** Abaphangi be Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni - TW: Ukuboniswa koMzobo woDlwengulo **
Ngexesha lokhenketho lwexesha lesibini le Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba, Umbonisi uBrian Yorkey uthe kwisizini ezayo, izakujongana nezihloko ezinzima ngaphandle kwemizobo ebonisa umboniso odumileyo kwiXesha lokuQala, ngaphandle kokuba kubonakala ngathi loo ngxelo ibigcwele ubuxoki. Ukuphela kwexesha lesibini, kukho enye ukhohlakele imeko yokudlwengulwa.
Njengoko kuchaziwe ngu Ixhalanga :
Kwisiphelo sokugqibela, Bye, umfoti wesikolo uTyler Down udlwengulwe ngokumasikizi xa iimbaleki ezintathu zabafundi zimhlasela kwigumbi lokuhlambela, zityhala intloko yakhe kwindlu yangasese, emva koko zimphathe ngesiphatho esophukileyo. UTyler ushiyeke opha ngasemva, etyumkile, kwaye ehlasimlisile kangangokuba emva koko uvela esikolweni sakhe ngeenjongo zokuqhuba ngokudubula.
Ukubhengezwa ngokupheleleyo, andibukeli Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni. Njengomntu osokolayo neengcinga zokuzibulala, ayilulo uhlobo lomboniso endinokuthi ndilubukele ukonwaba. Ndizamile amatyeli amaninzi, kodwa kuninzi kakhulu ukuba ndingakuphatha. Nangona kunjalo, izigcawu ezinje zenza ukuba ndiwele. Ewe, udlwengulo luyenzeka esikolweni. Ewe, abantwana kunye nolutsha bayazibulala kwaye kufuneka sithethe malunga nezo zinto, kodwa kukho umahluko phakathi kokufuna ukunyaniseka malunga nezinto eziyinyani zokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo kunye nokufa phakathi kolutsha, nokwenza into eyothusayo ebalisayo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, olu dlwengulo lusetyenziswa njengesizathu sokuzama ukudubula abantu abaninzi, kuqinisekisa intsomi yokuba bonke abahlaseli bangamaxhoba ohlobo oluthile lokuxhaphaza.
Indawo ifumene ingqumbo kwimida emininzi ke, ngoMvulo u-Yorkey waya eVulture eyokucacisa ngesigqibo sakhe, esasenzelwe ukukhanyisa ubhubhane kubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini obuyindoda:
Sizibophelele kulo mboniso ekubaliseni amabali ayinyani ngezinto abantu abancinci abadlula kuzo ngokungazinzisi ngendlela esinakho ngayo. Siyaqonda ngokupheleleyo ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba ezinye zeemboniso ziya kuba nzima ukuzibukela. Ndicinga ukuba iNetflix incede ukubonelela ababukeli ngezixhobo ezininzi zokuqonda ukuba oku akunakuba ngumboniso wawo wonke umntu, kunye nezixhobo zabantu ababukeleyo kwaye banengxaki kwaye bafuna uncedo.
Kodwa inyani kukuba, nangona injalo loo ndawo, kwaye yomelele kwaye isabela ngayo, ayisondeli nakubuhlungu obufunyanwa ngabantu abadlula kwezi zinto. Xa sithetha ngento enezothe okanye ekunzima ukuyibukela, ihlala ithetha ukuba sidibanisa iintloni namava. Sikhetha ukuba singadibana nayo. Singathanda ukuba ihlale ngaphandle kwengqondo yethu. Kungenxa yoko le nto ezi ntlobo zohlaselo zingaxelwanga. Yiyo loo nto amaxhoba kunzima ukufumana uncedo. Siyakholelwa ukuba ukuthetha ngayo kubhetele kakhulu kunokuthula.
U-Yorkey ukwathi uyamangaliswa kukuba isikhalo esivela kule ndawo sikhulu kakhulu kunesokudlwengulwa kwabasetyhini kwiXesha lokuQala:
U-Yorkey ukwaphawule ukuba ixesha lokuqala libonisa imiboniso yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, kwaye wabuza ukuba ngaba ezo zigcawu azikhange zibangele uhlobo olufanayo lokubuyela umva kuba amaxhoba yayingabafazi. Isimo esibi kakhulu sokuzibulala kukaHana sasibonakala ngathi sigqumelela into yokuba uHana kunye nenye intombazana badlwengulwa ngogonyamelo ngexesha lokuqala, utshilo. Ukuba kukho umva wokubuyela umva ngale ndawo, ngakumbi kunzima ukuyibukela, 'into elizothe,' okanye engafanelekanga, eya kwinqanaba lokuba kufuneka sithethe ngento yokuba izinto ezinje ziyenzeka. Inyaniso yokuba le nto ingangamasikizi ngandlela ithile kunale yenzekileyo kuHannah noJessica, ndiyothuka kodwa andothuki.
