Kukhuphiswano lokuthandana Lo wabaleka, abadlali badityaniswa nabantu abasuka kwipasts zabo ababenonxibelelwano nabo. Ihlanganisa nje abantu ngabanye kwaye ibavumele ukuba bahambe ngeentsuku, inika into esondeleyo kancinane ukuthandana okwenzeka kwihlabathi lokwenyani kunakweminye imiboniso. Ngokucacileyo, omnye wabagqatswa yindoda ethandana nendoda.
Abakhuphisana abathandathu abaphambili bafuna ukufumana uthando lokwenyani. Omnye wazo, UAlyssa Anderson waxhatshazwa kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, kodwa ‘Omnye Uphumileyo’ ungqina ukuba wayengabonakali okanye engonwabanga njengoko wayeziva. Uninzi lwabafana abaphuma kwi-portal kuye, njengaye Nelson, UTravis, noAdam, babesoloko betsalelekile kuye. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ngakumbi ngaye kunye nobudlelwane bakhe noMbhexeshi wakhe weNkwenkwezi UAdam Drexler, sineenkcukacha.
U-Allyssa uxelele ukuba ukulungele ukudibana nothando lwakhe lokwenyani, ukutshata, nokuba nomntwana xa saqala ukudibana nomodeli oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala ozithembileyo nozimeleyo. Ngenene wayesecicini lokuyishiya le projekthi emva kokudibana kwakhe okudanisayo Nelson, ukudibana kwakhe naye Travis, kunye nokungena okungalindelekanga (okwethutyana) komlandeli wakhe uDaniyeli. Umdlali oqeqeshiweyo owaziwayo kunye nonyana weBasketball Hall of Famer UClyde Drexler, uAdam, wangena emfanekisweni ngelo xesha kwaye wakwazi ukumtshayela ezinyaweni zakhe, eyiguqula ngokusisigxina imbono yakhe.
Ngoxa wayefunda kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, uAllyssa ngempazamo wayekholelwa ukuba uAdam akazange amhoye. Enyanisweni, wayevale iingcango ezininzi ukuze agxile kwi-basketball yexesha elizeleyo. Indoda, eyayikho ngoko Iminyaka engama-27 ubudala, wavuma ngenene ukuba wayesoloko esazi ububele bakhe kunye nokudityaniswa kobuhle bakhe nobukrelekrele bakhe kwaye waziva etsalelekile kwi-aura yakhe, kodwa akazange athathe naliphi na inyathelo. Ngaloo ndlela, ukubonakala kwakhe ekugqibeleni kwamthintela ekubeni aqhubeke nobudlelwane kunye nelungu elidibeneyo UDylan Palladino, intsalela evela Ixesha elidlulileyo likaKasey Ma, kwaye ekugqibeleni wamkhokelela ekubeni ayeke ukukhokela kwiTravis.
U-Allyssa noAdam bahamba ngomhla wabo wokuqala kwi-prom yangasese, nto leyo yayiyeyokuqala kuye, yaye wabonisa ukuba wayenqwenela ukumazi ngcono nangokuthandana ngakumbi ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi. Wambonisa ukuba wayemjonge ngendlela awayengayiqondi nanjengoko wayekwishumi elivisayo ngokumncoma ngokufanelekileyo nangokumbuza yonke imibuzo efanelekileyo. Akuzange kube yinto emangalisayo xa beshiya isandla bebambene kuba babexoxile ngokukhululekileyo ngesihloko ngasinye, ukusuka kwiinjongo zabo ukuya kwiimpawu zabo kwixabiso lenkqubo yenkxaso eqinile kwiintsapho zabo.
UAdam noAllyssa basekunye?
Kwanenkangeleko yomfundi wakhe wekholeji uJeff ayizange itshintshe injongo ka-Allyssa noAdam kuba ngokuthe ngcembe uye waqonda ukuba uvelisa eyona nto ibalaseleyo kuye ngayo yonke indlela. Xa kwafika ixesha lokubuyela kwihlabathi lokwenene, uAdam waguqa ngamadolo ukuze amcenge emva kokuba efumene intsikelelo yabazali bakhe nokwazi ukuba uyifumene. Uthe, Allyssa, esi sisithembiso kuwe ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubomi busithatha phi, ndiya kuhlala ndikuxhasa; Ndihlala ndikhona ngenxa yakho. Esi sisithembiso sokuba ndiza kuhlala ndiwela kuwe emva kokuba siyishiyile le ndawo kunye.
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Ngokwemeko yabo yangoku, sicinga ukuba u-Allyssa no-Adam basekunye ngenxa yokuba baye bavakalisa esidlangalaleni uthando lwabo kwaye babonakala besanxibelelana kwimidiya yoluntu. Nangona bengachazanga ngokucacileyo kuyo nantoni na okanye babelane ngazo naziphi na izithuba kunye njengale ngxelo, imiyalezo yabo yangaphambili efihlakeleyo kwizithuba zokuthengisa okanye ngokuthanda / amagqabantshintshi iye yasikhuthaza. Nakweyiphi na imeko, sinqwenelela umdlali webhasikithi oqeqeshiweyo kunye nemodeli enye into kodwa eyona ilungileyo kwikamva labo
