni kubonakala ngathi uyehla emzimbeni. Kutheni ndisithi kubonakala ngathi kungenxa yokuba ayisiyonto yam f ** yam, kwaye ayisiyiyo ishishini lomntu ngaphandle kuka-Adele.

UAdele ngumdlali weqonga endimnqula ixesha elide. Ndiyintombazana eneminyaka eyi-16 xa icwecwe lakhe le-19 laphuma (ngokuhambelana neminyaka yakhe xa wayibhala) kwaye ndaziva ngathi iqondwa Intlungu awabelana ngazo kwiingoma zakhe. Ndisaziva ndinjalo ngoku, emva kwe-19, 21, 25, kunye necwecwe lakhe elilandelayo endililindeleyo. Ndikhulile kwaye ndikhulile ecaleni kwakhe, kwaye ndiyayilandela into eyenzekayo nge-multi-Grammy-winning, i-Academy Award-winning artist kwiindaba. Ke intetho namhlanje yaziva ityhafisa kwaye ikhathaza.

Kutheni le nto incoko ikwi-Intanethi namhlanje ijolise kuAdele kunye nokwehla kwesisindo sakhe? Kutheni le nto ehamba kunye namashumi amawaka eetweets ngaye? Kungenxa yokuba wonke umntu-kubandakanya amajelo eendaba kunye nabaphawuli abadumileyo-kubonakala ngathi bacinga ukuba impilo yomnye umntu kunye nobunzima lishishini labo kanti akunjalo.

Ukubhiyozela usuku lokuzalwa kwakhe lwe-31, u-Adele uthathe i-Instagram okokuqala ukusukela ngoDisemba, ekwabelana ngomfanekiso omtsha ukubulela bonke abafuna okuhle. Ngelixa abantu abaninzi begqibe kwelokuba bathethe malunga nobunzima bakhe, ndilapha ndibuza iring enkulu yeentyatyambo kwaye kutheni ilaptop ihleli ecaleni kwayo. Yayinjani le ncoko yokumisela ifoto? Le yimibuzo endifuna ukuyiphendula. Kodwa yiphule phantsi intetho ekufuneka siyenzile.

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Enkosi ngothando lokuzalwa. Ndiyathemba ukuba nonke nihlala nikhuselekile kwaye niphilile ngeli xesha liphambeneyo. Ndingathanda ukubulela bonke abaphenduli bethu bokuqala kunye nabasebenzi abalulekileyo abasigcinayo sikhuselekile ngelixa babeka ubomi babo emngciphekweni! Ngokwenene uyingelosi yethu ♥ ️ 2020 kulungile bye enkosi x

Iposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu UAdele (@adele) ngoMeyi 5, 2020 ngo-9: 38 pm PDT

Vogue ichaze eyona ngxaki yam iphambili ngale nto yenzekayo ngoku ngendlela elula: Jonga. Inkangeleko ichazwe ngu Vogue Umbhali uEmma Specter ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

Nabani na owakha waphalaza ubunzima obubalulekileyo uyazi inkangeleko : oyifumana xa umntu engakubonanga okwethutyana ethatha umzimba wakho omtsha, uncumo kodwa ngandlel 'ithile uncumo ebusweni, begxalathelana ukukugubungela ngezincomo ngaphambi kokuba ubuze,' Ke… wenze njani ? '

UAdele, owehlileyo emzimbeni, angathumela imifanekiso emininzi kangangoko efuna kwaye ukuba akafuni ukuthumela imifanekiso? Kukhulu, lukhetho lwakhe! Inqaku kukuba olu luhambo luka-Adele ebomini, hayi olwethu, kunye nenyaniso yokuba uluntu luziva lukhona Nika izimvo kunye nokuqagela okungalawulekiyo kwinkangeleko yakhe yomzimba yingxaki. UAdele uhlala enguthixokazi omhle kum ngomculo wakhe nangobabalo lwakhe, ke zonke ezi zimvo malunga nendlela ngoku U-Adele mhle bayadideka kwaye babonisa uluntu olucekeceke. Ubuphi kudala?

Umcimbi awukho nokuba sicinga ukuba u-Adele mhle nakweyiphi na into (yena) kodwa endaweni yoko i-Intanethi iyaziva imfuno yokuxoxa malunga nokwehla kobunzima, nokumdumisa kunye / okanye ukumngcolisa. Sele ilidabi labanye abantu, njengoko uSpecter echaza, ukumgquma kumagqabantshintshi, abanye bengena ngokukhawuleza ukuze bathathe abo bantu, abanye babuze ukhetho luka-Adele, kuqhubeke njalo njalo. Qikelela ukuba? Ndiyakhathala malunga nendlela u-Adele avakalelwa ngayo ngomzimba wakhe kwaye yile nto. Uluvo lokuba ubunzima bomfazi odumileyo yindawo yengxoxo yoluntu enokubakho kunye nengxoxo mpikiswano kufuneka zityhalelwe umva ngokuchasene, nzima . Ibe yinxalenye yenkcubeko yethu ixesha elide kakhulu, kwaye i-Intanethi ibonakala ngathi iyayandisa intetho. Oku akwenzi nto ngaphandle kokuthotyelwa kwabasetyhini nangakumbi kwidyokhwe yezimvo zoluntu.

IHollywood kunye nehlabathi lokuzonwabisa ngokubanzi loyikeka malunga nomzimba womzimba kuwo wonke umntu. Ayisibafazi bodwa. Kodwa inembali kwaye inoluhlu olubi kubadlali ababhinqileyo, ibabambe kwimigangatho engenakwenzeka kwaye ibagculele ngenye indlela. Izinto ezinje-u-Adele uthumela umfanekiso olula kwi-Instagram evutha umlilo-qhubeka ubonise ukuba iHollywood kunye nenkcubeko yethu ngokubanzi isenomsebenzi omninzi malunga nokwamkela abo bantu banetalente esibathandayo. Bafuna ukuba balingane kwisikhunta sabo esifanelekileyo kwaye yile nto kufuneka siyaphule.

Sisihloko esinzima ngaphandle kweempendulo ezilula. Akuphosakalanga ukufuna ukumdumisa uAdele ngokukhangeleka ethandeka ngoku, kanye njengokuba wayehlala ekhangeleka ethandeka ngaphambili. Kodwa akufuneki kuba sicinga ukuba ujongeka emhle okanye esempilweni kobu bunzima butsha. Ukwehla kwesisindo akuhambelani nempilo, kwaye ukudibana kwethu kwezi zinto zimbini kunegalelo kungekuphela kwipatheni yokutya okungalunganga kodwa nakwifasbhobia eyandileyo eyonakalisa ubomi babantu. Kwihlabathi elifanelekileyo, asinakuze siphawule ngomzimba womntu odumileyo-okanye nawuphina umntu-ngaphandle kokuba bayimeme ngokucacileyo incoko.

I-Twitter yahlulwe ngemeko, kodwa inye into yayicacile: UAdele uthixokazi, kwaye siyamthanda. Yile nto ibalulekileyo.

Kwaye enye into ebalulekileyo ngokubaluleka uyigcine engqondweni:

Uhambo luka-Adele lolwakhe. Ndiyamthanda ngentliziyo yam yonke kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba ubenosuku oluhle lokuzalwa, kwaye ndilinde ngolangazelelo umculo ongaphezulu. Gimme le albhamu elandelayo, nceda kwaye ndiyabulela.

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