Ngaphandle koko, abantu babecaphukile ngayo. Kungenxa yeso sizathu ukuba nina nigqibe ukwenza loo PSA ekuqaleni komboniso. Yisizathu sokuba ubuzwe kudliwanondlebe malunga nomxholo wegraphic. Ewe, uluntu luphatha udlwengulo lwamadoda nabasetyhini ngokwahlukileyo, kodwa ayisiyiyo le nto kukho umva. Ukubuyela umva kungenxa yokuba imeko yayisoyikeka kwaye isetyenziselwa ukudala uvelwano kumlinganiswa, oza kuqhubeka nokuzama ubundlobongela, endaweni yokuqaqambisa ubundlobongela bokudlwengulwa kwendoda nendoda.
Ukubhalwa kweli nqaku, ndibukele isiqendu esenzeka kuso esi siganeko nakwisiqendu, kuvela u-Anthony Rapp. Kulabo abanokuthi balibale iRapp ngumdlali weqonga owazisa uKevin Spacey ngembali yokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo emadodeni. Wafumana ukugxekwa kwabaninzi kunye nezimvo ezininzi malunga nendlela awamosha ngayo umsebenzi kaSpacey. Andiyi kumangaliswa ukuba iYorkey ifake iRapp ngenxa yezo zinto, kodwa ukubona uRapp kuphela kwenza ukuba imeko yangasemva iphinde indicaphukise.
Akunjalo ngenxa yenkcazo yokudlwengulwa kwamadoda, kodwa indlela yokuxhaphaza ngayo imeko. U-Yorkey uthi ufuna ukuqala incoko, kodwa yintoni eza kuthi xa abafundi abangamadoda abathathu bephosa omnye umntu oyindoda nge-mop ngelixa bembiza ngokuba ngabantu abathandanayo. Ngoba? Kuba ufumene ixesha lebhola yomnyazi? Isimo siqhubeka ixesha elide kwaye sinyanisekile, xa indoda enye ibamba i-mop ukwenza isenzo andazi ukuba kutheni le yile nto ayenzayo.
Akukho ndawo ingwevu. Ukuba yenzelwe ukuba ibe yinkcazo ngobudoda obunetyhefu kwaye ezi zinto ziyenzeka, kulungile, kodwa kutheni le nto ikhokelela kwisizathu sokudutyulwa kwesikolo? Yimeko ehlangeneyo. Mhlawumbi ndilahleka into kuba khange ndibukele lonke uthotho, kodwa emva kokufunda lonke ulwazi lwe-wiki ndizifumana ndisadidekile.
Ukuba umbono kukuba le nto kufuneka ibonwe ukuze ibe nefuthe, oko akunakuphikiswa. Ekuphela kwento abantu abayithethayo xa isiza Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni yindlela ekuzoba ngayo. Ngaba itshintshile indlela abantu abathetha ngayo ngodlwengulo kunye nokuzibulala esikolweni ngaphandle kokuvuma nje?
Xa ndicinga ngomboniso obangele ingxoxo phakathi kweqela labalingane bam malunga nemicimbi emikhulu ngokuqinisekileyo I-Degrassi . Ndikhumbula isiqendu apho uPaige Michalchuk wadlwengulwa khona kwiziqendu Shout 1 & 2 apho uPaige waya epatini wadlwengulwa ngumfana ogama linguDean Walton. Awusoze walubona udlwengulo, kodwa ungqina zonke izinto ezikwazisa ukuba uPaige wayengavumi. Umboniso wenza umsebenzi obalaseleyo wokubonisa indlela abafazi abahlaziswa ngayo, imiqondiso elumkisayo malunga ne-dudes iphathwa njengomona, kunye nendlela onokulinda ngayo iminyaka kwaye ungafumani bulungisa.
Ukumemeza kwaphuma ngo-2002 (2003 e-US) kwaye kulandelwa apho uPaige etyholwa khona eGhose eMatshini iminyaka emibini kamva ngo-2004. Ngexesha lokuvavanywa kwetyala, igqwetha lezomkhosi likaDean libuza uPaige ukuba mangaphi amadoda alala nawo kwaye azama ukubeka ityala kuPaige ngokunyuka uye kwigumbi, ukuqala ngalo. UPaige uzibambela kwaye imeko iyadabukisa, inamandla kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo incoko yokuqalisa incoko ngaphandle kobundlobongela. Ikwaphela kwinqaku elibi kakhulu lalo lonke iDean libaleka ngokudlwengula uPaige kuba akukho bungqina.
I-Degrassi yayingengomboniso ugqibeleleyo kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo wayeyazi indlela yokunyaniseka ngobomi bolutsha ngaphandle kokuzibaxa izinto. Andikwazi ukugweba ukuba Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba kutheni kufanele irhoxisiwe okanye hayi kwaye ngeli xesha, andiqondi ukuba ibalulekile. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba ukubonisa umfana omncinci enesodom akusifundisi nto ukuba akukho nto ngaphandle kobundlobongela. Igcwele nje isandi kunye nobushushu, ingabonakalisi nto.
(umfanekiso: Netflix)
